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she's changing for the worse
18/f
There's this girl I know. She is kind of my friend because we were on the same sports team.. but at the same time- i wouldn't consider her my friend because some of her qualities are the opposite of what i consider "friend qualities"
I don't mean to sound harsh, but she's trashy, slutty, boy-crazy, and always wants to be perfect/the best at everything. She brags constantly. She puts pictures of herself on facebook with her bra and then an unbuttoned shirt posing really slutty. She just got her belly-button pierced and brags constantly about it. We went to florida for nationals a while ago and the moment we got on the beach, she flirted with nearly every guy out there and then bragged about it. She made fun of my boobs- saying they were really small, and then proceeded to push hers up and say hers were a C cup. Oh yeah and she drinks and has sex all the time and brags about it to all of her friends. One time she told us the positions and places she did it. I honestly looked at her with disgust. I told her- that stuff is personal.. I really don't want to know that stuff about you.
After knowing her for about a year, its made me realize how badly she annoys me and how badly I do not want to be her friend. The only problem is... we are going to the same college and will be on the same sports team as me. So I HAVE to see her and pretty much have to be nice to her too. I don't want to be that girl on the team who starts drama.
I guess I'm just really stuck on what to do.. I know I have to be nice to her. Thats not a problem because usually i'm nice to everyone, even if i hate them. But I just don't know how I'm going to be able to handle this. I really don't want to be around her and her attitude. What should I do? I want to ignore her, but i have to see her.
I'm also afraid i might lose it and just start going crazy. I could barely stay sane last year with her on my team.. how am i supposed to keep cool this year with her on my college team?? ahhh she annoys the hell out of me. what do i do? thanks!
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I know a girl like this, and she's very conceited. I'm nice to her, but I don't try to get close with her, If she really starts to annoy you..to the point where you can't stand it..you will have to tell her that your tired of her.
You can still be on a team with her, and not like her..you can't help the fact that you don't like the way she acts..I bet a lot of other people are feeling the same way as you are.
Don't let this get to you, if you don't want to be her friend..don't be her friend.
I hope I helped,
Emily <3
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This girl obviously has a very low self respect for herself, She brags because it makes her feel better.
You can be nice to her but you don't have to be overly friendly either. If you are both on the same sports team then fine just try and keep your distance but be friendly. If she tries and brags about something try changing the subject. This will show her that you are not interested in what she is talking about. If she ask why, Then there is your opening you can just tell her that you aren't into that sort of stuff. Hopefully this will give her the picture on how you feel
Sure she may be loose and sleep with every guy she meets and brag about but I will tell ya one thing it's certainly nothing to be proud about. You keep yourself sane by worrying about you, If she is sitting on the bench then sit on the other end away from her if you can. Keep all conversations to a minimal. If you REALLY can't take the pressure then hell be with it write her a letter on how you feel but again don't let the dogs out.
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