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my mom caught me masterbating!

Question Posted Wednesday November 11 2009, 5:37 pm

So I was in my room last night and my mom just walked in to bring some towels in and there I was on my bed. :(

She didn't mean anything bad to happen she didn't even think I was there cause I snuck in to do it before I told her I was home. Stupid me!

Anyway, now she is looking at me differently.

What do I do about this?

Has this even happened to anyone else?

I feel terrible! :(

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Eros answered Sunday November 22 2009, 12:26 pm:
It's happened to everyone. Even your mom.

It'll be ok, buddy.

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singledad answered Saturday November 21 2009, 7:01 am:
dont fell terrible i have 3 children in there tenns i have caught every one of them masterbating at some time talk to your perents about it there is nothing a wrong with it

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crazytoad30 answered Sunday November 15 2009, 11:18 pm:
she's just suprised. pretend like nothing happened and eventually everything will go back to normal:)

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Liiindax3 answered Saturday November 14 2009, 3:18 pm:
You are definatley not the only one that this had happened to. This had happened to so many of my friends, and what they did, they talked to their moms/dads about this and how they want to start to understand how their body works in this specific environment.

You should do that too. Sit your mom down and talk to her how interested you are in sex and you think you're ready for "the talk"

It may be awkward at first, but remember, your mom will know more about this subject and you will be informed more so you can be careful while having sex.

Good luck :)<3

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LadyinRed answered Thursday November 12 2009, 3:23 am:
don't feel terrible!!im sure you're mom understands you,,maybe she's still shock,you know this thing happens!!im sure your mom will talk to you,maybe she just waiting for the right time.. if you want you can approach her first,she 's gonna understands you..

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solidadvice4teens answered Wednesday November 11 2009, 9:16 pm:
Why feel terrible? What you were doing is normal and pretty much universal with people your age and society in general. Those who don't usually have cultural reasons or religious ones or just don't like it.

Your mother didn't knock nor did you lock your room so you both are at fault for what transpired. Having said that every parent knows that at some point their teen or pre-teen will regularly engage in this activity.

That said it's still hard for them to talk about it to their kids or deal with it if they witness it by walking in on someone.

You never mentioned if you were male or female. It would help to say which as it would be easier for a mother to approach a female than a male about it. Odds are she will say nothing and it won't unless you approach her with the subject. She's as equally embarrassed as you are hence why she's acting differently.

For now say nothing more about it unless it comes up and be careful about your privacy from here on out so it doesn't happen with others or again with her. If she wants someone to talk to you if you're a male she'll get your father to but it would seem she just wants it to be a non-discussed issue.

This happens to a lot of people so you certainly aren't the only person to deal with it. 99.99% of the time parents will only speak about it if you are the same sex or if you aren't will have their spouse of the opposite sex address it.

Trust me, they're probably very aware that you're doing it already or know like most teens have. It's no big deal unless you blow this up into one. It's likely a non-issue with either parent unless you bring it up which you really don't need to do. I'd relax about it.

This stuff happens. The more unfazed the better chance she'll forget it. The other thing is that parents would rather teens do this than have sex or get pregnant anyways. She may even be apt to tell you or your father might that they were once in your position. It's no big deal.

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sunshine1232 answered Wednesday November 11 2009, 8:19 pm:
I wouldn't approach her right away i'd give it sometime to die down and give her some space she's probably still surprised from what she saw give it a few days and once you feel ready talk to her and see how it goes this hasn't happened to me seeing as i don't do that type of stuff :)

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