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So at school we are doing a project and the person I am paired up with is pretty quiet, and when I try to talk to him about the project, he just talks in a way which makes me feel dumb, he doesn't show much interest. He is really smart and he is pretty much doing all the work so far, I am trying to communicate, asking him what he has done since he hasn't shared his work with me. I am trying to communicate but he keeps doing work without telling me and then he would say "no I've already done that". This is all fine that he is like that, I just don't know how to communicate with him more and make him feel more comfortable working with me. I don't think we'd have anything to talk about, he's more into politics. Any tips? Thanks! (link)
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This is a tough situation that you will probably come up against again in your future no matter what job you end up having. Unfortunately, there is no easy solution to get him to communicate better with you. However, I think it would help if you tried to get to know each other better. You might find that you have more in common than you think. I was in a similar situation for an english project in high school. It was really awkward when I would meet up with my partner, but we ended up talking about our future aspirations. We didn't get much work done that time, but we were definitely more comfortable around each other after that. It made the project a whole lot easier to complete. I think if you can find something that both of you can talk about, he will become more comfortable around you. For the project itself, I would give him a rubric or a list of what you have to complete and have him check off all the parts he has done so you know what is left for you to do. If that still doesn't work, you should ask him directly what parts he thinks you should do. Good luck with your project!
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Im a 15 yearold guy. So there this girl I like at my school. The back story is that at this camp we went to this other girl liked me. And I said I like her back (even though I thought of her as a friend) which was a jerk thing to do. Anyways the girl I like probably thinks I like the other girl. She never wants to talk about her. Even though everybody else who went to the camp (boys and girls) is super interested in whats happening between me and the other girl. She gives some signs of flirting but she also comes to for advice on somethings like giving a speech. But it might be because she wants to find time to talk to me. She also calls me by my middle name. She also notices what im wearing alot too. I know this is alot but can you do your best to digress this information? Thanks! (link)
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I would say she's interested in you. Whether that be as a friend or romantically, I can't be sure. She might not talk about the other girl because she could feel jealous if she thinks you like the other girl. I would suggest that you clear up that you do not like the other girl directly to the girl you like. This way, if she does like you, she doesn't have to hide it or feel bad because she thinks there a chance that you and the other girl might date. Once you tell her, try to notice any changes she might have in how she acts around you. She might be hesitant to try and get involved romantically now, but she does seem like she's trying to get to know you better. This might change if she thinks there's a possibility you might like her back. If she still acts the same after you tell her, then she might only think of you as a friend. Also, when I'm talking about changes in how she acts, I really do mean body language and not so much what she says to you. Teenage girls are weird sometimes and can say something when they really feel another way. I hope this helps and good luck!
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School, piles upon piles of homework, practice my instrument, practice for play, try on shoes to see if they fit, make my bed, clean my room, brush my teeth. Once it seems like I'm FINALLY free, for some me time,I gotta write some discussion questions for book club that my teacher FORCED everybody to do. Then comes stupid extra math that my teacher claims I gotta do because she has to “enrich my advanced mind" I'm not a genius, but apparently I have superior intelligence. I somehow end up with the “good parts" in stuff like plays. Most people think I'm lucky, but it seems like with all my work I can never just sit down. Being more than average isn't all what it's cracked up to be, you just gotta do extra work, and when you're good at stuff like music and theatre, you get good parts. But when you get good parts and things like that, you have to work and practice and push yourself. I love acting, and dancing, and singing, and art and music, and even reading, science, social studies, but I just wish I could lay down and not think about anything sometime. And I hate math, but because I'm starting to be good at it,I have to do more than required. There is no way out of it for me because if I quit, you know,I don't like to quit. I wanna live up to everyone's expectations, but sometimes I feel like everyone's expectations are too much. A perfect,pretty,talented,smart,amazing,remarkable… where does it end? (link)
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Just a disclaimer: I'm in a very similar situation to you right now, so I haven't completely followed all the advice I'm about to give you, but I'm certainly trying. Also, I'm guessing that you are in high school from what you wrote so that's where my advice is focused at.
The first thing that I want to address is everyone else's expectations. I used to be like you in the sense that I wanted to live up to everybody's expectations which seemed like such a hard task. It got to the point where some of my decisions rested on whether they would please my parents or my friends. I think that's the problem with most high-achieving teenagers now; they care so much that some their motivation comes from the desire to please others. Don't get me wrong, I don't see any problem with wanting to make others proud of you, but it is a problem when it comes to you going out of your way to please someone. I know it's easier said than done, but you should stop wanting to live up to everyone's expectations. I only say this because you sound like the type of person that is already self-motivated, and I think that if you focus less on what everybody else wants and focus more on what you want and expect from yourself, a lot of your stress will disappear. For example, when I was in 8th grade, I was bringing home mid-A's and a couple high-A's on my report card, and my mother used to ask why they weren't all 100's. I used to let this get to me, but one day I realized that I was approaching school in the wrong way. I stopped caring about what my parents expected for grades and instead gave myself personal goals. Believe it or not, I actually started to improve in school after I made it a point to study more for myself, not for my parents. As for my parents, they don't bug me anymore about school or any of my activities that I work hard for. I really think that if you can make the choice to let go of everyone's expectations, you won't feel so overwhelmed.
Another thing I want to talk about is toleration and having a big goal in life that you want to reach. It's funny how people always say to enjoy high school and have fun. I don't think high school is going to be the best time of my life, and I don't think this it is for people like us who work this hard. Yeah, we're young and some of it is fun, but there's a crazy amount of stress and frustration that average people don't understand. In my head, I tolerate all this craziness because I know that I am working for my future. I know that I want to become a doctor, and just about everything that I'm putting myself through now as a junior in high school is for that. I tolerate the late nights, the constant headaches that come from lack of sleep or food from skipping meals, the stress, everything because I know that it's going to be different someday. Your life is not going to be like this forever. Yes, obviously there will still be stress and craziness when we are all adults, but it will be different (and I'm really hoping that the different will be better for people like us). I really think that experiencing all this stress, pressure, and lack of relaxation is actually preparing us more for being adults (so if you can handle it now, it'll be easier later). Basically, just try to tolerate all this while knowing that things are going to change someday. Set a big goal for yourself and have all of this mean something, so it's not all for nothing. And honestly, I have no idea if any of this is true, but it's nice to have hope that the future will be better.
The next thing I want to talk about is relaxation. This might not work for you since I don't know your exact situation, but try to take some time for yourself, like "me-time" where you completely ignore everything else and do something that you enjoy. It could be every day for like 15-20 minutes or for a few hours every weekend. Just find some time and something that relaxes you and do it, even if it means cutting out some sleep time. For me, I enjoy reading and I have several TV shows that I like to keep up with. Sometimes, I will take an hour or two less of sleep for the week to have my "me-time" because, at least for me, I know that I prefer to have some down time to relax and clear my mind than to have that extra sleep. Try it and see if it helps.
Lastly, I just want to add about the quitting- to make your life easier, you don't have quit trying at everything. It's easier to find one or two things to give up to save time, especially if you're not enjoying it anymore. There's no point in wasting your time with being involved in something just for the sake of being in it.
I hope it helps to know that you're not alone with this feeling. It's hard to keep up with everything, and it's commendable that you care and try so hard. Just don't lose sight of the eventual product of all your hard work and keep it up.
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I have a light pink skirt. The color is called froth pink. I really want to wear it because my grandmother bought it for me and it's really cute. I want to wear a v-neck shirt with it, cause the ones I have don't have too deep of a v-neck, but I don't know which color goes best with the skirt. The colors I have are tye-dye blue, hot pink, pale orange, bright orange, dark blue-green, turquoise, white and bright green striped, dark blue with a little less green than the other blue green. Which one, or none of them? (link)
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The colors I would recommend would be black or white. The reason for this is that they are neutral colors to really showcase that skirt. But since they aren't any of the choices, maybe the white and green striped? It's hard to tell between the choices because we have no idea what these shirts actually look like. I hope this helped!
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How do you walk in them? Do you just keep walking in them until you learn? Are 2-3 inch heels good for a beginner to wear? (link)
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I wore them occasionally for long periods of time where I had to walk a lot which is probably not the best idea. If you are just starting out with heels, try whatever feels comfortable to you and thicker heel (so a wedge or platform type shoe) rather than the thin heels. As for wearing them, when you start out, try walking in them for a little bit every day instead of breaking the shoes in all at once. This way, you avoid the painful route of blisters, aching feet, and possibly bleeding. I hope this helped and good luck!
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I'm scared to death right now. I've been having these weird symptoms since friday that I found out could be kidney failure. I had a kidney infection recently that I'm afraid I waited too long to get help for. I'm really, really freaked out and I need my mom to go to the doctor with me, but they're not open until tomorrow. Should I ask her to take me to the emergency room? How am I gonna tell her? She's been through sooo much and she doesn't deserve this. Do you think she'll be mad at me for this? Would you still love your kid the same if they gave themself kidney failure? (link)
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Go to the emergency room ASAP. Kidney failure is very serious especially because you waited to get help for the infection. Forget about how your mom is going to react. It is important that you seek medical attention NOW. Your mom isn't going to be mad. She cares about your safety more. Please tell her and have her take you to the E.R. NOW
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I'm eighteen years old, and I'm basically a follower. If real life were a video game, I'd totally be a support character. I'm very good at being backup, being there for people and sacrificing my own wants or needs for theirs. I'm also very good at following orders and respecting seniority. I have been my entire life. I always think about other people first. I follow people the majority of the time. If my friends and I, say, go to the mall or something, I prefer following behind them. I don't know why, it's just how I am!
It's not to say I can't lead. I guess I'm sort of a lazy leader, in a way. If a situation arises where there are all followers amongst us, I'll take the lead if I have to. But if anyone else wants to lead I'll follow them.
A follower is always described negatively... Is it really all that bad to be a follower? I mean, without us, leaders would have no one to LEAD, right? Thanks for your time. :D (link)
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Like the other columnists said, being a follower is usually perceived negatively. My opinion is that there are the natural born leaders and natural born followers. It works with the way some people's personalities are. Some people are just better at leading people than others.
However, that doesn't make being a follower a bad thing. Like you said, leaders need followers. I'm going to give you an example of how important followers are. I attended a leadership seminar recently where we watched a video. Basically, it started out with one guy dancing crazily by himself while everybody looked at him like he was weird. But one person in the crowd took a chance and got up there and danced with him. The audience saw this and eventually more people followed until almost everybody was dancing. The important part to this story is that usually a leader starts out as somebody with a crazy or different idea/approach and that first follower is the catalyst in the situation. This showed me how important followers (mainly the first follower) really are to leadership.
So back to my opinion on this. As I was saying leadership is built upon the first follower (and the next few). I don't think being a follower is bad unless you are only following because everybody else is doing it. Now if you do have that problem, I would advise to take more of an initiative. This doesn't mean that you should go out and change yourself to be a leader unless you are comfortable with it; I mean that you should try to be one of those first followers. Sorry if this was kind of confusing and long, but I hope it helped. Good luck with everything!
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13/f Hi, I'm trying to grow my shoulder length hair out because I'm tired of everyone else having longer hair than me. Any suggestions? (link)
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I'm going to make a list so it will be easier for you :)
reduce the amount of heat you use for your hair
don't tug on your hair (especially when it's wet)
try to comb your hair out with your fingers and then a comb when it's wet
eat multi vitamins
use the right shampoo and conditioner (this is pretty important- try to find one that has some vitamins in it and doesn't weigh your hair down, dry it out, or make it greasy)
trim split ends regularly
I hope this helped and if you have any additional questions, leave a message in my inbox :)
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Hey, what can I do to get rid of my split ends? (link)
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First, it would be a good idea to go to get your hair cut before it gets worse. After, you should try to reduce and extra heat or stress (from putting it up in a tight ponytail). You can also keep your hair healthier by eating multi vitamins and finding a shampoo that works well with you hair (not weighing it down or leaving it brittle). One thing I used to help my hair to be healthier was mane n' tail horse shampoo and conditioner (don't worry, it's safe on people). There is some really nice stuff in it that helps keep your hair healthy and shiny which helps prevent getting more split ends. The only bad thing about is that it might dry your hair out. If that's the case, don't use it as often. The last thing you should do is to trim your hair regularly. This is to snip off all the split ends that are starting to form. That is the reason why many people say cutting your hair makes it grow faster not because it is but because there are no split ends so it appears longer and healthier. Hope this helped and leave a message in my inbox if you have any more questions
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14/f alot of stuff has happened in my life and so i never got a chance to really date in middle school. because alot of family issues and shit took me away from social life there was only one guy i liked and we were just really good friends and i think he liked me too. but we dont talk really anymore, though i want to change that hopefully. im going to date this year but idk i was just thinking like some people think 18 is old. but like anyone can say that im a really fun and all that, so im definitly not uptight about alot of stuff and i would not mind or care if i lost my virginity to my bf but my only thing is that i would do it when i want to with him and when im ready but i would be in a serious relationship though. but my sister is 18 and shes never really had a serious boyfriend, guys ask her out and shit but she turns them down becasue she doesnt want to waste her time on someone if shes not attracted to them or most of them were dbags good looking or not, thats mostly what happened with me. guys were never a priority to me or her but for her it was like all her life she basically was like if it happens it happens. and my sister is very like she dresses stylish but classy like she doesnt wear low cut stuff, me i dress nice too but if i go out with my friends i like to wear tight clothes sometimes, not slutty becasue i like my body plus me and her have different body types. shes short but very lean not a lot of muscle, skinny she doesnt do sports, and not really curvy. but im short and really curvy and skinny, and i do sports so im sure if she had my bod she would dress the same. anyway if you were to wait until 17/18 or even 19 to have sex with your boyfriend that you've been dating for a year or two is that like old? i know people are gonna say whenever your ready but really is that old? even if you guys say it is it doesnt mean im gonna lose my virginity to some dude when im 15/16 so idc just say what you want. thanks (link)
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As the answer for your first question at the top, I don't believe that there is an age that is too "old" when it comes to virginity. You have to realize that there are also people who remain virgins until marriage by choice. That is perfectly fine because they made that choice themselves. It comes down to being mature and responsible enough to handle the consequences if something were to go wrong like getting pregnant and basically being ready and willing. On the other hand, I do believe that there are people that are having sex at too young of an age.
Now for your second question, at the point of a real, true relationship, it's really up to the people in the relationship. If they feel that they are ready to engage in that kind of commitment to each other, then they have every right to do it (as long as they are of legal age and both people consent). If they decide to wait, that's fine too.
Despite what some people may think, virginity isn't something that you should give up because you feel you are too old. So basically what I'm saying is that being too old shouldn't be important. Losing your virginity is a big decision that many young people get pressured into for that reason and peer pressure from others especially a boyfriend or girlfriend. The important thing is to wait until you are sure you are ready (physically and mentally) and you make it special with somebody that you love. I hope this helped and if you have any more questions or want to talk more about this, feel free to leave a message in my inbox.
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Female. All my life when taking shower. Whenever i shampooing and conditioning my hair, i scratch my scout to prevent from itching. But does it damage your brain or mess up your thinking or anything?
I normally scatch my face when washing face to remove make up. But i learn that that will damage your skin. But what about the head though?
Cuz i feel like im a little dumn now. And have memory lost. I mean, short term memory. Im only 23 (link)
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It depends on how hard you scratching your head. Obviously if you scratch hard enough, you'll damage the skin and maybe pull out some hair. As far as I know, scratching shouldn't cause any brain damage unless you are scratching way too hard. The only bad thing that scratching your scalp on a regular basis does is that it can lead to hair loss. If your scalp is itching often, I would recommend trying a dandruff shampoo. Usually, an itchy scalp is caused by dryness and the shampoo might help with that. If you want to itch, do it gently and carefully only in the area that is irritated. You can also massage your scalp. This is a common method used for shampooing. Use the palms of your fingers and massage in circles around your head. This way, you are still stimulating the blood blood flow, but aren't doing too much damage to the hair. Every once in awhile though, it is fine to scratch with your fingernails to remove dead skin, but only in moderation. For right now, stick to massaging unless you have a really bad itch. Hope this helped and message me if you have anymore questions :)
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How do you make the page smaller on a computer?
When I make my page smaller it cuts things off and when its bigger at 100% I have to scroll and the page is too big. My page is too big for the screen on my laptop I so need help to make it smaller without using the zoom level thing , Thank you (link)
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Another way to do it works if you have a mouse. Click control and scroll down as you would if you were trying to move to the bottom of a page.
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I know this is going to sound ridiculous and you're gonna judge me for being such a baby, haha, but I am 17 and afraid to use tampons. I've had my period for about 5 years and have always used pads. I'm a virgin and I'm just afraid of it hurting, I have a very low tolerance for pain and I just can't get over my fear. I know there is gonna come a time when I neeeed to use one for swimming or working out. I just can't get over being afraid. Help? (link)
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Hey, Don't worry about it. I know many women who have never used tampons and they're completely fine. It's up to you if you want to try it. As for trying to get over your fear of the pain (which is normal), just remember that yes, it might hurt the first time, but with time and practice you will become used to it as long as you are responsible (as in not leaving it for too long) and doing it right. It's similar to getting contacts or shaving. The first time you do it, it may hurt, but once you learn how to do it right, you'll be fine. And if you don't want to try it, it's perfectly fine. Just like with contacts and shaving, it is your choice to make. Hope this helped
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Every girl dreams about becoming a ballerina right? Well secretly, i have. I've done soft ballet for a total of five years, with a break of 3 years after my third year I regret that.
Anyway recently my friend let me keep an old pair of pointe shoes, I tried them on and they fit. I went up on my toes (releve) and could even walk.
However I read online that this is dangerous. I don't want to damage my feet! My dance school says I can't do pointe for some reason. I trust them, but my legs are strong enough and I'm flexible and everything.
Please I just really want to learn. I'm determined.
Is there any way of speeding up the process do I can offcially learn pointe? Maybe leg strengthing excercises??
Thanks.
F/17 (link)
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Is there a specific reason why your dance school doesn't want you to dance on pointe? Your age probably isn't the problem; most likely it has something to do with training and readiness for it. Preparation is extremely important because of the damage it could do on your feet. So you should talk to the people at your dance school. Ask them why they won't let you. If it is because they feel you aren't ready, then you should ask them specific things you could do to help. The problem is, if you aren't prepared properly when you try it (you should have the training and are ready to commit to it), you could possibly hurt yourself permanently. Sorry I couldn't help too much (I haven't danced in years), but you need to talk to the experts at your dance place because they will be able to provide you with the most assistance. Good luck :)
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any ideas for a girl's 14th birthday party? its a summer birthday in the beginning of July and i cant think of anything! thanks(: (link)
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You could do a sleepover,a mock spa day, a dinner party/barbecue, a movie marathon of your favorites at home, have a pool party, go shopping with your friends, go see a movie at the theater, or just hang out. You could also try to incorporate things you like into the party. For example, one year I had a jewelry making party because I loved arts and crafts. Also, you want to pick depending on your guests. This basically means to consider how many people you want and if you want to invite boys as well (because some of the choices would not be appropriate). If you want to just invite a few close friends, then you could do the sleepover and combine a few other ideas to do during it like the spa day and the movie marathon. If you want a larger party where you can invite all your guy friends, then having a pool party or barbecue or something like that would be a better idea. I hope this helped and if you have any more questions, feel free to send me a message in my inbox :)
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Hi, I'm In NEED Of Help to find a Job. I'm turning 14 and I Need money for Clothes. Do You know anywhere where I Could get a Job FAST?? (link)
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Due to child labor laws, you can't get an actual job until you are at least 14. Even then, you would have to check with the exact law for wherever you live. Also, since the laws for teens working are pretty strict, most businesses would probably hire somebody who is older. On the other hand, there are some other things you could do. The most popular "job" for teens is babysitting. You can offer to babysit for your neighbors, family, friends, or you could even put out an ad (keep in mind that this would cost $). You could also do some odd jobs around your area. Just ask around and see what you can find. Good luck :)
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I'd just like to ask for help regarding customizing my site. I don't really want anything elaborate, but I haven't learned html yet so I don't really know how to about it, and I don't want to screw it up in the end.
I'd really just like a background or something so my profile doesn't look so plain. (link)
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On the left hand column, there are 2 sections under registered users called profile settings and column settings. You can use those to customize your profile including a background, any information you want to include on your column, and any other thing like that. It is really simple. The profile setting is used for any information you may want to include on your profile. The column settings is where you can change your background. Under the heading "Your Column Colors" is where it explains what you can do and includes already made backgrounds or colors for your column. I hope this helped and if you have anymore questions, just send me a message and I can explain more in detail.
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At the end of the year, there is a semi-formal dance and honestly, I don't know what to do! I'm not sure what kind of dress I should wear. Also, I have some acne but I'm not really sure whether I should wear makeup or not. If anybody can provide some suggestions, that would be great! If it helps any, I'm an eighth grader, so it's not supposed to be super-fancy! Thanks in advance! (link)
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The best way to decide on what to wear is to make up some guidelines for what you want your dress to be like and try to find something that fits those guidelines. The first thing you should consider is length. Since it is a dance, you should go for something on the shorter side (floor length dresses tend to be more formal anyways) to allow you to move around more comfortably. Next is the fit. Think about your body in 3 parts. You have the chest area, the stomach area, and the leg/thigh area. For the chest area (and I'm including the shoulders and arms with this too), there are dresses that cover the arms, spaghetti strap, halter, one shoulder, strapless, etc. Since you are still pretty young, you should probably stay away from the more revealing types of dresses unless you plan on wearing a small shrug or half sweater with it (which is actually a pretty good idea to wear with most other dresses). Next is the stomach area. Some dresses have this part combined with the leg/thigh area in a sort of slinky or ruched fabric. You should probably avoid dresses like this because they are made for an older look. Instead, you should look for a dress with an empire waist which basically means that there is a defined waistline usually right under your chest and it sometimes has something that you can tie in the back (sorry, it's kind of hard to describe). These dresses tend to be more age appropriate. For the leg/thigh area, it's a good idea to go with something that is a reasonable length (around the knees) and that is loose and flowing instead of tight and clingy. One last thing for the dress is to find a color or pattern that you really like. Since it's a semi formal dance, bright colors and cute patterns are more acceptable than a boring black or white dress. Although, it will come down to what you feel comfortable in and what you prefer. Most stores where you buy your everyday clothes will probably have some dresses for you to pick out. Also, I'm including a link to an online store that has some cute dresses that might help too.
http://www.simplydresses.com/dresses/dress_by_event/semi-formal
Another tip is to pick comfortable shoes to go with your dress. If you can, stay away from high heels and tight fitting shoes. Trust me, you are not going to enjoy a cute pair of high heels after trying to walk around and dance in them for a few hours. I know a few girls that wore sparkly Toms to prom this year, so maybe you could try something like that. Also, a cute pair of sandals might work too.
As for makeup, I would recommend wearing some. If you don't normally wear makeup, then you should just go with some basic stuff. I have a little acne too, so for special occasions like these, I cover up all blemishes and imperfections with concealer and use foundation to even it out with some setting powder so it doesn't come off. If you don't feel comfortable wearing a lot of makeup, here's a neutral looking makeup tutorial I found on youtube.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z3mmKFh8oeo
If you are willing to wear a little more bold looking makeup, then you should look on some of these channels for a look that you like. These channels have some of the best hair and makeup tutorials that I have been able to find so I hope they help :)
http://www.youtube.com/user/AshleysBeautyCorner/videos
http://www.youtube.com/user/Macbarbie07/videos
http://www.youtube.com/user/bubzbeauty/videos
http://www.youtube.com/user/bebexo/videos
Anyways, I hope this helped. These are just some things that I have picked up and learned from over the years. If you need anymore help or have any questions, I'd be happy to help, just send me a message.
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am 12 he 13. he wants sex, but i told him i was scared, he respects my response,but he keeps saying that he 'wants to fuck me bad.' the more he says it i want to, but am 12 dont know what to do.some advise??? (link)
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Good for you for saying no to him. Most girls would fall under the peer pressure and do it. But anyways, if he keeps pressuring you to do it and saying stuff like that to you, then your best bet is to break up with him. He might respect your opinion at the moment, but he might try to take advantage of you. You are only 12. That's way too young to be having sex. Think about the consequences of what would happen if you were to get pregnant from him. Don't do it.
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am in 7th grade and i have a 38/c bra is this normal cause, they have gotten that big in 1 year. am comfused about this, i wear a smaller bra to make them look and feel smaller, dont know if this will help or just irritate me?
lol,i just cant type today, had to go back and fix like 15x (link)
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You shouldn't wear bras that are too small. It's not good for you. Wear properly fitted bras and don't worry about your boob size. Some girls go through puberty before others. If you are really concerned about the size, there are minimizing bras. Ask your mom about getting one. Also, take a look at the website I included. it should help. Good luck :)
http://kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/girls/bra.html
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