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ok so my sister just got dumped by her boyfriend and she is having a party tomorrow night. i wanna burn a cd for her to have at the party and i want it to be a really fun party cd to let her forget about him! does anyone have any suggestions maybe like "patron tequila" or "a toast to men" that kind of just says, who needs him! lets have a fun night!

haha thanks!

I have no idea what kind of music you or your sister is into. So hopefully I don't give you a list of songs, and you turn out to like a ton of country or screamo or something, cause I have none of that. Haha.
I love questions like this. Gives me a reason to go though my iTunes.

I'm gonna list songs that basically say "who cares about you" and songs that are fun to dance/sing too and put you in a better mood.

The Future Has Arrived - All American Rejets
Gives You Hell - All American Reject
A Party Song - All Time Low
Let It Roll - All Time Low
Delete You - Ashley Tisdale (PERFECT)
It's Alright, It's Okay - Ashley Tisdale (PERFECT)
I Gotta Feeling - Black Eyed Peas
I.D.G.A.F - Breathe Carolina
Party In Your Bedroom - Cash Cash
All The Way Up - Emily Osment
I Like It - Enrique Iglesias
Whoa Oh! - Forever The Sickest Kids
Bring Em Out - Hawk Nelson
Slam Crunk - Holiday Parade
E.T - Katy Perry
California Girls - Katy Perry

Unforntunatly my iTunes just froze and wont let me scroll anymore. But hopefully these songs help.



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15/m

The other day i had open house at my High school, i'll be a freshmen this year. I noticed in most of my classes that i have almost no friends in the class. I know most of the people but are not like friends if you know what i'm saying. In lunch so far none of my friends are in it. Some people that i know are but they are girls, or popular or both. I know popular people but don't usually hang out with them to much. And girls well they sit with girls so yeah.

Any idea's what i can do to make friends? or to make my first Tri-Mester easier?

My freshman year I was a nervous wreck about what I would do for friends. I was never a social person in grade school and because of that I have acquaintances,but only TWO best friends. And those two best friends went to a different high school then I did. I asked a girl who I was pretty good friends with if I could sit with her at lunch. She said sure.
You could always do that, chose the person you know most and ask to sit with this at lunch.

The first day I re-met a girl I knew from 2nd grade and we became best friends by the end of the day. We no longer speak to each other, but right after we met she introduced me to my current best friend.

During classes I didn't have with them, I made small talk with the people I sat around.
I decided I needed to get over my fear of speaking to knew people and start friendships myself if I wanted to make any.
Of course that wasn't always the case. One of my really good friends now came up to me first.

What I started doing, was finding someone in class who looked nice, but didn't seem to know any body in class either. I would go up to those people and ask if they wanted to work together on things. Ask how their summer was, etc.

This is coming from someone with poor confidence. If I could make new friends, you can too.
Good luck!

16, junior.

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i want to get a blackberry, but i dont want the data plan. i just want to call and text. is is true that i dont have to have the data plan for it to work?

You need to data plan no matter what.
Otherwise you wouldn't be able to use the phone at all.

I wanted a Blackberry just for those reasons, and I was told multiple times you NEED the data plan. Impossible to not have it.

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hello. I would like to give myself a new hairstyle for school. I would like to give myself an "emo" looking haircut/style. I have medium-long length hair. I know the exact kind of style I want, but Im not sure how to actually do it. Any ideas?

Print out of picture of the style you want, and bring it to any hair cutting salon of your choice and tell them that's what you want.

After they cut your hair, they'll tell you how to style it everyday.

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I'm 15/f and i've been masturbating for soo long now(nothing like fingering, just rubbing). For maybe a couple months ago my vagina started itching and whenever i got my period, the itching would stop. I'm going to stop masturbating. The itching got to a point where I would itch and when I pee it would burn my vagina. Now, I get the feeling when I pee I still have to pee like a couple minutes later even when it's like not even that much pee. I just want to know if this will go away over time. I even bought the original Vagisil because I told my mom that it itched but didn't tell her why (I don't want my family to know about the masturbating)and if they bring me to a doctor i'm afraid he's going to ask me something about that so i'm trying to avoid that! Has anyone else experienced this? Any advice on what to do?

It sounds like you have a UTI. (Urinary Tract Infection)
I would go to your doctor ASAP.
I had one two years ago, and they can be started multiple ways.
It sounds like you've waited awhile to ask someone about this.
If so, you should make a doctors appointment for sometime this week.
UTIs, if left alone, could because a serious problem that requires surgury.

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I am going into 9th grade, so is the boy i like.
The boy i like is in our little group at lunch time, but im not personally close to him. Like i dont talk to him like you would to a bff or somthing of the sort. I tried talking to him one time, but then he accused me of flirting (which really wasnt my intention at the time) and i told him that i wasnt. He told me that he knows that someone in our group likes him cuz my friend told him that, and that was true, a while ago when my other friend liked him. I have no clue if he is actually interested me or im in over my head. I really want him to like me, is there anythink i can do?

It seems to me yous not interested. If you believed you were flirting with him, he would have 'flirted' back or at least have a convorsationg with her.
But he was rude and accused you of things.

Theres no way you can 'make' someone to like you.
Try and talk to him again, but if the same thing happens, he definatly not interetsed.

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ok so my mom wants to send me to a different school that i really dont want to go to.ive been fighting her to let me keep going to the same school but she is a good fighter so should i give up and go to the school i dont like or keep up the fight and go for what i want and think it will pay off in the end?

I'd keep fighting. You should too.
This is YOUR future and YOU education. You're comfortable with the school you're going too. You've got friends there.

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A few years ago I had a MySpace, and since then we've changed internet companies and have moved so I no longer have the email account associated with the MySpace account. I need to delete it ASAP because I'm worried future employers will be able to find it by Googling me and the whole thing is pretty Sophomoric (comments by my friends about crushes, pink sparkly page background, etc.!)

Thanks in advance!

You can try messaging myspace about the problem. Explain to them it needs to be deleted but you no longer have the email.

They would most likely make you send in a salute to prove it's your actual myspace.

A salute is a picture of you holding up a peice of paper with your myspace url on it.
But they would explain any details that they'd like once you message them.

Hope this helps!

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do you have aim? i have a question to ask but its kinda long so would it be ok if i im you sometime?

My SN is KlutzyKim

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Is it possible for someone to know that you visited their facebook page if you are not their friend?

Not possible.

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I use the sock method to curl my hair because I don't like using heat when I don't have to. However, they seem to fall out pretty easy, even if they have hairspray AND gel. Any ideas?

You can try using curlers at night.
Or bring hairspray with you and touch up every hour.

My hair is naturally VERY long and pin straight. So curls barely stay in.
But bringing hairspray whereever I go helps.

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ok i was masturbating/ fingering myself (14 female) and i was doing it pretty hard and had an orgasm but now i have mild pains in my lower stomach, i've heard this is normal... is it? please don't answer if you don't know :)

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20081004130957AA9YveH
^Read the first answer.

It's pretty normal.

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okay im a female 13
i watch this tv show on adult swim called Inuyasha and i was wondering if you watch it where can i get the movies in english????
thanks in advance!!!!!

You can try googling 'Inuyasha movies english dub'
Dub means that their english voices have been edited in.
When I google that, I get a few links you can try.

Can can also try;
http://www.animeviewer.net/#
OR
http://www.netflix.com/

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alright so i really want an anchor necklace. i've looked around and i can't seem to find one that i really like. i want a simple one that looks good. something i could wear every day as well as going out. thanks so much.

I was JUST watching a video today on YouTube of two girls getting this really cute Anchor Necklace from Forever 21.
I looked on their website and it's not on there, but that doesn't mean a store near you doesn't have it in stock.

Here's the video with the necklace.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0yKUS7u6wlU

^The girls show their necklaces at 1:43 in the video.

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i got a peircing yesterdat in the top of my ear (cartliage)with a gun.
only to find out hours later that its really dangerous.
so how do i find out if i shattered my cartlige?
how long till the effects occur?
and anything else you now please
14/f
btw my ear doesnt hurt at all.

15-F

I'm pretty sure if yoour ear was in terrible pain, that would mean you shattered it.
I doubt it's very easy to do that, anyway.

I had my cartlige peicerd when I was thirteen. It closed up and I got it again when I was fifteen.
ALONG with the cartlige under it.
So now I've got two cartlige peircings. But had it done three times.
I wouldn't worry if I were you.

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I had my period about two weeks ago. it lasted for seven days and i bleed heavily as normal. this week(two weeks later) my boobs hurt. so it can't be because im getting my period.. i haven't had sexual intercourse after i got my period so what can be wrong? ps: i am a gymnast and i was wondering if maybe it could be my muscels that are sore?

Possible pregnancy. Could be because you pulled a mucle.
Your boobs can also start hurting when they start growing. So it can be growing pains.

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So, I have Myspace 2.0 and today I decided to change my layout, and now that I've got that all said and done my basic info. won't show up on my profile! It'll show up on the lite view though. You can't see it when logged into a different account either..please help! (basic info as in my display picture, where I live and all that jazz)
I've already went to customize my profile and it says it's there but you can't see it.../=

It might be the layout you're trying to use that's blocking it from shwoing up.
Try changing the layout and see what happens.

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I went on a date. he texted me to tell me what a wonderful time he had and how he really wants to see me again. I texted him to hang out a couple weeks after and he said it was really good to hear from me and he was going to be away. Why do guys say they want to hang out and go that extra mile if they really dont want to....

It could be he wasn't all the interested and didn't want to hurt your feelings.

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i'd like to buy the lg vu from att. i don't have an upgrade, but if i went to a att store, how much could i get it for? i think that phone has been out for a few years, so i don't think it should be too much. someone i know who works around phones says he thinks it might be around 50 dollars. thanks. :)

Well, I searched the phone on the AT&T website, and I didn't find anything.
But I googled, "LJ VU from AT&T." I got this;

http://reviews.cnet.com/cell-phones/lg-vu-black-at/4505-6454_7-32815554.html
$237.49

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hi im 14 years old and im turning 15 in december and most of my friend in my class have gotten there period and i have started puberty like hair and pimplies etc and im going into grade 9 and im kinda worried because one i have breast my cup size is 34B and it strange how i havnt gotten my period yet i really need help i just want to be sure that i wil get my period

15-f

My best friend didn't get her period untill two months after her fifteenth birthday. And she's older then me by a month.
But I myself got my period in either 5th or 6th grade.

If I remember correctly, my sister didn't get hers till 11th grade.

Everybody is different. And everybody will get their period at different times.
Yours is just taking longer.

Honestly you should consider yourself lucky.
Cause once you get it you've got 40+ years ahead of you with an unwelcomed monthly visitor.

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