My name is Mackenzie, I have been diagnosed with severe depression, anxiety, in therapy, and have gone through everything imaginable. I'm really just wanting to save people and give them an ear to listen to and the best advice I can. Please talk to me
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Hi I'm a 13 year old boy and the other day I got beat up by a girl just because I splashed her accidentally and got her phone wet. I tried to apologize and even fought back, but she pounded me pretty bad. I'm feeling so bummed and stressed out because I never thought this could ever happen to me by a girl. Now I'm worried about the next time or if I'm ever going to be able to go to the beach again with friends because she might be there and they will find out that she beat me up and will tease me about it and stuff, and what if she beats me up again in front of them? She said she would if she saw me there again... any advice? Stressed and scared. (link)
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Hey sweetheart,
You\'re 13. It was an accident. Things happen and girls react in ways you won\'t understand. Trust me on that. Violence is never the answer and you will learn that as you get older. Do not be stressed out about this or be afraid to go to the beach again. You are young, have fun, go out, and if you see her, give her a little smirk but that\'s all. Don\'t show her you\'re afraid because that\'s what she wants. Keep your head up, have fun, let the situation go, you can\'t change it. You\'re okay. Just breathe and be careful who you surround yourself with:)
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We've been going out a couple of months (seeing eachother for about five months pire.) We're both 16. I've had intercourse with 4 other people and he is a virgin. I don't want him to feel pressured by that. How can I ease him into it with little awkwardness? I'm not the best with awkward conversations. (link)
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Listen... Your so young. Youve had sex with 4 people now, slow down hun. Your going way to fast, you dont need sexual things to make you happy. Your boyfriend seems like the type who just wants a steady relationship, give him that. Dont ruin it. Cuddle with him, take pictures, kiss him a lot, hold his hand, stop trying to jump to sex. You have to think about your health, STD'S are terrible these days, if you feel like sex is your thing then fine, thats you, but make sure your protected and your getting checked by a gynecologist, but my opinion is you need to slow down and be happy with what you are now, dont bring it up until he's ready. He wont like it if you pressure him or you bring it up, he'll get a different feeling about you.
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how do i tell my Dad i need therapy? (link)
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Im sure this is going to be very hard for you but you cant keep your feelings bottled up. If you feel like your not comfortable enough with your dad to talk about something that's on your mind and you want a therapist then you can most deffinately get one, but you need to talk to your dad first and let him know whats going on because it may be a problem your dad can solve,weather you believe it or not. A couple months ago I was going through the toughest time in my life, I was always crying and I wanted a theripist, i bottled my feelings up and my parents were left clueless and i wouldnt talk to them. But as soon as I did it was like weight lifted off my shoulders. If its not a problem your dad can help you with, then he can help you find someone that can. Be honest about everything though, cry if you need to, just pour your emotions out.
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OKay well I am in 7th grade (Middle School) and ALL of my friends have boyfriends and i don't and I feel really left out. I am taller than most of my friends and some of the guys but My friend who is a little bit taller than me, still manages to get all the guys she wants. (link)
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I had the same problem in middle school. But, know that your beautiful, things come to those who wait. It doesnt matter if your tall, short, super skinny, or bigger, your beautiful and you will find a boy. Soon, a boy is going to come a long and find you perfect in every single way. Dont ever wish you could be one of your friends because their is a guy out there that notices you. Your only in 7th grade, dont get yourself worked up over this.
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Hi!
My problem at school is that I'm not a well liked person. I don't know why. All of my class mates are weird, and get lower grades than me. Most of them don't care when they get in trouble or get bad grades in school. Also, none of the girls like me. I'm 13/m and I'm so unpopular and I want to at least be liked by all of my class mates,and I go to a catholic school, and it's not really easier making friends there and I've actually been there since i was 5 and my friends ditched me. Help! (link)
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You sound like your a smart kid. Many teenagers dont care about school, all they care about is being popular and fitting in. Im a teenager so I understand how your feeling. Sweetie it doesn't matter how popular you are or how bad you are to make yourself look cool. Your never gonna be liked by everybody, I hate to say it but its true, you cant please everyone. As for the girl part, keep your chin up, your so young, I promise you, you are cute, you are noticed by girls, and one day your going to have the perfect girl and She is going to like you for you. Be patient hun,everything will be fine, just keep doing what your doing. Dont change for anyone.
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