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I don't like hurting him but the fort of me with someone else kills him :(
My best mate has a crush on me and I no the fort of me getting with a guy kills him, and I don't no what to do I hate hurting him he means the world to me I love him with all my heart but just not in the way he loves me, I like someone else and I have to keep him a secret beacuse I no if he know the girl he wanted was with someone else I would lose him and I just don't want that to happend I really don't no what to do its so hard I no what ever I do I'm going to hurt someone and that kills me knowing that HELP
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Would like to say thank you to you both for your advice itt really did help and I am now dating :) and my best friend is still my best friend after lettiing him have a few days do chill out about it :) so everything is fine and going right now so once again thank you x
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I understand you really care about your friend, and that is a good thing because friendships can be lifelong. But if your friend is so protective over you that you have to compromise your love life and doing what you want to do, he needs to back off a little. Think of yourself without thinking of either of the guys' feelings. Do you want to date someone? If the answer is yes, don't let your friend stop you. It will hurt him, but if he is a truly good friend he should respect that you don't have feelings for him in that way and only want to be friends. Good luck! Situations where someone has to get hurt are always hard :( Hope I helped!!!
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Since you don't have the same feelings for him as he does you, you do have to set him straight. I know it's hard but you have to. If you like someone but you have to keep it a secret because of you best friend..that's not fair for you. You deserve someone you know?
He'll eventually find some other girl, but for now just tell him the way you feel..that you don't feel the same way as he does, it's not his fault it's not your fault either.
He should still be your friend after you tell him the truth, if he isn't than that's his problem, but I figure that since he cares so much about you he won't leave.
I hope I helped! <3
Good luck!
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