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shoild i give up ?
i have a really big crush on a boy in the year above me in scool and he knows that i have liked him for ages, but yesterday i founout he had a girlfriend who is like 17/18 or somehing an he is only 14, its preety obvious he dont like me the way i like him. and now i really wont to stop loving him because it gets me down all the time an to be honest ive had enough, but i cant stop loving him, my heart just wont let but i really wont to stop an give up on lads for a while becasue they really annoy me sometimes. what should i do? please help. :(
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I think right now you should just try to get on with your life. I know you have feelings for this guy but you never know what could happen in the end. Just honestly give it time because if not you know you will find someone especially when its so unexpected...but like I said right now I would just get on with your life..hang out with friends do stuff you like to do and who knows something could happen :)
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I wouldn't give up i'd be patient and wait something could cause him and his girl to break up
there are plenty of other boys out there if things don't work out with that one in particular that you like i wouldn't give up completely on boys his feeling's may change you never know i wouldn't jump to conclusions so quickly if you can't stop loving him then the best thing you can
do is wait :)
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hey there :)
ugh I understand exactly where your coming from as do many other girls id say. we all have gone or have to go through this at some stage its never nice when a guy you like has a gf.
Its good that you want to try get over him now it takes some people so much longer. you say you want to give up on guys for a while which will help you even more. ok so heres what I think you should do is do your absolute best to keep busy and stop thinking about him,any time you do distract yourself with some other activity.
also go out with your friends more and have fun just being young careless and single :) concentrate on all the other great things in life and before you even realise it youl suddenly wake up one day and have no feelings for him and trust me that feeling makes you never stop smiling :)
im not saying its going to be really easy theres days when youl feel crap and it will be hard but do your best to stay perked up and positive the trick is time really.
but yes I thinking moving on is definately the best way forward you dont want to be sitting around depressing yourself over one guy that you hope will one day realise he likes you. unfortuntely for a lot of us life doesnt work that way :(
so just surround yourself with friends and keep busy with things to do and maybe then youl feel like you want to be around guys again and meet one who deserve and likes you back :)
Hope I helped much <3
Jess 16/f x
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