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My boyfirend broke up with me but i still like him.
He asked my out and we went out for about a week and then he broke up with me saying that he still liked me and everything but that he was gonna be moving at the end of the school year and he thought it would be better if we didn't get to close. So i was like ok and we still hung out as friends and stuff. Then about 3 weeks later he asked me out again saying he wasn't moving till the end of senior year. That was on October 19 2009 and we would hang out everyday and he would say he loved me and would always kiss me and he was the first guy i have ever made out with. He got a bit handsy as in he would grab my boobs and try to get his hands down my pants but i wouldn't let him. so whatever and everything was going great im in love and so was he. Then yesterday November 24 he calls and i cant answer cuz im busy so about 20 min later i try calling him back and he doesn't answer so i try calling twice more and he still doesn't answer. And then today he breaks up with me after saying things like he would die if i left him or i will never hurt you etc. He messages me on myspace and says he needed to tell me some thing so i was like what and he said "I am sorry to say that it is now over between us. I understand if you do not want to talk to me ever again or if you might want to remain friends. That is fine with me. I am sorry for this. But ithink we would be better just as friends." so i asked why and he said "Because i just dont see anything within us anymore. I am sorry. Plus another reason but i really dont want to say" i told him to tell me and he said it was because this other girl told him that she had liked him since they first meet. So now i don't know what to do i'm still in love with him. BTW im 16 yrs old and female.
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Honestly your both still young and he just wants to have fun right now. You will find someone that really cares for you but right now he just seems lke he wants to have fun and not worry about anything too much. He's not worth the trouble because like I said he just wants to have fun becuse he's so young
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Alright, i can really tell how much you love this boy.As i read this it brought things back up from my past. At first he seemed sweet and kind? Than he changed on you all of a sudden?Wow sounds like my ex Jimmy. Well, to me he seems like he just wanted you for your body? I see you wrote that, he was grabbing your chest and trying to get down your pants. That seems really using to me. I went threw ALL of this for, it hurts like hell i know :/ I'm very sorry. I think he just wanted to have sex with you and when you showed him you weren't like that (which is very good:)) he didn't like that. :/ Which a lot of guys are like.This other girl in the picture here maybe he has done things with her? Maybe during that time he was with her? You never can trust many guys now. Don't worry not all guys are like that. I found someone really special that treats me better than any guy i have ever dated. I know it hurts that you still love him, but you will find someone better. To me, he doesn't deserve you. I bet your a beautiful girl and you could have anyone hah ;p Don't let him get to you, i say don't talk to him. Avoid him. I really hope i helped,and if you have any more trouble please don't hesitate to ask me more questions. Alright?
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yep. go find some other dude, this guy seems to be only in it to play games. consider this a good lesson on staying away from drama queen dudes.
have fun finding a replacement
-Gunner
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OK I am happy that you came to me wanting advice, just wondering what made you ask me?
I don't mind just wondering... OK on to my advice!
Sorry about the length it is very long, if you have any more question i would love to help thanks:)
From what you told me it seems like he is just playing with your mind from what i read he doesn't seem interested and just wants you for sexual things. " That was very good of you to not let him do anything you are un comfetarable with" He might of had feelings for you during the process, but they didn't mean a lot to him if he kept braking up with you and getting back together. I don't think you should talk to him anymore no matter how hard it is, because it's better for you in the long run. If you were to keep talking to him he would probable ask you out and dump you 3 days latter like he has been. Your feelings would never go away also if you countiued seeing him "even as friends". He would preasure you into doing things that you are not comfterable with. it is pretty clear that he would like to do things with you if he has tried. He would ask you out just so you would let him do something like that. I no you have feelings for him, because you dated him he was your first make out and he could be very nice, however he is not good for you, because he is herting you, weather you relise it or not. I am not just saying this but YOU deserve a godly man who will respect your wishes and won't brake up with you everyday.
You should try talking to new people and just for get about relationships, in high school this is sopose to be the time were you have fun with guys and your friends don't get in a serious relationship with a boy cause that's all they are BOYS. have fun at this age and have crushes on guys but nothing to serious don't waste your time.
I believe in god.. i don't know if you do obviously lol... I am saving myself till marriage, i am saving everything! I wont go past making out because i feel it is very important to share that part of you with the one you love and you will be spending the rest of your life with. i am not a peace of candy that any guy can get i am special " haha sounds so weird i am special " but do you get what i mean. Weather you choose to save yourself for marriage or not don't give your body to any guy that isn't worth it waite for the perfect one, that will love everything about you.
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