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I just don't get why they are doing this
I have a friend named *Leya* and she started to ignore me all of a sudden. So we got into this fight where she wouldn't tell me what happened. And finally she told the reason was because im obnoxious and annoying and stupid. I don't know what happened because i've always been nice and complimented her. I sit alone now in the back of the cafeteria because all my friends hate me. I don't get what happened between us. It makes no sense....I don't know what to do. I don't eat any more and i usually end up crying a lot. She told me she hated me and that we weren't meant to be friends. I just....Ugh!!!! I don't know what to do! I have no friends and everyone hates me! Even my Best Freind since pre K! Please! Anyone please help me!!! Please!
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I pretty much went through this actually a few times, minus the friend since pre k and sitting in the lunch room though. First off, girls are pretty much just love to hate on other girls, even you and me are like that whether we admit it or not. Obviously this girl Leya is not a true friend, and when she realizes how fake her new friends are shes really going to regret her decision. It may feel like everyone hates you, but believe me they dont. I know this is a complicated situation, but if you think on the good side, its a way to open up and make new friends. Maybe one day in class approach a few new friends and then you may be able to sit with them at lunch and even become really close with them. Don't ever let somebody tell you who you are and arent. A few years ago, I let a girl tell me I was absolutely nothing and of how annoying and dumb I was. Most of the times the girls are doing this just to feel more confident, and they pick people who seem very vulnerable because they may be very nice. Believe me, when you feel your worst, everything *has* to get better. Because when your at the bottom theres no way but up. So i say make some new friends, and know your just as good as those other girls. If you need any more help, email me!(:
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ok seriously, when i was in 8th grade, the SAME thing happened to me. i completely understand how you feel. i just decided i was too good for them, and after i tried to work it out and fix things and they wouldn't do it, i decided to just completely forget about them and start becoming closer with other people. i had to make an effort, but now i have totally awesome friends, and all those other girls who were snotty and mean have all of their drama and i'm way better off. so i think you should just act like it's not bothering you and move on, because when you mope and cry, they thrive on it, and they know what they're doing is making you feel badly and that's what they want. show them you're stronger than that. good luck!
-mari
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I'd ignore them and move on you don't need people like that in your life or those that create drama
you can make plenty of other friends those that will treat you better you don't deserve to be treated like how your friend treated you that's wrong she wasn't a real friend if she called
you those names and decided to simply ignore you i wouldn't let it affect you i'd continue eating your food at lunch if it makes you feel any better
i used to sit alone at lunch too you can always make new friends but it's your choice what you'd like to do :)
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