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does this make me slutty
okay im 14 and last year i got fingered n da laundry room of my house n i gave da guy a hand job (the guy was my bestfriends ex n dey broke up on da day of, later on i stole anutha one of my friends boyfriends, next i lost my virginity to n da band room at skool to one of da snair drummers( da percussion section is full of players) im on da flag team by the way. also i gave da guy a blow job on da staircase at skool while three of his percussion bruthas watched, den i gave anutha one of the snair drummers a blow job n da bathroom at skool, den i had sex with one of the drill(dance) team girls boyfriend which is also a snair drummer... does that make me slutty???
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Do what feels right, who cares what you get labelled. By most people's definition, those were "slutty" acts but I don't believe you should be called a slut.
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If you even have to question about this being slutty, then the answer is usually yes.
This is slutty behavior, whether you like it or not. Have some self respect girl.
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Yes. If this isn't slutty and completely trashy then I don't know what is. Have some self respect.
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Yeah!
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as hard as it may be, yes this is slutty and quite unusual behaviour for a 14 year old anyways it's never too late to change or sooner people will label you as a slut you said three people watched as you gave the guy a blowjob this means that they're obvioulsy already talking behind your back it's never nice to be called a slut but some people think that it's cool this is anything far from the truth because nobody respects a slut and this will cause major problems later on no guy's ever take sluts seriously
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short answer: yes.
long answer:
tracking the following sex acts performed-
1. reimbursed manual stimulation in the laundry room
2. sex in the band room at school with a snare drummer
3. oral sex on staircase at school with three voyeurs observing
4. oral sex in bathroom with yet another snare drummer
5. sex with another girl's boyfriend(snare drummer)
This doesn't sound like the sex life of a high-schooler, this reads like a porno.
in terms of societal norms, you would classify as "a slut".
question: are you happy with this? if you are, fine, do continue. if you don't want to be labelled by society in these terms, I'd highly reccomend you think before you act from now on. there's really not a problem with your behavior in a philisophical sense, but as my personal philosophy dictates, you should always consider the 2nd and 3rd order of effects for everything you do. I call it "the karmic enchilada". you will always reap the benefits, or consequences of your actions. I urge you to choose wisely from here on.
Best of luck to you.
-Gunner
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