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easily intimidated
all my life ive been handi capped from intimidation in the past 2 years ive had starting relationships but i always seem to get intimidated and cant seem to physically show effection ive lost dozens of women this way any suggestions?
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Yeah I agree, the whole idea is to find someone that you feel Comfortable with, but this comfort doesn't always just show up at the begining, it is earned and developed. So yeah, if they leave because they can't handle you being a gentelman, cause they are too fast, then they weren't the right girl for you, trust me, women deal with it all time time, men leaving because we are too slow haha. Keep doing what you do, hold hands, kiss on the cheek, do what feels comfortable but make sure you communicate with her that, that is the type of person you are that way she doesn't think something is wrong with her. Like my exBF took about a week before he even tried to kiss me, it turned out he didn't know how to kiss haha but I was ok with that...and this was when we were like 19 or 20 haha :) So just communicate, be honest and be you.
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First of all, dont do anything you are not quite comfortable with. I can understand how hard something like this can be but honestly, just take it slow when in a relationship. This way, you can warm up to her and get more comfortable with her after getting to know her more etc... And then you'll find yourself physically expressing yourself with her. But be patient with it. If she leaves before you feel comfortable doing anything, then its better she was gone then have stayed b/c relationships shouldnt be built on how physical you are when just starting out.
So before doing anything, take it slow to the point where you are comfortable enough to do anything, because as I've mentioned, dont do anything you are not comfortable with, it wont feel right to you.
Hope I helped and good luck!
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