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I'm All Alone at School and I Don't Know Why?
Hi!
My problem at school is that I'm not a well liked person. I don't know why. All of my class mates are weird, and get lower grades than me. Most of them don't care when they get in trouble or get bad grades in school. Also, none of the girls like me. I'm 13/m and I'm so unpopular and I want to at least be liked by all of my class mates,and I go to a catholic school, and it's not really easier making friends there and I've actually been there since i was 5 and my friends ditched me. Help!
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Mackie3 has told you as it is. Let me put it nother way.
It's hard being the smartest kid in the class, especially when the others don't care if about their grades. I can assure you their parent scare and is at least one reason they may dislike you as you are not getting chastised at home for poor grades.
Being 13 would put you in middle or Jr. High school which is a social quagmire. Everyone is dealing with the effects of puberty, harder school work, greater expectations both at home and school and a new social order.
Will things ever change? Yes. At some point some of the girls will wake up and understand that the brainless jocks and the class clowns will never be successful in life. Never be able to provide for them as their parents have. That the smart boy, boys like you are the boys they should be dating.
I'm sure in your school there are smart girls who like you feel left out because they are smarter than the rest of their classmates. I would suggest that you try and find these girls and try and make friends with them. I believe you will not only find them very interesting bit fun to be with as well.
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You sound like your a smart kid. Many teenagers dont care about school, all they care about is being popular and fitting in. Im a teenager so I understand how your feeling. Sweetie it doesn't matter how popular you are or how bad you are to make yourself look cool. Your never gonna be liked by everybody, I hate to say it but its true, you cant please everyone. As for the girl part, keep your chin up, your so young, I promise you, you are cute, you are noticed by girls, and one day your going to have the perfect girl and She is going to like you for you. Be patient hun,everything will be fine, just keep doing what your doing. Dont change for anyone.
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