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I'm so lucky.
I am a very emotional person, and moreso, I am a teenage girl. In my past relationships, I was left heartbroken and abandoned, cheated and lied to, promised so many things that were never fulfilled. I know this will be a long question, but hear me out.
My first boyfriend was fake. I was a freshman, and he was a sophomore. I met him at church one night and thought he was the most amazing person. However, I quickly learned he wasn't who I thought he was. He manipulated me, used me, and brought me to the point where I ran away from home for him. He pretended everything in our relationship, constantly on and off, always using me for his needs and not caring about mine. I finally broke it off for good with him.
My second boyfriend was my friend at first, and he was the same as my first. He was fake. Never kissed me, never touched me, and always talked shit about me. He faked the whole thing. It hurt, but I moved on quick.
My third boyfriend was my best friend at first. I liked him a lot because I could talk to him openly. We eventually went out for about three months, but he was very overbearing, obnoxious, and pressuring. He would always pressure me to show him my boobs. I was hurt and then thought he loved me and accepted me for me, but then he was a coward and broke up with me with a lie, saying his dad hated me. I've never even met his dad... But later found out he broke up with me because I was negative.
My current boyfriend is probably the best thing that has ever happened to me. We had a lot of hardships before we got together. I've known him since I was a freshman. Our friendship started on Facebook mostly. He would always cheer me up, and we started texting each other over the summer. I quickly fell for him, but I was so scared to tell him, so I was stupid and dated another guy. That relationship lasted three weeks, because I broke up with the other guy because I was in love with my current boyfriend. It was hard for him to forgive me afterwards, but we worked it out. He then decided to date a girl that lived by him while I was on vacation, and he called me, telling me, and I cried, telling him I was madly in love with him and I only want him and he can't date her. He earned my trust back, and we've been dating for about five months now. He is everything I have wanted in a guy. He is so patient with my insecurities, my negativity, and my sensitivity. He makes me laugh and makes me feel loved. He never yells and goes out of his way and spends every moment with me. He is so thoughtful, funny, and witty. I fell so hard for his charm and I continue to. I sometimes think I don't deserve him, but he treats me like gold. I can be my true self around him, not afraid of revealing my secrets or goals. He embraces the things I like, and he even got into a few bands I love, and he bought their merch t-shirts and such at the mall. It made me really happy. He never gives up on me when I get insecure. He sticks with me no matter what, and he never ever pressures me to do anything I don't want to. I just feel so comfortable and beautiful around him. I can't believe I found this amazing person who truly loves me for me.
I cried just a few moments ago, because I love this person so much and I'm so glad that I have him because I don't know what I'd do. I see him in my future and in my dreams and in everything I do. Is it normal to get very emotional and tear up when thinking of how lucky I am to be with him?
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The title says it all; You are more than lucky. Girls don't usually find these type of men until they are in their late twenties or thirties.
I am sorry you had to go through that. My first boyfriend raped me, and always called me fat; he than made me have an eating disorder, and I was in rehab for years.
Guys don't understand the impact they have on females. All we want is for someone to love, respect, and cherish us back; What's so hard about that? Ya know?
I don't know you, but I am so so happy for you. It is perfectly normal to be this emotional for someone. You are truely happy inside. You have found yourself someone who deserves to be your lifetime companion. I was the same way when I finally met my boyfriend of 1.5 years; I believe God gives you all those crappy relationships, so when someone as amazing as the men that we have come along, we know how to truely appreciate them! Congrats!
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You're happy, it's normal!
Sometimes when you're happy you tear up and you get choked up. I feel the same way about my boyfriend I care about him a lot. I can remember the first time he said 'I love you', we were in his car and he was dropping me off. When he said it I was so shocked I couldn't believe he even said it. He started kissing me and I started crying. I was so happy. And it's not that you plan to cry it just happens. If you are overcome by emotion just let it go its best to just let it out rather than hide it.
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It's perfectly normal :) you finally found that person that treats you well and makes you happy! you totally deserve somebody amazing after having to deal with all those other jerks. keep this guy close, and if you ever disagree, remember why he's so important to you. good luck with everything :)
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Of course it's normal! When you finally find someone who actually cares for you the way you need it makes you feel that way, and finally it's the good kind of tears, you know?
With what you were put threw in the past, you deserve this guy. Things may not always be perfect with him ALL the time, but the way you describe him it seems like you guys could get threw anything.
I hope I helped! <3
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