Q: Hi my name is Chrissy and i'm 17,

Last month I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 and 1/2 years. It was my choice and I know he's upset about it. I now havwe a new oyfriends of a hew weeks and all of a sudden my ex sent me a message on myspace saying "we need to talk...please". I'm not sure exactly what it meant, but I know that I dont want to go back out with him or talk to him now. I don't want to deal with his bull-crap anymore. But I'm not sure if I should say something or not.... what should I do?

Q: 18/female. senior in high school. this may be long but i'll return the favor to anyone who helps!!:)

i've liked this guy joe for a while now .. i use to give him all the attention and do whatever he wanted me to (not sexually) but everything else because i was basically so in love with him but he never knew. i've probably liked him for 4 years now but couldn't do anything about it because he had a girlfriend of 3 years. Now there broken up. Anyways, i just cant tell if he likes me or not. We're actually really good friends, i'm comfortable around him. now, i dont give him all the attention, i try to not show much interest and look like an annoying attached girl. well tonight me and my friend hung out with like 7 of the hockey guys, including joe. we were all hanging out at this kids house and i was wearing a sweatshirt and tshirt but still looked really cute:) i had my hair curled and everything .. i didnt even know i was going to be seeing joe! but one of the guys like slapped me with his belt and it hurt really bad and then joe came with his friend and i was like JOE!! i need you to protect me. okay that might sound like im giving him attention haha but i hadnt seen him for like a month. so he came and sat by me and then i asked his friend if i could talk to him in private because my friend liked joes friend and i wanted to see what he thought about her. well so then me and joes friend went into a different room and all the dumb guys (but not joe) were like use protection bla bla. so i was talking to him for like 5 min and then joe comes walking in. i have a feeling he may have been jealous that i was alone with his friend .. i dont know why he would have walked in??? And then joe was like behind me like humping me haha and i was like joe stop (even though i liked it;) haha!! and then he was trying to pull down my pants. i had my period so i deff was not going to let him lol and then we all went back out and i ended up playing fooseball with 3 of the guys and i was cheering and being goofy and joe kept looking over, i could see in the corner of my eye. well then joe had to go, and he was saying bye to people but he never said anything to me :( i was playing fooseball so i dont know if thats why or what?? and i havent talked to him since, i was hoping maybe he would text me or something but nope!! just some signs makes me feel like he likes me, but i cant ask because if he doesnt then that would make our friendship awkward. i wish he would just make a move if he did. i hope i'm not giving off the wrong signals either, like saying stop when hes flirting with me, but i dont want to just sit there and be obvious that i like it? what do you guys think??

Q: I had unprotected sex last night, but i just got off my period a few days ago. He didnt go inside me, he pulled out way before he had to go. What are my chances of getting pregnant, im kind of scared.

Q: okay well im in tenth grade right now. and i dated a boy in sixth grade well call him C. we went out for the whole year but we were just young kids so it wasnt anything big. i broke up with him but in eighth grade he was in my class and we flirted a little but nothing to make us go out again. iv never really lost an interest in him but i just left it alone. in ninth grade i texted him once saying that i heard our song on the radio and we flirted a bit so i was getting more feelings for him. after a while i strait out and told him i really liked him, he said he was talking to a girl and there about to go out. then a few months after we were flirting again but just stopped when i found out he was talking to another girl. now i got a facebook and he added me. i commented a picture of him with his abs showing and we both used alot of winky faces in our conversation. i doubt anything will happen but hes just so PERFECT in my eyes. abs. virgin. doesnt smoke or drink. just the kind of guy i like. i dont want to give up on him cuz i know our relationship would be amazing. any suggestions on how to make him like me? please dont tell me to just give up cuz iv tried that and i cant.

Q: there is this guy that I know likes me he texts me after school and talks to me. So for the past month I haven't had my phone and I know he was starting to doubt if I had really had my phone taken away which I did by the way. He told me to text him when I got my phone back but I forgot to text him yesterday when I got my phone back yesterday. So this morning he tested me say happy thanksgiving and I replied to him he then didn't text back. So like 2 hours later I texted him and he hasn't replied. I don't know I he is man at me or something. I think he thought I wasn't going to text back because I told him I didn't have my phone so he now probably thinks I am a liar. That is not true though I dealt don't want him to me mad at me. What can I do? Is he mad?

Q: So basically, my mom's boyfriend who have been together since I was a little baby (I'm 15) has basically been my dad to me. I just started calling him my stepdad to people just because its just easier to say. a thought popped into my head one day and I thought about just calling him dad. But I feel like it would be completely awkward. I feel awkward just thinking about it. Like he was kind of on my bad side before last year for awhile because of his temper and him raising his voice and getting mad over the stupidest things. For instants, he yelled at me because I opened a drink, took a sip, didn't like it, put it back in the fridge saying I would get it back later, and he flipped because I just wasted something. I really hated him then. but now everything seems really okay, and he actually started to say 'i love you' to me. it felt kind of great but awkward. i told him the same back but I left. Would it be a good idea to call him 'dad'?

Q: my friend sophie used to be INLOVE with my brother for 2 YEARS!!! my brother has never had any interest in her what so ever. they have hooked up and had sex for all of 2 minutes.. but to him its just a fling..then she goes all crazy in love with him as soon as she gets over him. but i dont believe someone that has been in love for 2 years can get over a guy in just 1 day.. that seems highly impossible. shes always talking about him badly so all i say is 'ok' or 'hmmm' after she says somethng. then shes all like 'dont you even care what im saying..he has HURT me' and i was like hes my brother soo what do you expect me to say!? i dont really know what to do about her. shes always talking bout my brother. i said to her i didnt really wanna hear it. but its most days. does she still love him? or is she just trying to piss me off ??

Q: My sister is 15-years-old. We have had problems with her for years, she doesn't do anything anyone tells her, has screaming tantrums on a daily basis, steals from us and more recently has been kicked out of school.

Today I found out that she is pregnant by her boyfriend of six months. I am absolutely livid. This is my final year of school and I will be taking important exams around the time that the baby is due. It is also my 18th birthday next week, which is a pretty big deal as I live in the UK, and we were planning a big party with family and friends. Obviously this is now being completely overshadowed.

I know I'm being selfish for just thinking about myself but for years I have suffered as a result of her behaviour, baring the brunt of my parents' anger and finding it really difficult to stay at home as the constant noise and arguments are too much. This feels like the last straw. This year is so important for me and instead of fully supporting me, my parents are going to be preoccupied with this.

I know she might not even end up having the baby as it is very early days and she hasn't made any decisions yet, but I am furious with both her and my parents, who I partially blame for this. Ever since she got together with her boyfriend I told my parents I didn't think it was a good idea to let her stay at his house and that she wasn't using protection but no one listened to me. They are now angry with me for being upset. My sister and I had a bad relationship anyway but now I don't want her anywhere near me. As far as I'm concerned she has ruined what is going to be one of the most important years of my life.

What should I do? I honestly don't think I can bare being anywhere near her, let alone live with her, especially if she decides to keep the baby. I can hardly look at my parents because I'm so angry about their attitude and the way they're dealing with it.

Q: my boyfriend used to smoke alot of weed his freshman and sophomore year (hes a senior now) he hasn't done it since but today he told me he did. when i told him that i didn't like it and he knows that he told me not to worry and that he won't become a pothead. but idk...like i don't want to be the pushy gf that yells at him for doing it...then he's gonna feel like he has to hide it from me...but idk i just don't want my boyfriend to do that then me having to kiss him...what should i do?

Q: I honestly need help with girls, like i dont know what is wrong with me.

I am 16 years old/ Male.
junior in high school

for some odd reason, i havent had my way with girls in a LONG time. like i cant even remember the last time i had a girlfriend, or even just a fling with a girl. I have no idea what is wrong with me. I am NOT fat or ugly or anything. I would say i am just average. I'm 5'7, medium build, no acne, asian. I'm not hideous or anything, and i'm NOT creepy or anything either. i have friends and all, i live pretty chill life, but girls is my main weakness. They always act like i have something wrong about me. WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME? EVERY time i try to even take a next step, they get scared and run away.

So i try to go slower, than they say i go too slow and run away. GAHHH what do i do? help me please.

Q: Hey, my name is Nikki. My brother is 18 and his friends come around ALL THE TIME! So when I have my friends over, there always over. My brothers friends are like my brothers, because I have known them for SO long. My friend Jess was over one time and was like "whose that? hes hot" (talking about brothers friend carl) So i was like carl.. and shes like hes hot as. So she went on bebo and went through my list to get my brothers bebo so she could get carls bebo. Now they talk. So, i made a rule.. saying "none of the girls over when the guys are over" so she was like why?? and i was like because you girls (when my other girl mates are over) always flirt with him and stuff. Now they are going to have sex sometime soon! She always talks about him, which bugs me. They can talk to each other if they wanna talk about each other. It feels like she only wants to come over when hes over. What do I do? Ive explained how i feel and what my rules are between the too. I dont care if they have sex, because thats not my choice. I just dont want it to overcome our realtionship. And ive told her that we arnt going to talk about carl again because it grosses me out. Bestfriend + brother = :S.. soo what do I do now ?

Q: i've been head over heels in love with the same guy for about a year and a half. we've broken up a few times, but got back together usually within a few weeks or a month. well this go round, we're trying not to get too serious. like, we don't even call eachother "boyfriend/girlfriend" and because we don't do that, we're not fighting as much because there's no pressure tag hanging over our heads.

a few times a while back, we'd talk about the future; kids, marriage, moving in together, etc. and i thought he and i were on the same page about all that. well, now we're together but not as serious? and i asked him the other day if he ever plans to get married, but not to me, just anybody. and he said he didnt know. that actually semi-shocked me. so now i'm thinking we're no longer on the same page about our futures. like i knew we wouldnt be agreeing on every little thing, for instance, i wanna stay put, he wants to travel. he wants to go to college, and i wanna be done with school after 12th grade. i want kids early in life, he wants time to party and THEN have kids.

my plan is the stereotypical family plan, i wanna get married and have no more than two kids. and i want my boyfriend to be my husband and the father of my kids. but from what he's been implying, i dont think thats gonna happen. i want to talk to him about it in depth, but i don't want to make him feel cornered. and i know this is kind of a stupid topic to bring up to him, but i hate feeling like i'm working so hard for something just to find out that my time has been so terribly wasted. so i want to find out about this from him NOW, not later in the future. because if he doesnt want what i want, then i want to end this relationship before i get too badly attached, (i did get very attached to him at one point and became very depressed when he dumped me, obviously, don't want that to happen again,)

anyone with any sort of advice, please let me know. by the way, i wouldn't care if it was what i wanna hear, or if you wanna tell me that i'm an obsessive compulsive bitch, go right ahead. i just need advice. thanks, and sorry this is so long.

Q: 13 almost 14f
i get REALLY turned on when i smell dudes clone. is this normal or strange?

thanks(:

Q: so im 16/ f. theres a guy i've liked on and off for the past year. this time tho, i really like him more.

hes the same age. actually 20 days younger than me. but anyways, we flirt alot, and he also flirts with our freind. so he knows i like him, because apparently 7 other people told him. and so i messaged him saying that i never told them to tell him, because i didnt want to ruin our friendship, but i'd totally understand if he only likes me as a friend.

so after that, nothing really changed. it seems like he's flirting a bit more, but i dont know. because he flirts with our friend too!

so anyways, im thinking i should maybe get over him, if nothings gunna happen, but my friend told me that i shouldnt give up, and there is hope. especially because it took him so long to ask out his last girlfriend. ( i think she was his first. they dated about 6 months, but i dont think it was very serious)

so i dont know what to do? wait for him, give up on him? ask him out, hit that i like him,
what?!?

please help me, and thank you so much!

Q: He asked my out and we went out for about a week and then he broke up with me saying that he still liked me and everything but that he was gonna be moving at the end of the school year and he thought it would be better if we didn't get to close. So i was like ok and we still hung out as friends and stuff. Then about 3 weeks later he asked me out again saying he wasn't moving till the end of senior year. That was on October 19 2009 and we would hang out everyday and he would say he loved me and would always kiss me and he was the first guy i have ever made out with. He got a bit handsy as in he would grab my boobs and try to get his hands down my pants but i wouldn't let him. so whatever and everything was going great im in love and so was he. Then yesterday November 24 he calls and i cant answer cuz im busy so about 20 min later i try calling him back and he doesn't answer so i try calling twice more and he still doesn't answer. And then today he breaks up with me after saying things like he would die if i left him or i will never hurt you etc. He messages me on myspace and says he needed to tell me some thing so i was like what and he said "I am sorry to say that it is now over between us. I understand if you do not want to talk to me ever again or if you might want to remain friends. That is fine with me. I am sorry for this. But ithink we would be better just as friends." so i asked why and he said "Because i just dont see anything within us anymore. I am sorry. Plus another reason but i really dont want to say" i told him to tell me and he said it was because this other girl told him that she had liked him since they first meet. So now i don't know what to do i'm still in love with him. BTW im 16 yrs old and female.

Q: Just like the subject says I guess. How are they different or are they?

Q: i have a really big crush on a boy in the year above me in scool and he knows that i have liked him for ages, but yesterday i founout he had a girlfriend who is like 17/18 or somehing an he is only 14, its preety obvious he dont like me the way i like him. and now i really wont to stop loving him because it gets me down all the time an to be honest ive had enough, but i cant stop loving him, my heart just wont let but i really wont to stop an give up on lads for a while becasue they really annoy me sometimes. what should i do? please help. :(

Q: ook so i had already asked this question about having anal sex the other day and im red and irritated i didnt know what was wrong so i went to the doctors today apparently now i have herpes.. i was talking to this guy and im guessing it was from him? Because we had anal sex and the herpes are near my anus.. And i havent had sex with anyone else while i was talking to him. I told my bestfriend she came to the doctors with me. Her boyfriend lives with this guy was talking to.. So she told her boyfriend to warn him from sitting on any toilets etc in the house. So he ended up telling him now this guy is going to the doctors tommorrow. IM embarrassed and i have no idea what herpes even is it never goes away? NOw i can never have sex with someone again? Without a condom? How do i have sex when im married and want to have kids my husband will get the herpes as well? Im hysterical someone please help me. THis guy is also saying he doesnt have it so what if he goes to the doctors and doesnt have it hell make fun of me and tell everyone. Is it possible he doesnt have it?

Q: HI i'm 14 and my penis is 6.5 inches when i'm erect is this good or bad??? Please somebody tell me!

Q: 13 almost 14f

wow i have too many guys on my mind!! i still like my 2nd most recent ex, im in love with another ex, i REALLY REALLY like my boyfriend, and i have feelings for this other dude at my school!!! ughh i just don't know what i can do to get them off my mind. it seems like more guys just keep getting added to my confusion... any ideas??

thanks,

utterly confused chick

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