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OMG! she wont stop talking about my brother!!
my friend sophie used to be INLOVE with my brother for 2 YEARS!!! my brother has never had any interest in her what so ever. they have hooked up and had sex for all of 2 minutes.. but to him its just a fling..then she goes all crazy in love with him as soon as she gets over him. but i dont believe someone that has been in love for 2 years can get over a guy in just 1 day.. that seems highly impossible. shes always talking about him badly so all i say is 'ok' or 'hmmm' after she says somethng. then shes all like 'dont you even care what im saying..he has HURT me' and i was like hes my brother soo what do you expect me to say!? i dont really know what to do about her. shes always talking bout my brother. i said to her i didnt really wanna hear it. but its most days. does she still love him? or is she just trying to piss me off ??
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I don't think she's doing it to piss you off. I think she just really loves him. You need to understand that while to him, it may just be a fling but to her it's more. She's had feelings for him for 2 years, and having sex (even for 2 minutes) caused those feelings to come back & become a lot stronger than before. BUT, she also needs to understand that it's a fling & nothing more.
I think you really need to tell her what's on your mind, stern but not in a rude way. Just tell her that you're glad she's so interested in him, but he doesn't see her that way, and the sex was just a one time thing in his eyes & that you don't really see their relationship going past friends.
You really need to explain it to her so that she gets it. Let her know that if she continues to talk about him around you after you have told her not to, you're going to stop hanging out with her. Don't let your consequences fall through either. If you say you're not going to hang out with or talk to her, follow through with it because you keep talking to her after you've told her that you won't, she's not going to take you seriously.
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She still must have feelings for him but honestly if I were you I'd tell her either you stop talking about him or you stop coming over because I'm tired of this.. I did that with my friend ebcause I was so tired of hearing her complain about her and her now x finally always fighting it. But ya I think if it really annoys you tell her becuase you seem like you've suffereed enough and I know it may b hard for her but she has to think about your feelings as well
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Goshhh...I have so many friends like that. They ALL love my brother to death. Most likely your friend still likes him. What you need to do is kind of avoid her for a while. That's what I had to do. After a little while she'll get the clue, and if she is really your friend she will try to shape up. hope I helped?
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