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Like the question states, I can't get my mom to back off. I still live and home and will probably be here until I graduate college (2 yrs) because of Covid-19. My mom always wants me to do stuff for her. Because I'm the most capable person in my home (lazy brother and equally lazy, freeloading cousins), I feel like she exploits me. She's wearing me out. I don't have a waking moment where this woman just lets me live. If you don't willingly do what she wants, she subtly makes you feel bad. I helped my brother with his schoolwork since the pandemic on top of my workload, I do chores, I help her out, but that's not enough for her. I could go on and on here. It's so bad, that I'm reluctantly trying to get into med school or anything else post-grad just to get out of this city and away from her, loans be damned. No one understands that I run out of energy and fatigue easily, even as a 20 y/o. I do a lot in my home, and I deserve to be left alone. She's annoying and this pandemic is no help either. What can I do? Am I just overreacting here? Thanks.

You need to sit your mother down have a conversation with her about the situation she won’t understand how what you’re feeling if you don’t tell her she can’t read your mind she isn’t a mind reader there is no reason why if you don’t willingly do what she want’s she’ll make you feel bad a mother should never do that there’s no need for that especially now since you do a lot for her you need to make her realize she is wearing you out you feel she is exploiting you you should also mention you want your brother and cousin’s to help out more there’s no reason why they can’t help out shouldn’t be helping out they live in the same house you do they can contribute saying they’re lazy is just a excuse there’s no reason why your brother and cousin’s should be considered freeloader’s when they’re capable able to help out but are probably choosing not to not wanting to you can’t expect your mom to completely leave you alone not expect you to help out since you’re living in the same house as her i do think you’re overreacting because the situation can be controlled if you just tell your mother how what you’re feeling make her aware of your feeling’s if you don’t speak up say something she’ll never know her action’s behavior is affecting you bothering you

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I am a 17 year old boy from India. In my school I had a classmate whom I didn't get along so well. Even today after two years of graduating out of school, he still continues to persist me at reunions. The thing is he still bullies me because I don't have the confidence to go up and talk to girls. I mean he has better social life than me. I am trying to overcome that anxiety though. With that point he continuously roasts me in front of everyone. But if I give back or retaliate all he says is this- 'No one is talking to you'. This makes me even more pissed. And plus I can't find any weak spot of his to roast him back. I am fed up. I literally see his face and I am so disgusted. And plus nobody will be ready to support me. How do I deal with him alone? I need your advice.

Honestly i would be the bigger person and walk away if you stick around he’ll continue to bully you the longer you stick around near him you’re giving him more of a reason to bully you you’re adding more fuel to the fire you shouldn’t have to find a weak spot to roast him back you shouldn’t have to feel fed up you shouldn’t have to be put in that position if you walk away then you aren’t subjecting yourself to him bullying you you deserve better you’ve got to think of yourself you have to realize you’ve graduated out of school you aren’t obligated don’t have to give him any of your attention or time he is no longer your classmate he isn’t worth your time or attention you trying to find a weak spot of his to roast him with since he is the one who is bullying you it’s not like he is treating you nicely it would be a different story if he was then you wouldn’t be put in this situation position i would ultimately walk away and be the bigger person don’t get yourself down to his level he isn’t worth it

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OK, I've been friends with this girl on social media for a few months, and am contemplating starting a long-distance relationship with her (I posted a question on here about it not so long ago), as we're in two different countries. The 2 of us are very similar people, with the same interests, and similar personalities. But one of the things that kind of puts me off starting a relationship is the age gap- I'm only 16, and she's 19. I'm not planning to do anything sexual or anything, but am just kind of worried that even if she is interested in me the same way I'm interested in her, that the age will throw her off. Apart from the age difference, we're very similar people and I wouldn't want to mess up the friendship I have with her already by the age gap being an issue. I just want something a bit more than friendship- have had 2 major crushes in the past, and both of them ended up being horrible people. I finally found a nice person that I have feelings for, and there's an age gap obstacle in the way. What should I do? Is this too big of an age gap?

Honestly i think you should wait until you’re 18 so you don’t have to question about the age gap same goes for her since you’re concerned about it if you wait you’ll be close enough to her age and there won’t be a concern if you don’t want to ruin your friendship with her then i wouldn’t rush into thing’s i wouldn’t try and rush into a relationship right away you‘ve got all the time in the world to even more develop your similarities interest’s personalities and just be a friend to her get to know her i mean you already know you have feeling’s for her so that isn’t a issue just because there is a age difference now doesn’t mean there won’t be one in the future when you get older if you feel you can hold out until you turn 18 get older then you should there really is no rush like i said you’ve got all the time in the world you’ve got your whole life ahead of you!

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So, Ive been with this guy for a few months now. He’s great, and I love him so much. He is my first boyfriend. Last year ,my mom found out about this, and we broke up for a while. Then we eventually got back together because we were in the same school. Im now back in keeping things private and suggested that we should just have an open relationship so that we can just figure out if this is really for us or not. The problem is, I don’t wanna hurt my mom anymore. She was really mad and hurt about us and she even thought about shutting me out from the family. I don’t want anyone to be in that mess anymore. I’m at a point where i regret everything. I should’ve just let him go long ago, but I didn’t. I was really invested in him and I thought that he was the one. But right now, it really seems bleak. We’re both young and I know we’ll meet more people but he doesn’t want to. He thinks I’’m the only one for him and my mom didn’t like him at all .What should i do?

I would respect your mother’s wishes she is your mother after all if you truly don’t want to hurt your mother anymore then don’t she doesn’t deserve to be hurt your relationship isn’t worth losing your mother family over at the end of the day when your relationship end’s your mother family is what you’ll have left you don’t want to take the risk of it truly getting to the point of you being shut out of your family and being left with nothing you don’t want to have to rebuild your relationship with your family gain their trust back right now you need to do what’s best for you since you regret everything and you could lose your family your best option is to end your relationship since thing’s seem bleak it isn’t fair to you or your boyfriend to keep your relationship private you have to realize that thing’s happen you can’t blame yourself be hard on yourself for you being really invested in your boyfriend it make’s sense i would end your relationship sooner rather than later before thing’s become even more crazier you don’t deserve the craziness when thing’s becoming worst can all be avoided

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Hello, I'm sixteen years old and my boyfriend just turned seventeen in January. We've been dating for about a month and a half now and I really like him! No one has treated me this well for a while. However, he's going to prison soon. He's facing up to twenty years and I don't know what to do. He's currently out on PR bond and we've discussed the aftermath.He doesn't want me to wait on him but I don't want to move on.. Any ideas on how to process this?

I agree with your boyfriend about him not wanting you to wait
on him you’d be putting yourself through even more if you tried to wait on him it’s not like he is going to prison then getting out why put yourself through even more hurt when causing even more can be avoided? No matter how much you don’t want to move on from him you need to for yourself it isn’t fair right to you to only visit him in prison have time limit’s be limited to how much you see him how much time you can spend with him that isn’t a relationship you’re young you deserve better you don’t deserve to constantly see your boyfriend in a prison setting sadly there isn’t much you can do right now expect be considerate of yourself you can’t change the fact that your boyfriend is going to prison or that he doesn’t want you waiting on him that is his decision he is thinking of you you need to do the same and think of yourself you owe it to yourself right now to focus on you since the situation is a difficult one and out of your control

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So basically. I just found out my father has malignant melanoma. It's a skin cancer. I have a sister and she tends to get EXTREMELY nervous for these kind of situation so I understand her feelings. She proceeds to text me today telling me she felt like crap about the situation and to top it off she was mad at me for calling her ungrateful to her child's father. They have been broken up for some time but she still seems to be attached and gets jealous every time he seems to try to move on. I have told her over and over that she is an ungrateful bitch because she truly is. The point is, she only knew about it because she went through my phone while I was sleeping. I honestly get where she is coming from but I feel like she was wrong for going through my phone.

Your sister has every right to be mad at you for you calling her ungrateful how can you expect her not to be? You wouldn’t like it if being called ungrateful was done to you nobody deserve’s to be called ungrateful especially by their own family member you’re her sister you’re her family you should be there for her especially now because your father’s health is declining she doesn’t need you calling her ungrateful during this time you owe her a apology how your sister act’s toward’s her child’s father is her business she is her own person you can’t control her you can’t control how she act’s what she does she’ll do what she want’s you can’t blame her for getting jealous if she’s still attached to her child’s father it make’s sense i agree with you her going through your phone while you slept was very wrong and low of her especially while you slept you weren’t aware of her going through your phone she didn’t respect you your privacy she invaded your privacy i’m sure she wouldn’t like it if someone looked through her phone it was done to her so it shouldn’t of happened to you

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So I wanted a phone last year for my birthday but I didn’t get it. And every opportunity after that I couldn’t so I went up a few models( iPhone 6 to iPhone 8 Plus) when I shared my desire for the phone with my sister she shut down the idea of getting that phone, saying ``our mom wouldn’t get it because it was expensive, and it wouldn’t be right to get a phone that was more better than what she has(iPhone 6)". So her birthday was last month and she wanted to upgrade to a iPhone 7 but my mom couldn’t do it at the moment, and plus we discovered a couple of things that proved her unworthy of it anyway( trust me it was bad😤). But right after she did get enough money to buy me the iPhone 8 Plus, and so I ordered it, it arrived and I planned on hiding it from my sister but I left it out and she now knows and has confronted my mom, and is clearly angry. I am not asking how my mom should handle it, but I would like to know how should I handle it? Is my mom wrong? And what from this point on?

No your mom isn’t wrong she did nothing wrong sometime’s in life we can’t get the thing’s we want when we want them right away thing’s happen sometime’s we have to wait i know your sister is allowed to say her opinion but she shouldn’t be speaking for your mother making her look bad putting word’s in your mother’s mouth since i don’t think your sister paid for the phone it seem’s like your sister is jealous that you were able to get a phone and she wasn’t you shouldn’t have to hide your phone from your sister she brought her proving herself unworthy on herself she is her own person your sister shouldn’t be confronting your mother when she brought what has happened to her on herself i would tell your sister that she shouldn’t of confronted your mother she has no reason to be angry she had a chance to get a phone but her proving herself unworthy made that chance disappear how does your sister expect you all to feel react if what your sister did was really that bad? She can’t expect you all to have no reaction to her proving herself unworthy and it being that bad

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Whenever I am upset with my dad he says i can't just leave the conversation and i have to finish it . I have learned this. But whenever he is upset with me, like I am asking him a question about why he did something that he doesn't like to talk about. He will just cut me off and say "i have enough or your bitichin' " and keep telling me he's done until all i can do is leave and it never gets resolved. what should I do? I don't know how to make him see he is being contradicting and arrogant.

I would try and have a heart felt conversation with him sit him down make him aware that him cutting you off and saying what he is to you is really affecting you bothering you also mention nothing is getting resolved by you leaving or your dad cutting you off not allowing you to speak that happening isn’t helping anything your dad won’t know how you’re feeling unless you tell him he can’t read your mind you deserve for him to give you his attention you deserve for him to listen to you when something is bothering you and not cutting you off saying he’s done that isn’t fair right to you tell him you want for thing’s to get resolved and for thing’s to not be left unresolved without closure you deserve to have peace of mind for yourself

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Where do I begin. I have been single since I was 21 (I am now 29). There has been no prospects and not for the lack of trying. My life feels empty.

It started valentines day. Usually I am sad. This year.. there was no feelings. Nothing. Empty. Dark.

Today I realized how I have lost hope.. in love, in ever having a family. My life feels empty and I feel like I don't have anything to look forward too.

My therapist says she doesn't think that my story is over, and that I will find someone, she has hope for me. I just don't know how to see that hope for myself. I have been crying for 8 hours on and off. I don't want to end life..and never would but I don't know how to live like this when all is hopeless.

No love life.. and often home alone. Friends are all busy living their lives or enjoying their family. I've talked to friends before.. this will get better. You will find someone. It just takes time they say.

It's been years of waiting. I also don't want to worry my parents by talking to them. I feel nothing can be don't to make this better. I don't know how to be okay. And that scares me. What if I'm never okay again.

Any advice welcome

First off you aren’t alone because i feel the same way you do not so much with the aspect of love but with life feeling empty not having much to look forward to Valentine’s Day is hard on everyone who is single but you’ve got to realize even though you don’t have anyone to spend Valentine’s Day with that doesn’t mean you can’t treat yourself do something nice for yourself on that day as far as your life feeling empty thing’s don’t happen over night they take time Rome wasn’t built in a day for example it take’s people many tries to find job’s it take’s them many tries to pass their driver’s test get their license life isn’t a competition there isn’t a law that say’s you have to find love succeed have children at a certain age everyone is different everyone goes at their own pace some right away other’s it take’s awhile don’t be so hard on yourself i agree with your therapist your story isn’t over you’ve got your whole life ahead of you you will find someone you were meant to live the life you were given thing’s will get better they can’t stay bad horrible forever thing’s can’t stay hopeless everyone has good day’s bad day’s i would distract yourself keep yourself busy your mind busy so your thought’s don’t drift to the empty feeling!

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I'm in a long distance relationship, we are both in different universities far from eachother. Over the summer break,we bonded so well, we were close and I fell in love over again.Then he left for school, and I'm still at home.The problem here is that anytime we get back to school, we fight over everything like he blames me about not chatting up with him and checking up on him, meanwhile he knows I'm always busy and I do once I get the chance. The real problem now is that anytime I decide to call him, he's always telling me he's busy and I should call him back in an hour. It's painful cs anytime he says that, he makes me feel unwanted. After he says that, I don't talk to him anymore cs I loose interest in us.. It's not once neither is it twice he has done it.. He does it most times and I'm tired of it.. It feels like we are going more distant by day and it's painful cs I decided over d break to give my all into the relationship.. I need advice .

If he isn’t willing to put effort into the relationship then i don’t think it is worth it for you both to be in one you don’t deserve to feel unwanted or feel tired of it there is a problem when he has done what he did twice he’ll do it again and him blaming you it isn’t fair to you that you are being blamed communication works both ways he can communicate with you too make a effort with everything you are describing it seems like red flags you don’t deserve to feel what you have been feeling if he isn’t willing to give his all in the relationship like you are then i think it’s time for you to move on ultimately you need to do what’s right for you and what will make you happy you shouldn’t have to feel like you are both growing more distant being in a relationship shouldn’t be painful you shouldn’t lose interest in the person you deserve better i would move on

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My parents call me all the time! They sometimes call me 6-10 times a day and some of those calls last 60mins +. I am 26 yrs old and my parents are in their mid 50's. My dad has a habit of calling me and complaining about how much he hates his job and its the same conversation over and over again.

Everything he tells me is seriously toxic and wears me down. He talks about death, money, and how much his job and life sucks. I told him once to find a therapist and talk it out with them like I do.

I am having a hard time blocking him and distancing myself because I feel guilty. He puts this guilt trip on me that when he passes away I would of wished I answered more etc. things like this. I do not have many friends so I do hang out with my parents a lot more than I should.

My mom also has nothing good to say. How can I create healthy boundaries??


I live with my significant other so thankfully i do not live with them. (they are divorced for 15 yrs+)

I would tell your father to see a therapist it isn’t fair to you that what he says wears you down you shouldn’t have to feel like that especially since you are his daughter that isn’t how a father daughter relationship should be you shouldn’t feel guilty because from the sound of it you do answer your father’s calls and listen to what he has to say more then you should you are doing what a daughter should be don’t let him make you feel guilty you are giving him the attention he is wanting i would really encourage your father to see a therapist and voice how he is feeling to them by you doing that you aren’t blocking him out you are simply guiding him in the direction towards help

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I'm 23 and just got hired as a server for a new restaurant. I have always wanted to do it to push myself to meet people and be more outgoing and to make a good amount of money in a short time. I have social anxiety and get overwhelmed sometimes with simple conversation.

I have a job coach that applied a bunch of applications for me and the only one that gave me a chance is this restaurant. The manager is really nice. They want outgoing and friendly people. I don't want to mess this job up. How do I be a good server and not be so anxious/shy?

Think positively if you think negatively then negativity is what you’ll have your mindset has to be positive you have to be confident believe in yourself a job is something positive you’ll be making money for yourself the fact that you were hired and will be serving is a big step even though you have no experience you will be trained the restaurant will not have you serve customers right away without you not being trained not knowing what to do even though you have social anxiety get overwhelmed you can’t allow that to stop you you can’t put limit’s roadblocks up for yourself because that won’t get you anywhere be proud of yourself that you got a job

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I am 26 years old and recently got offered a job for 45k. Not a bad starting salary for someone without a degree. I know this sounds ridiculous but I love November and December time of year, and I would be starting this position on November 27th (Cyber Monday). There is no other training on any other dates. I'm so used to having this time to go christmas shopping/black friday etc.) I know sounds childish but it is important to me. I do have savings to get me by until March. My heart is not set with this career path but it is the highest salary I have been offered. I do not like working in a cubicle, and feel I shine best in a retail environment and the stigma for working there at my age is terrible and the pay is low. However, I love fast paced env.

The last 7 years I have been living with my partner who pays for my car, my insurance, and I have no rent payment. Seeing that I have no bills of my own to pay for I can always fall back on him. I do however pay my own food and gas though. I had 20+ jobs in the last 6 years. I do have a part time job but only working 5 hours a week there.

I suffer a great deal from anxiety/depression and I do seek therapy once a week for the last 5 yrs and I'm on meds but may be holding me back not sure.

I really would try this job if it was not for the holiday season, ,which I understand is only 1 day. But I feel so anxious I will not enjoy it as much because if I take this job my life will be a complete 360 with no time for anything and the holiday wont even be enjoyable.

I would definitely take the job not many people get offered a job for 45k so in your case you are one of the lucky one’s who did it’s a once and a lifetime opportunity take the offer while it still stands while you still have a chance because if you don’t you could end up regretting the fact that you didn’t and you’ll still be relying depending on your partner why fall back on him when you have a chance not to? You shouldn’t allow the holiday season to stop you from working you have your whole life to celebrate the holiday’s even if you can’t celebrate this year there is always next year not to mention you can shop on your days off do something special when you have free time your life won’t be a complete 360 with no time for anything because by law employers have to give their employees day’s off you’ll still be able to do what you want i would definitely go for it and not let the chance slip away you are being offered something not most people get the chance to have since the majority of job’s pay minimum wage

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Hi 18/F
I want to move out of my mom's house asap. She keeps calling me names and making life unbearable for me. I hate going home. I don't have a job yet but I'm really almost there. I considered staying 5 more months but I can't take it anymore. My bf said i can move in with him but we've only been togheter for 2 monthes and my mom would flip because "what's the family and town going to say". I'm to scared to talk to her because she'll fiscally harm me. Please help?

If your situation has reached the point where your mom calls you names and is making your life unbearable then move out of her house why should you continue to live there if you are miserable? It isn’t fair to you you can’t worry about what your family or the town will think because you are living your life for you not for anyone else not for your mom you are your own person even though you are her daughter you need to do what’s right for you what will make you happy i would move in with your boyfriend while his offer still stands he is giving you a chance to escape from your house escape from your mom you may only get that chance offer once so take it while you can while he’s still offering if she harms you you have every right to call the police no mother should ever physically harm lay a hand on their children you don’t deserve to be harmed hurt

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Hey , um i really fell in love with this girl , and we really wanna get married and have our own life.But there is one problem though , i discovered that she is a atheist :( , and according to my religion ,Islam , Guys cannot marry non Muslims unless they convert , or at least the kids would be Muslims.Islam is not strict or anything but its just a major law that must be followed.i don't know I'm thinking about giving up my religion for her but i would be in deeeeep shit , ill lose my relationship with my mother , sister and friends:(. I tried to make her convert but she just doesnt believe in the existence of god , should i try harder or what.what can i do , i really love her.should i give up my religion ?:(

Your stuck between a rock and a hard place you really need to think if you giving up your religion for her and loosing your relationship with your mother sister friends is really worth it i know you really love her but something's aren't worth loosing you may not be able to get them back if you make that decision it's your choice and yours only if you want to give up your religion for her nobody can make the choice for you both you and her need to come to some type of agreement to smooth out the situation make it better you can't try to convert her you can't force her to do anything she doesn't want to her being atheist is her belief what she believes in she probably feels strongly about it no you shouldn't try harder if you do that could annoy her and you'll risk scaring her off and that's the last thing you need you don't want to create more problems for yourself

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21/f, 28/m

I have been with this guy for 7 months now. I know I must be reading too much into this, but I noticed that he posted on Facebook that a woman older then him, asked him a few questions because he looked so young and was curious as to how he got his job, etc. His friends commented on it saying that he should have asked her out on a date, that she was into him, etc. He liked the comments but said that she was a bit too old and not his type. Which, pretty much made it clear that nobody really knows about me.

I've asked him before if anybody knows that he's seeing me, he said no. He says he's a private person who doesn't talk about himself a lot. A close friend of his knows about me and so does his house mates (my guess is because they see me at their house), but that's about it.

I'm the type of person who tells others if he/she asks if I'm seeing anybody. Which, majority of the time, people do ask. It seems like he's somewhat bothered by it but I don't really understand why.

I know there's a difference between secrecy and privacy, but it makes me curious if he's keeping me a secret and telling other people that he's not seeing anybody when they ask. Am I thinking too much into it or should I just wait for awhile before talking about it with him?

I would confront him about it sooner rather then later by you waiting a while before talking about it with him your wasting time that won't get you anywhere i think he's shady it's shady that he hasn't told anyone about you he's acting like your relationship him dating you is a bad
thing it's almost like he's ashamed him telling you he's a private person is ridiculous that's a excuse i would end it with him it isn't right fair to you you deserve to be treated better and not like a secret you shouldn't be kept hidden that's ridiculous you don't deserve that he should feel be proud to date you and it seems like he isn't find yourself another better guy one that won't treat you the way he is you deserve better

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so i dumped this guy and now he is calling me stupid telling people i am dating these ugly guys and calling me gay in the bad way but i wish he meant happy i don't even like him anymore so i need you help on what to do any advice would be nice thanks! i love typing lol but also please help!

Even though you broke up with him you need to confront him and tell him to stop saying making things up about you that aren't true if you ignore what's he's doing he'll continue to do it and that won't get you anywhere you need to speak up and tell him to stop he isn't a mind reader can't read your mind i really think he's acting childish breakup's happen all the time they aren't anything new he needs to get
over it and move on

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ok,so i got my first lip piercing about two weeks ago. than,got two more took two out cause they were crooked. i,found another piercer and he did my kinda of like snake bites piercing. he,says they are straight but I'm I'm obsessing now about this cause i can't tell if they are even or if it just swelling. he,swears they are straight but ya this is my first full day of having them so any advice on the topic??

I don't think the piercer would lie to you since their professional's and know what their doing not to mention he swore their straight they gave you their word i would wait for the swelling to fully go down and for it to heal before jumping to conclusions if you still aren't satisfied once that happens get another opinion visit another piercer you could always get different opinions from people like your friends family maybe that will give you peace of mind :)

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Hi, so this past month I notcied this guy looking at me a lot, and he is 2 years older than me. When I mean a lot, I mean a lot, like he'll stare at me. On Thursday, I was leaving the library and he was there and he looked at me, as if checking me out or something, with his mouth opened. And one of these days, we were in the same class, and he was literally staring at me. When I looked up to catch his eye, he quickly turned away, as always. On Friday, I'd always catch him looking in my direction. We were eating and he was passing and we glanced at each other and that happened repeatedly. Yesterday, however, I got to talk to him more than I usually do. We actually had a conversation and I got to stand really close to him and it was awesome. Later, we sat in a circle with other people and whenever somebody was talking, we'd always make eye contact. But I'm still not sure if he does like me because before (exception of yesterday) he always seemed either shy around me or he'd look at me as if I was perhaps pissing him off or something whenever I'd try to talk to him. Like last week, I was asking his friend about something but I by accident interrupted their conversation, but I really didn't mean to and he literally just stared at me. Does he like me or no? If so, what can I do to get closer to him??

I do think he likes you is interested in you him constantly staring looking at you is a good positive sign it would be a different story if he wasn't staring at all or if he was doing it very little but that isn't the case in order to get closer to him you should talk to him create conversation get to know him better maybe exchange numbers when you feel comfortable ready you can't continue to stare look at each other that was a good start but now it's time to move on over time allow time to bring you closer give it time for him to want to hang out with you don't force or pressure him when he's ready he'll make it known to you

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I'm 15/f and let me clarify this is not my first this. I've actually kissed quite a few guys over the course of a few years. This will be my first kiss with this new guy though and we both like each other. We've cuddled at this one party and people said we kissed but we both couldn't remember since we were drunk. We have hung out a couple times and we are going out to lunch tomorrow and i think he might kiss me.. What can I do not to be nervous??

The only thing you can really do is not overthink the kiss if you overthink it you'll make yourself nervous scared freak yourself out and that's the last thing you need be confident believe in yourself doing those two things will get you further a long way then overthinking it's not like your both strangers you've hung out with each other plus you've had many kisses before so you already know what to expect they aren't something new to you

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