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Long labia :\
21 female.
I have long labia. This is the only thing that I'm self conscious about when it comes to a guy.
It holds me back. I think mostly because the only guy that has even seen my vagina commented about how long they were which of course didn't make me feel good. Now i'm with this new guy. We're not having sex yet, and he hasn't fingered me or anything but I'm still nervous that when we do get to that point that he will be grossed out by my long labia.
I don't know what to do! Of course it's part of me, I can't change it but I can't seem to embrace it either. Has anyone else gone through this?
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Well if you really like him and you are both concidering doing something in the sexual sense, then you need to explain to him how you are feeling and what makes you so uncomfortable. If he is a good guy then he will accept your body for what is it because its completely normal and many girls bodys form to this. If he does not accept you for who you are then he is definitely not right for you. Find someone who is accepting of your body. I would be surprised if he didn't accept you because many girls have this same problem. Technically, this is not a problem. It is completely normal and you shouldn't be so self-concious because its your body and its the only one you have. If it bothers you that much talk to a doctor. Dont worry sweetheart, there are more girls with it than you think! Good luck, and don't be nervous!
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Okay, this might be TMI
but I have the same thing, and I discovered this..and I'm 15. It made me feel really uncomfortable.. like I did something wrong?..but no
I don't think there's anything to worry about..a guy should love you for you, and he shouldn't care what you look like down there :3
Try not to worry about it.
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