Hi, im 16 and just got home from school, i went on our home computer and found my dads yahoo messenger up, i became looking through them and discovered that my dad was flirting with women and asking to meet up with them; he even was alright with having sex with them , i am so scared...i cant imagine my parents getting divorced and i dont think i can bring it upon myself to tell my mom, what should i do?
Tell your mom to discuss it with your dad! Don't leave her to feel stupid an vulnerable! Tell your mom. what your dad is doing is wrong and disgusting! Tell your mom don't let her get played like a fool.
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My boyfriend says 143 to me, I find that insincere, true or false?
It's an abbreviation
The number 1 because i is a 1 letter word.
The number 4 because love Is a 4 letter word.
And the number 3 because you is a three letter word
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I was wondering what the best method of suicide would be to cause the least amount of trauma to my family and whoever finds me.
There are NO "good methods" to suicide. Anyway is equally as bad. Please don't do this, talk to your family or anyone about your concerns. Ask for help don't jump into something that you will never be able to take back! I am here for you if you need someone to talk to you.
God put you on this earth for a reason. He loves you and you are worth more than you think. I no rings may be hard but time heels everything and do does the correct mindset. Don't jump to conclusion. Think of how selfish you are being to all the people that love you. And yes they LOVE you! God loves you!
Please tell your family about your concerns before you just jump into something that can never be taken back.
God bless
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hello,i turned 13 on the 16th august 2011&ive been talking to this lad for quite a while&we always seem to talk about sex,but im a virgin:/,i feel ready to have sex,but i feel asif he's just gonna use me for a fxck&then hate on me. He has been telling me about the positions he wants to use on me&asking me to get on my knees for him,everytime i see him he blanks me,never says a word to me,but when were at home he will inbox me talking about sex,i feel ready and the convo's are making me more ready,should i wait untill i find someone who loves me for who i am and can wait,or do i just go ahead and let him have sex with me,please help me i feel so confusied,i just want to get it out the way but i could be doing the rong thing,all my friends say its good but i dont want to do it to fit in,just think its time for my most loved childhood memory to be given to him:/please help me as you can see im clearly stressed&confused im really scared of doing the rong thing!!!!!!1
Well first off your 2nd guessing yourself which is a HUGE sign that you should NOT have sex with him. Honestly he is using you. i hope you can realize what im saying because im being 100% honest. HE IS USING YOU! i promise. Please do not have sex with him because you will regret it so much. and honestly i would stop talking to him completely because all he sees you as is a sex object and hes a waste of time.
I know what your going through with wanting to get it out of the way because im 16. and it's hard for me to sometimes. i said the same thing when i was 13-15. and im just starting to realize that having sex just to get it out of the way is not what i want. and im so glad i didnt do anything stupid like that.
i see girls at my school all the time who had sex at a young age and the guy either left them they got pregnant or they regretted it so much. the best thing for you to do is wait until you are WAY older and wait till you find someone who loves you and not you for sex. I'm sorry if you don't understand fully but please message me because i would be happy to help you with whatever you need.
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how do you stop watching pornography,sexual urges etc.
if christian, feel free to add any usable bible quotes to memorise to abstain from these things
AGE: 13
GENDER: MALE
you can't really stop sexual urges...everyone gets them. However with pornography it's just mind over matter. You just have to stop. Tell yourself you don't need it. And honestly pornography is so disgusting, and WRONG. sex is a sacred thing that shouldn't be put all over the internet.
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Hi I'm looking for a easy healthy way to lose wieght I need good eating tips and excerises that I can do in small spaces inside (no exercise films) I'm 15f I'm 20 pounds overweight can you help me I'm willing to stopp eating so many snacks I just need good tactics can I set a goal for losing 20lbs by like October or I just need help with this
Almonds are belly fat burners.
turkey rolls
boiled eggs
grilled chicken
salad
veggies
vitamins
lots of water
jumping jacks
jogging in place
push ups
it's important to be active for at least an hour a day.
if thats to much for you then 30 mins will help to.
If you want more details or have any questions message me. These are just a few things for you to eat that are good for you. It's important to have protein in your diet.
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I hate high school. I'm 18, I'm more mature then people in my school, and I'm in all these boring advanced classes that are jokes. I'm not learning anything, and I hate my friends! They are annoying and we've grown apart. I want to try to graduate early or take my English class online or at a community college. I'm wondering, from people who have done this.. (basically taking an online class) is it easy, is it hard, is it a lot of work, anything you want to tell me about it would be great:)
I have taken 7 online classes. It is not hard it is pretty esay. You can look up all the answers. and you do it on your time. I think that's a very good idea you have. However taking an online class can be annoying depending on the person if you are mature enough to be responsible and turn in assignments and not get be hind then I would say go for it. It's not that bad especially if you hate school
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there this song that i heard on the radio and you know how the first time you hear a song you dont get the lyrics right? well i was listining to lite fm and i heard this song that made you wanna get up and dance and i heard something that said put your hand in you hair? well even though i didn't get the lyrics i knew what the song was about. its about a guy whos in love with a rich girl but love her for her and not her money (i guess). anyways.... SOMEONE HELP ME!!!!!!!
dynamite taio cruz
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is it ok to go out with a guy after my best friend did?plz answer need help fast!! i rate high!
I did and well were not best friends anymore. lol but i'm cool with it. cause she wasnt a good friend anyway. it really just depends on the situation. talk to your friend about it. thats what i did.
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how many licks does it take to get to the center of a tootsie pop?
the world may never know :)
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okay im 14 and last year i got fingered n da laundry room of my house n i gave da guy a hand job (the guy was my bestfriends ex n dey broke up on da day of, later on i stole anutha one of my friends boyfriends, next i lost my virginity to n da band room at skool to one of da snair drummers( da percussion section is full of players) im on da flag team by the way. also i gave da guy a blow job on da staircase at skool while three of his percussion bruthas watched, den i gave anutha one of the snair drummers a blow job n da bathroom at skool, den i had sex with one of the drill(dance) team girls boyfriend which is also a snair drummer... does that make me slutty???
Yeah!
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Hey! I volunteered for a pie in the face thing for my school NHS. People will pay like a few dollars to throw pies at me/other people, and they have a choice between just whipped cream on a plate, or with chocolate sauce added, or finally with cherries added. Haha :D
Which outfit do you think I should wear? I usually dress very fashionable/stylish and I don't want to look like I dressed down in rags for a charity, I think that would look selfish. I want to wear something that looks stylish and will contrast well with the pie. :)
Outfit 1) White hollister shirt/hollister jeans/converse. Outfit 2.) Black cowl neck sweater, with hollister jeans, and heel boots. Outfit 3.) Black cowl neck sweater, with matching skirt, tights, and heel boots. Outfit 4.) Red dress with belt, tights, and red heels
Any advice? Those would all be typical outfits I would wear to school, although outfit 1 is really casual. So which outfit would you most want to throw pie at, lol?
To be honest yes it's a charity, but you about to get things thrown all over you. I doubt they are expecting the participants to look nice. I would go with jean shorts and a t-shirt. However if i had to choose go with outfit 1. Minus the WHITE shirt lol. I'd ware a darker color shirt.
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My house is filled with clutter (hey, I bet part of exercising could be cleaning it!) but even without the clutter it's small.
I don't live in the best area, either, so going for runs, though I love running, wouldn't be the safest bet.
I have no room for a workout machine, or to do exercise videos, barely even to dance to music. Going to a gym where other people can see me seems awkward (I have issues with being stared at, kinda a shybird here.)
BUT, even with all that, I'd really like to get some cardio into my routine. How can I do that with these conditions?
All answers appreciated. :)
I'm with you 100% when you said "Going to a gym where other people can see me seems awkward". However you have to realize this is your life and what people say or think of you shouldn't matter. You do what you want to do and stop worrying about people looking at you. If you truly want to exercise you will do it for yourself and get over the fact that people may be watching you (which they wont be, because everyone is concentrating on what there doing and there body)
Hope i helped:) any question let me know:)
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okay so ive been with my boyfriend for a year now and i always think about sex but im scared that if i lose my virginity before marriage then i will go to hell.. is that true? btw im roman catholic
Sex can be very confusing when your always taught to stay pure till marriage and when you do believe in god. Everyone will have sex at one point in their life and your not going to go to hell for doing it. Personally i can't say it's a mistake to have sex before your married, because everyone's different. my OPINION i think everyone should wait for the right guy/girl and get married and then have sex. However this is something you should talk to god about, read the bible get to know him better, understand why he believes to stay pure till marriage. before you do something that you could regret forever.
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Welll junior prom is coming up soon and im going with my boyfriend but the problem is were the SAME height and i dont wannt to be taller than him at prom :( but i HAVE to wear heals what do i do?! (i look really gay in ballet flats)
What about cute dressy sandals.
Or idk if you like the shoes with the straps in the back.
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I've been in a relationship with Corey for the past 3 years. We met on myspace at 1 or so in the morning. Before I met him, I sat in my room very depressed, so depressed, that I prayed for at least an hour or longer to God and even was desperate enough to wish on a star... stupid, right? I don't know whether the person reading this believes in God or wishing on stars, but not a month passed when I met Corey. We just barely got our internet up and running for the first time since I was 14, and my sister and I got our first myspace pages up and running. When Corey and I first met online, Corey asked for my number, and we started from there. There was a huge connection right from the start, but there was a downside.... he lived 3 hours away from me, so this was a long distance relationship. It was tough at first, but I got used to the distance, and we saw each other every 2-3 months and we stayed at each others houses for 1 week to a month at a time. The very, very first night we met was so passionate, and I felt completely loved and adored by him. He was such a gentleman! Sadly, this was the best night of my life... We've never had a day or night like this or even passionate or romantic like this... But now, everything has changed... What seemed to be a fairy tale come true was now becoming depressing and even nightmarish at times... so now Corey and I are hanging by a thread. I love him, but I don't think I'm "in love" with him anymore. I feel like he's cheating on me. I've seen his AOL instant messenger before, but when I look a year or two later (in his contacts in his mailbox) he has all sorts of girls names... ones I won't be able to post here because the names are pretty disgusting... but the names were pretty straight forward, like you could tell it was a girl, and that that specific girl was skanky or whatever you want to call a girl like that. There was a whole bunch of contacts like this there... at least four or five at least. His excuse was that he has had that AOL account since he was 15 or so (he was 19 then so that was way before he met me [if he's telling the truth]). I feel like he lies to me all the time, I can't be myself around him.. like this time I was being goofy and he gave me this face that looked as if he thought I was stupid or something. He has a cruel sense of humor and makes fun of me a lot, like he calls me Pinocchio (my nose is kinda big) and he's even made comments about me being heavy. My sister thinks that he is emotionally abusive and he tells me things like I can't drink on my 21st birthday (which is coming up), can't get a tattoo and my sister thinks that if I wind up marrying him, that he wouldn't let me do anything. He'd control my life, and would probably wind up hitting me or something. Every time I try to talk to him about what has been hurting me or bugging me, he always turns it into a fight and makes it my fault. Like for example, I got mad because he could talk to everyone else it seemed, besides me. He could easily open up to a stranger, or a friend, but never to me. So I got really upset and started asking him why he can't talk to me, he never sees me but doesn't care if he talks to me at all. He will only stay on the phone for a couple of minutes before letting me go, and if on a rare occasion, he will talk to me, we sit there in silence... if I complain about him not talking, he'll ask me "Why do you do this? You act like you're perfect and you don't do anything wrong, you can talk!" but I've tried telling him that I don't talk because every time I try talking to him, he doesn't listen to anything I have to say. I've even tried talking to him about something he's interested in, and it still doesn't work... There's always something he has to do, and he never seems to have enough time for me. Constantly busy. He calls me psycho (I have a couple of mental disorders), bi*tch, whore, hoe, stupid and there's probably more...
He's told me recently "you're another *insert psycho ex-girlfriend's name here*" and "I hope you die". He tells me he hates me and if I get angry it's because I'm pmsing. According to Corey, guys are always right, girls are always wrong. He's sexist big time, and is also a complete hypocrite. Guys say to never argue with a woman, because you'll never win, well no one will ever win an argument with Corey... just because the way he is. He has an excuse and an answer for everything. He never admits he's wrong at all, very rarely anyways. One time, I gave Corey a hug while he was sitting on the couch, and he snapped at me accusing me of wanting sex when I was really trying to be loving and cuddly. I even think he may be gay or bisexual... That's all I can think of at the moment... but anyways, a childhood friend recently popped into my life. My ex best friend Timmy. Not ex best friend because we stopped being friends, but just because our families moved away from one another and we simply stopped talking and whatnot. We were 6 when we met, and my sister and his sister are best friends. We have known each other for a very long time as you can imagine... the difficult thing is is that I'm now developing feelings toward Timmy... Growing up, he used to protect me from his little brother (who I was going out with at the time [I was a little too young for dating... but oh well, we were kids :P]). His little brother would always hit me and beat on me and Timmy would always defend and protect me. One day, I got sick of his crap, and dumped him, and asked Timmy if he would be my boyfriend and he said yes :) But his little brother went home crying to his mom and she separated Timmy and I and I was back to square one.... If I were older, I'd tell her off lol but I was 6 and didn't really know... but anyway, almost 21 now, and it seems the more I spend time with Timmy, the more attracted to him I get. Not just his looks either, but his personality as well. He's giving, trustworthy, respectful, a gentleman, a virgin, never had a "real" kiss (not like that stuff matters), he's funny, and caring, etc.. I know the guy to choose seems pretty obvious, but it's not that easy. As mean as Corey is, he can still be very sweet and I still love him and care about what happens to him.... How do I let him go? What can I do to make it hurt less? How can I let him down gently? Can someone please help me? I've never been in this situation before....this is really tough!!
Well it's clear who you should leave "cory".
Do you think God wants you to be with someone who doesn't treat you the way you deserve to be treated, the way God wants you to be treated. You need to do what's best for you and personally I don't think you should be with someone who you don't trust, calls you nasty names ect. If you do end up leaveing cory, but your scared and you don't know how to handle it, you can always lean on God trust god that this is what's best for you. Pray that he helps you get through this and to help you show you what you truly desirve in life. I can only give you advice the only true person who can help you with this is God. I hope the best for you.... Rember god only wants what's best for you.
God bless.
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Basically, how far are you allowed to go?
I'm sure kissing would be allowed, but would kissing with tongue be allowed? What about kisses on body parts such as the neck?
My bf is Catholic and I'm a (not very devout) Christian, and it's just something I was wondering.
I am a Christian, and i was always tought nothing past kissing. Using tong is fine neck fine as long it's not in your certin areas.
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Ok,Im asking this for my friend!
Iam 14/female and my friend is the same age ...
Ok my friend alley had a boyfriend who died(Joe RIP)He was really nice and stuff but she swears he is haunting her...She can like feel him when she is in the shower and when shes going to sleep at night.I never really believed in that kinda stuff but you can definatly feel him there! Its kinda weird...DO YOU GUYS THINK WE ARE INSANE???
I mean we have tried talkin to him but i dunno what to do...She really loves him...still..hes been dead about a year...WHAT THE HEK DO WE DO??
That is really creepy, however something proble scared her " everyone gets scared" and she was like omg is that him? and then it happened again so she believed it was true. This is the devil trying to put fear in you guys....and every time you here or think or see something like that you need to calm down and say- NO THIS IS NOT REAL LEAVE ME ALONE SAITEN. That is all in your head and you choose what you want to believe, and what you believe is what is going to happen. Your mind and thoughts are very powerful, just be careful and no that it's not real.
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Okay well im 14 going to be 15 in like 3 months. Me and my boyfriend make 6 months on the 4th of December so tomorrow. We have been talking about sex for that past few weeks now and I think im ready, but I still have this little voice in my head telling me im not. I know I really love him though and I know he won't do anything I wouldn't want to because he always caring of me. I really know I want him to be my first though, but the thing thats getting me is that im to young I think that's the only thing holding me back. What is your opinion on this and does it hurt your first time I really want to know pretty much everything please?
Sometimes teenagers mistake love for lust, Do you truly love him? your so young how can you say you truthfully LOVE him. i think people that are in high school don't know the true meaning of LOVE and they mistake it with lust.
o.k. so I don't think you should have sex with him, because physicaly your body is not ready it is still growing and it can mess up your growing stages. Also at this age you don't no everything about sex and you proble don't have the proper things to keep you from getting pregnant. Can you imagine if you were to get pregnant?:( it wouldn't be good at all! Since you are second guessing your self i think that's a BIG sigh that you should wait. I think you should wait, sex isn't what every puts it out to be... in less it's right and done the right way.
At the end of the day it's you chose and all i can give you is advice and hope you will take it.
Just a little things to add-
I plan on saving myself till marraige, resons why....
I never have to worry about getting pregnant.
I wont be taken advantiage of to have sex with anyone " because they no i wouldn't do that"
I get to stay pure, which makes me special
I have something to look forward to on my wedding night.
My body is not a peace of candy, that any guy can have.
It's hard to explain this by righting it but... i incurage you to stay pure till it's the right time.
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I believe that the music you feed your mind becomes part of how you yourself think, feel, comprehend, etc. So I have decided to make a playlest on my ipod Of all Uplifting, powerful, insperational songs and I was hoping you guys had some suggestions.
I Like all Types of music, Mostly R&B but there is no type of music I dislike. Im big on lyrics so if the song holds meaning I will enjoy it
I'd apriciate it alot. Thank you. God bless
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VU_rTX23V7Q
Casting crowns- who am i^^
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KwsvqVmFV6Y
casting crowns- Voice of truth
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uhOJW4Uwy3c&feature=related
casting crowns- does any body here her
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UmzDyOAaRJE
Miley cyrus- girls just wanna have fun
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0-qQdw7Xpv4
Justin bieber- one time
I hope you enjoy these songs:)
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