Heya* I'm 13 F. Me and this boy started dating a week ago. And I really like him. I have never felt like this before. He is very loving abd caring. He doesn't want stuff like blow jobs or sex or stuff that makes me get naked. I want to know how to act when I meet him the firt time? Should I hug kiss what should I do???? Oh and he is 14.
You started dating a week ago, & your in love? No... ._.
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hi....i am 13 years old turning 14 in a few months....im in 8th grade..so every friend of mine wears a bra and i dont...not even a training bra...mily friends say i rlly need a bra but i dnt know...my boobs arent that big but you know some times they show through mi shirt...also my mom does not wear bras...maybe like two times a year... i even have friends with d cups....do you think i sould get one...how old were you wem you frst got one....do you think it wuld be wierd to get one witout my mom at the mall..ay advice...thanks
Well, when I was young.. I NEVER wanted to wear a bra at all. I always had trouble with finding one that fits right. At first, I started out with simple sport bras, but I realized that you can see through those.. o.o..
Without your mother, I don't think you'll get a wise choice.
Your mother should have already helped you out with this, but it's alright. Just ask her to go along with you to the mall (or anywhere really) and your mother should be able to help you. Since your pretty small chested now, just get some sport bras.
If you go to Victoria secret's at the mall, they can
measure your size.. o.o You could try that also?
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ive been hooking up with this guy for awhile and at first it was just sex but i really like him and he acts like he really likes me then does something to show he doesnt but i let him use me just so i can see him and wait till he acts like he likes me again but everytime he calls me i cant tell him no even though he just wants sex i guess i still have hope that he really likes me should i keep having sex with him?
No one should be used in anyway. Stop all of this with him, I don't think he has any real feelings for you. Guy's that do that, they don't actually care about anyone..they just want the sex.
I'm sorry, but you can find someone much better than this guy.
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I am a very emotional person, and moreso, I am a teenage girl. In my past relationships, I was left heartbroken and abandoned, cheated and lied to, promised so many things that were never fulfilled. I know this will be a long question, but hear me out.
My first boyfriend was fake. I was a freshman, and he was a sophomore. I met him at church one night and thought he was the most amazing person. However, I quickly learned he wasn't who I thought he was. He manipulated me, used me, and brought me to the point where I ran away from home for him. He pretended everything in our relationship, constantly on and off, always using me for his needs and not caring about mine. I finally broke it off for good with him.
My second boyfriend was my friend at first, and he was the same as my first. He was fake. Never kissed me, never touched me, and always talked shit about me. He faked the whole thing. It hurt, but I moved on quick.
My third boyfriend was my best friend at first. I liked him a lot because I could talk to him openly. We eventually went out for about three months, but he was very overbearing, obnoxious, and pressuring. He would always pressure me to show him my boobs. I was hurt and then thought he loved me and accepted me for me, but then he was a coward and broke up with me with a lie, saying his dad hated me. I've never even met his dad... But later found out he broke up with me because I was negative.
My current boyfriend is probably the best thing that has ever happened to me. We had a lot of hardships before we got together. I've known him since I was a freshman. Our friendship started on Facebook mostly. He would always cheer me up, and we started texting each other over the summer. I quickly fell for him, but I was so scared to tell him, so I was stupid and dated another guy. That relationship lasted three weeks, because I broke up with the other guy because I was in love with my current boyfriend. It was hard for him to forgive me afterwards, but we worked it out. He then decided to date a girl that lived by him while I was on vacation, and he called me, telling me, and I cried, telling him I was madly in love with him and I only want him and he can't date her. He earned my trust back, and we've been dating for about five months now. He is everything I have wanted in a guy. He is so patient with my insecurities, my negativity, and my sensitivity. He makes me laugh and makes me feel loved. He never yells and goes out of his way and spends every moment with me. He is so thoughtful, funny, and witty. I fell so hard for his charm and I continue to. I sometimes think I don't deserve him, but he treats me like gold. I can be my true self around him, not afraid of revealing my secrets or goals. He embraces the things I like, and he even got into a few bands I love, and he bought their merch t-shirts and such at the mall. It made me really happy. He never gives up on me when I get insecure. He sticks with me no matter what, and he never ever pressures me to do anything I don't want to. I just feel so comfortable and beautiful around him. I can't believe I found this amazing person who truly loves me for me.
I cried just a few moments ago, because I love this person so much and I'm so glad that I have him because I don't know what I'd do. I see him in my future and in my dreams and in everything I do. Is it normal to get very emotional and tear up when thinking of how lucky I am to be with him?
Of course it's normal! When you finally find someone who actually cares for you the way you need it makes you feel that way, and finally it's the good kind of tears, you know?
With what you were put threw in the past, you deserve this guy. Things may not always be perfect with him ALL the time, but the way you describe him it seems like you guys could get threw anything.
I hope I helped!
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My best mate has a crush on me and I no the fort of me getting with a guy kills him, and I don't no what to do I hate hurting him he means the world to me I love him with all my heart but just not in the way he loves me, I like someone else and I have to keep him a secret beacuse I no if he know the girl he wanted was with someone else I would lose him and I just don't want that to happend I really don't no what to do its so hard I no what ever I do I'm going to hurt someone and that kills me knowing that HELP
Since you don't have the same feelings for him as he does you, you do have to set him straight. I know it's hard but you have to. If you like someone but you have to keep it a secret because of you best friend..that's not fair for you. You deserve someone you know?
He'll eventually find some other girl, but for now just tell him the way you feel..that you don't feel the same way as he does, it's not his fault it's not your fault either.
He should still be your friend after you tell him the truth, if he isn't than that's his problem, but I figure that since he cares so much about you he won't leave.
I hope I helped!
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My boyfriend got in a wreck a week or so ago. We used to see each other every weekend and every Friday. We were never apart. It was great. But now we barely see each other outside of school and I'm just not feeling our relationship anymore. This distance is terrible. I barely have the money and gas to go to his house and he has no car. We always said that the distance would never effect our relationship. I'm the first girl he ever felt strong feelings for and I never stop thinking about him, but not seeing him a lot makes me lonely and depressed. I try to hang out with friends and keep busy but I can't. How do I make these feelings go away? I could never ever break his heart.
Distance really makes things difficult, but a lot of people can get threw it. My boyfriend and I broke up since my boyfriend felt the same way you did..because he became really depressed when he couldn't see me as much as he wanted to, but that shouldn't stop you from dating this guy.
If you don't want to break his heart, than don't. Stay with him, that will show him how much you care..and since he's been in this accident, you shouldn't want to break up with him, or lose interest in him, that's not fair.
Just call him and talk to him? Ask a friend to take you to see him? Couldn't you try that? Don't make a mistake and break up with him, he seems like he'd be a nice guy..and it's SO hard to find a decent guy now a days. I hope things workout! :/
Good luck
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I'm 11 and my babysitter is touching me wrong.He's 16 and he babysits me everyday after school. When I finish homework and watch tv he makes me sit on his lap and he puts his hands up my shirt.I say stop,but he says its okay and to just come down.Sometimes he even puts his hands down my pants.I know what he is doing is wrong and I want to tell my parents,but I'm to scared what do I do?
I know a lot of people already answered your question, but still.. don't be afraid to tell your parents when I *know* your parents will listen to you..with something like THAT they won't overlook it, that's sexual abuse and he can be in a lot of trouble for that.
Don't be afraid tell your parents all of the stuff you told us here^
Please do, okay?
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pains in the morning ,runy tomy ,not hungry ,very tired
Sometimes that means you will be starting your period, sometime soon. I'm not absolutely sure..you may be coming down with something, but I don't think the flu..
If it keeps up,and your still worried about it, go see a doctor. :3
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I am 13 and i am pregnant. I took a pregnancy test that I stole from a store and it was positive. I already know i am way to young for sex. But we did use a condom it just broke. I can't tell my mom because she doesn't even know that I like boys yet she still thinks that I think boys have cooties. Abortion is out of the picture 1. I can't afford it 2. I could never kill a child. But i am just so scared I didnt tell the dad yet and not my mom only my best friend. I don't know how to tell them so please just tell me what to do or give me potions or opinions but please don't lecture me on how stupid I am for having sex I will get that from my mom it has been 2 weeks. Thanks for the help
This is such a difficult situation. ;/ I strongly advise you to tell at least one of your parents..your mother would be the best choice. Even though you feel like you can't tell her, you have to..because eventually she will find out. With the morning sickness, you not wanting to eat certain things etc.
I've never been in this situation, so I don't know what your going threw, but things will work out..it will be very difficult, but your family loves you..no matter what. They WILL help you.
Make sure you take care of yourself..if you plan to go on with this pregnancy which I think you will ^...which is great..because I don't believe in abortion.
Take the vitamins for the baby, eat well and exercise..
Please tell someone in your family, they need to know.
I hope I helped.
Emily
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Okay, I really don't want to sound pathetic but this has been bothering me for a while...
Would a guy ask another girl out right in front of me to see if I would be jealous? We had been talking and just asks this other girl out who was near us. I was pretty mad...
Guy's will always try to make you jealous, I believe. I think he intentionally did that..to make you jealous, or just to purposely hurt your feelings.
I say, try to not give in to what he wants you to feel..that's ridiculous and immature.
You don't need guy
guy's like that ;3
I hope I helped!
-Emily
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My sink isn't bad at all compared to some people, but I do have a few pimples and I wish my skin was clearer. I feel like everyone stares at one of my zits when I talk to them. I'm 13 and a girl so it's cause of my age I get them but not all of my friends have pimples. How can I get clear skin, quickly and easily. Easy facials, soaps, creams, home concoctions. Anything! And I do wash my face with a special skin product but I guess it's not working! Please help :)
There's this thing you can try, with coffee grounds, olive oil and lemon juice.. I tried it..without the lemon juice..but replaced it with lime juice..it felt good..kinda made my face feel kinda oily since the olive oil..but just make sure you was it off!
I use Neutrogina Deep clean, and it works pretty well..but not every cleanser works..in a few days..it takes awhile. Also, Cetaphil is pretty good..they sell it at wal marts, and drug stores.
:3 I hope I helped!
-Emily.
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21 female.
I have long labia. This is the only thing that I'm self conscious about when it comes to a guy.
It holds me back. I think mostly because the only guy that has even seen my vagina commented about how long they were which of course didn't make me feel good. Now i'm with this new guy. We're not having sex yet, and he hasn't fingered me or anything but I'm still nervous that when we do get to that point that he will be grossed out by my long labia.
I don't know what to do! Of course it's part of me, I can't change it but I can't seem to embrace it either. Has anyone else gone through this?
Okay, this might be TMI
but I have the same thing, and I discovered this..and I'm 15. It made me feel really uncomfortable.. like I did something wrong?..but no
I don't think there's anything to worry about..a guy should love you for you, and he shouldn't care what you look like down there :3
Try not to worry about it.
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me and my boyfriend have been dating for 1 and a half year and we care and love each other very much but soemtimes when we argue, he says,'it worries him, that we are so different'. what does he exactly mean? does he want to break up or something else? because i'm quite moody and he's stubborn but at the end of the day, we forget everything and act normal. the good thing is he doesn't hold a grudge. so, if a boyfriend wants to break up does he talk like that or is he scared of loosing me or breaking up? please help. thanks everyone for your answers.
Sounds like my boyfriend and I..
It's okay..my boyfriend and I are Ying and Yang. hha
We have different taste in music, movie etc.
He still loves me for me though, I don't think he wants to break up with you, my boyfriend told me that..but we haven't broken up yet? We've been dating a year and 7 months.. So.. it's okay if you guy's don't always agree..
It's that he loves you for you, and that is all that matters..
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18/f
There's this girl I know. She is kind of my friend because we were on the same sports team.. but at the same time- i wouldn't consider her my friend because some of her qualities are the opposite of what i consider "friend qualities"
I don't mean to sound harsh, but she's trashy, slutty, boy-crazy, and always wants to be perfect/the best at everything. She brags constantly. She puts pictures of herself on facebook with her bra and then an unbuttoned shirt posing really slutty. She just got her belly-button pierced and brags constantly about it. We went to florida for nationals a while ago and the moment we got on the beach, she flirted with nearly every guy out there and then bragged about it. She made fun of my boobs- saying they were really small, and then proceeded to push hers up and say hers were a C cup. Oh yeah and she drinks and has sex all the time and brags about it to all of her friends. One time she told us the positions and places she did it. I honestly looked at her with disgust. I told her- that stuff is personal.. I really don't want to know that stuff about you.
After knowing her for about a year, its made me realize how badly she annoys me and how badly I do not want to be her friend. The only problem is... we are going to the same college and will be on the same sports team as me. So I HAVE to see her and pretty much have to be nice to her too. I don't want to be that girl on the team who starts drama.
I guess I'm just really stuck on what to do.. I know I have to be nice to her. Thats not a problem because usually i'm nice to everyone, even if i hate them. But I just don't know how I'm going to be able to handle this. I really don't want to be around her and her attitude. What should I do? I want to ignore her, but i have to see her.
I'm also afraid i might lose it and just start going crazy. I could barely stay sane last year with her on my team.. how am i supposed to keep cool this year with her on my college team?? ahhh she annoys the hell out of me. what do i do? thanks!
I know a girl like this, and she's very conceited. I'm nice to her, but I don't try to get close with her, If she really starts to annoy you..to the point where you can't stand it..you will have to tell her that your tired of her.
You can still be on a team with her, and not like her..you can't help the fact that you don't like the way she acts..I bet a lot of other people are feeling the same way as you are.
Don't let this get to you, if you don't want to be her friend..don't be her friend.
I hope I helped,
Emily
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I’m a 26 year old man form India; I have a sister of 21 year old. My sister broke up with her boyfriend a month ago.
But now my sister wants to have sex with me because she is really addicted in having sex.
So will she get pregnant if she has sex with me?
Especially she wants to have sex without a condom.
Do not have sex with your sister, that's incest and that isn't very good to do. If you don't use protection..and if your sister DOES get pregnant than the baby could be born with many, many issues..and you don't want to put the baby threw that?
Do NOT have sex with her, tell her that' disgusting and she needs help, she needs to go to get help for this addiction it's not healthy..and you don't know all the guys she's slept with? You could get a sti? (std)
Think before you act.
I hope I helped.
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17/f
so i've had this problem for as long as i can remember. i over think EVERYTHING and always make things a bigger deal than they really are, or even make up things and convince myself that they're real- mostly health related. sometimes i'll over think things SO much that ill have like a panic attack and just start freaking out. i'm so sick of freaking out about things and being anxious, i want to enjoy life and get this under control, especially cause ill be going to college in the fall. also if anyone knows of any simple stress relievers that would help too. thank you!!
I can get like that to, but I don't have panic attacks anymore.
I worry about almost everything that happens to me, all I can say is try not to think about the things that arise in your mind, your own mind can be your worst enemy. You could always read, listen to music, draw? ( If you enjoy to)
I'm not an expert. If it starts to really..really control your life, go to a Psychiatrist..my mother, and my brother goes to one..they can help.
I hope I helped ..
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Well ima go to a basketball camp tomorrow and I need advice on how to look pretty while I'm playing ball. Its because my boyfriend is going, I guess I'm alright at playing ball but the thing is that I turn red instead of sweating...... how do I look hot while playing? Thanks for your responces I really apriciate you reading this
Uhm..I really don't know haha
Wear tight clothing, I guess? Wear something that shows your stomach..wear short, shorts..I don't know..don't show to much skin..you don't want your boyfriend thinking your a big flirt..
I hope I helped..
Emily
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my lifes going down hill, i failed 2 subjects in school, i need to take summer school, i havent passed my sats because my dad refuses to give me math classes, i dont know why, and my boyfriend and i are in a REALY BAD patch in our relationship, my life out of ABSOLUTY NOWHERE, is messing up, any words of ease? =/ because i kinda feel horrible.
All I can say, is do your best in summer school get all your work done in there, (maybe mention something about your SAT's?) so you can get out of there quicker.
My boyfriend is in summer school and he does all his stuff on computer, so you should get things done soon..I don't know if your doing it on a computer or not..but just try your hardest and ask for help if your stuck.
For your boy friend, try to talk with him figure out what is messing you guy's up..if he's willing to talk it out..you guys can get threw it.
Don't worry, things will work themselves out..
I hope I helped!
Emily
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Ok so my names Melinda Grace but everyone calls me Gracie. Anyway, Im 13 and I jus got my period but a little while before that I started to grow hair under my arms and on my private part and I wanna know how to shave without like hurting myself or getting bumps. And how often should I shave under my arms? The hair there is annoying. And on my vagina I have hair but it's not really alot. Should I still shave or wait? Aren't girls suppose to shave there and how often?
Hello, to start off..nice name XD It's really nice.
When you shave bother areas under the arms, and your pubic hair make sure you use shaving cream..you don't HAVE to use shaving cream on your underarms but I do, because I get really bad burning.
I shave under my arms everyday, but that's just me. I think you should wait though to shave the hair on your vagina, you don't need to just yet...when it comes to the point when it really bothers you, than you can shave. It really gets annoying down there, when you start shaving down in that place... and than you always end up getting bumps..you can't really avoid that.
Take scissors when you do decide to shave down there, trim first than shave.. use a razor with 3 blades.. it works the best.. if you have aloe vera cream/gel use that down there to..so it won't bother you when the hair grows back in.
Be careful though, use a lot of shaving cream..don't want to hurt yourself down there O.O.
I hope I helped,
Emily
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I really think that i'm gay over the past year i have become attracted to guys i'm almost 16 male and i get turned on by looking at guys i talk to girls and that but i'm not attracted to them i'm only like guys i really want to find a boyfriend
it is normal to feel this way?
Yes, you can't help who your attracted to..embrace who you are and don't let anyone get you down about it. :3
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