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I am 16 and i want to manstrubate. what is the best way? and i am not to familiar with my "private parts". please help me!

Masturbate* Masturbation*

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Can you get pregnet from giving someone a blow job

You could try, but you never will succeed. However, you could get a friendly STD.

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i am 14 and my boyfriend is 18 about to be 19. he is a senior and i am a freshman..... my family does not aprove of the age diffrence.i do not no what to do ab out it. Because my mom wants me 2 break up with him. but i dont want 2..... i realy love him! should i listen 2 my mom or follow my heart?

Listen to your heart, when it's calling to you.
Seriously though, you should probably break up with him. Depending on what state/province you are, that relationship isn't even legal.

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okay. i am 12 years old and i want to wear thongs but im scared to ask my mom. shes cool and will probably say yes but i dont know how to ask her if i can wear them.. do you have any advice?? personal stories would be helpful

btw dont answer if youre gonna yell at me that 12 is "way too young to be wearing sexy butt floss"

If you wear thongs all the time you will get a yeast infection.

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okay im 14 and last year i got fingered n da laundry room of my house n i gave da guy a hand job (the guy was my bestfriends ex n dey broke up on da day of, later on i stole anutha one of my friends boyfriends, next i lost my virginity to n da band room at skool to one of da snair drummers( da percussion section is full of players) im on da flag team by the way. also i gave da guy a blow job on da staircase at skool while three of his percussion bruthas watched, den i gave anutha one of the snair drummers a blow job n da bathroom at skool, den i had sex with one of the drill(dance) team girls boyfriend which is also a snair drummer... does that make me slutty???

Do what feels right, who cares what you get labelled. By most people's definition, those were "slutty" acts but I don't believe you should be called a slut.

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how can you tell if a guy likes you by body language?

He gets a tent in his pants.

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Im a female and i dont know if he likessss meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Ask him, don't waste time posting a question like this with very little information and no background to work with.

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For Biology class, we have to pick ANY book relating to biology and write a book report on it. I'm not a cutter but I thought this would be intersting to present.

But my orginal book was The Hisotry of Mono (can't recall full name) and he allowed that one so I didn't tell him of this one. It's pretty simple and FAQ by Teens about it too so how can I convince him that it has to do with Biology? It's mroe of just...why they do it, ways of doing it, and how to stop.

You could try to prove that it is hereditary. It seems like that would be the only way you could relate it to biology, and that is pretty unlikely.

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can you get pregnant if you swallow sperm?

No, but if you try really really hard you can get pregnant by using only mind power.
So don't think about getting pregnant while swallowing!

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I have a lot of guy friends and they like to feel me up. At lunch time they usually do things like grab my breasts and jiggle them or just touch them a little bit. I don't really mind but I think it looks bad if there are five or six guys doing it. How do I explain to them that they can still do it but not all at once?

I am seriously concerned if this question isn't a joke. Have more respect for yourself and your body. You need to tell these guys to back off completely or they will learn that touching a girl's breasts is a appropriate gesture in public as a objectifying action.

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OK so i don't no if all vagina's look like this, but i fell like mines really ugly. like my outer lips of my vagina are like darker then everything else, there also like wrinkly. is this what all vagina's look like or do i just have an ugly vag?

If you have to ask if your vagina is ugly, it probably is.

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Ok so there is this cute guy that goes to my school. My friends boyfriend is friends with him. Should I have him say something to him? .. If so what? .. Or my friends friend
knows him but that ones a long shot. I don't have classes so I can't talk to him there. What else could I do...?

Get your friends boyfriend to invite you and the other boy to hang out with your friend, her boyfriend and the boy. Just consider a way of getting to know him as a friend first without asking him out before you can get to know him better, and then if you do like him and have chemistry it will progress from there.

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is it ok to go out with a guy after my best friend did?plz answer need help fast!! i rate high!

Ask your best friend. If she is your best friend she will give you her honest opinion.

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hey i am a 16 yearold girl and i want to be a model so bad but my probelm is i weigh 125 and i am 5 4.5...am i too fat and short or do i need to lose weight

The Truth: You are much too short.
Try growing or stretching yourself out with a stretching rack.

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I can't wait to go on a RoAd TrIp! But where should i go? I want to go somewhere in canada, so I don't have to cross the border (i live in toronto) I just want to get away for a week or two. Any Ideas??

Saskatchewan!
... Just kidding.
Don't go anywhere near the prairies. Avoid Manitoba, Alberta and Saskatchewan.

I know if I was going somewhere, I would go to Montreal or somewhere like Nova Scotia, but Nova Scotia is probably too far of a drive.
I'm so jealous of you for living in Toronto.
Umm Niagara Falls?

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which looks better on me?

Blonde: http://s298.photobucket.com/albums/mm268/crazii-skittles/?action=view¤t=RandomPics384.jpg


Brown:
http://s298.photobucket.com/albums/mm268/crazii-skittles/?action=view¤t=blurr.jpg


Thanks:)

Yeah, I definitely agree, the brown looks much prettier on you!

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OK, I only remember some of the lyrics and it is the chorus.It goes like this...

Sexy Can I?
Just Pardon my Manners
Girl when you skit it got me...

That's all I remember..
Please help..I love that song and I want to know what it is!

Thanks in advance!

It's called Sexy Can I? by Ray-J

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I saw you commented on that one girl's question about having sex with that guy from Valentine's Day. What you think on that whole thing? You done it?

Also, I gave my bf a handjob, and now I have this nasty rash on my hand. Any advice on what it might be from and how to get it off? My boyfriend won't help me figure out how to get off.

Personally I'm saving sex for my fiance or someone who I actually believe I have a serious enough relationship with to spend the rest of my life with. However, I don't think it's wrong to have sex before you are in a really serious relationship, I just don't think 14 year old's who have been dating for 3 months should have sex. Aside from being physical ready, they are no where near emotionally or mentally ready.

I don't have a lot of experience with STD's so I would reccomend you visit the doctor about your hand.

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Okay i'm with a boy.We go together and i think we're in LOVE.We've been together for about five months.We was together before but we had broke up and became just friends,so it been about a year.We are very close,so close to the point thaat he knows my main family and they all enjoy his company and so do i.We both go to the same school and whenever he does come over we mess around alot.Although we mess around in my house no one suspects any sexual vibes from us.He's a very nice person,he buys me things and takes care of me when i need it and my father likes him for that and i am very happy with him but for some reason i feel like i owe him.He has done alot for me and i feel bad.We don't do a whole lot together but we do enough to keep our relationship going.We talk to each other every day and we try to spend enough time with each other as possible sense we don't have any of the same classes.I've been over his house just once and i enjoyed myself as well as met his main family,of course we messed around over there but it was nutural.When Valentines day came he brought me so many wonderful and memorible things and i felt so happy but also so bad because i didn't get him anything,not to mention that i didn't get him anything for christmas eigther.But to get to the interesting part it was one day when he came over my house that things started to get out of hand(the fooling around of course).Not to mention that i'm still a virgin.Things was so hacted that i thought that all of my innocents would be gone by time he left,so my question is what should i do?I want to do it but there's a side of me that don't want to.I'm not afraid or anything it's just that it's never the right time and i feel like what's the rush i'm still young and it's not nessessary that i do "do it".I am also the type of person that "want my cake and eat it too".If i do do it i still want to be innocent.I know that it sounds dumb and it is impossible but i already feel really bad that i let it get that far but these damn hormones!It also got to the point that i've been taking online test questions on tickle.com to find out how innocent i am and if i am really ready.So someone please give me some good advice this is very important to me.
Thank You!!!

Harsh but true, you are obviously not ready to have sex if you are taking tests on Tickle.com to see if you are ready. Judging by your writing style you can't be more than 16 years old, and probably you are a lot younger. Don't feel guilty about not having sex and if this guy is making you feel guilty he is obviously not worth it.

Or you know of course you could always just have sex and get pregnant. Are you ready for that?

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how can i stretch for scourpians. i can now do the splits and my healstretches are good, and i almost have my bowin-arrow, but i want a better scourpian. how can i stretch my back and shoulders?

Okay well I would suggest working on your active flexibility as well as passive flexibility.

For active leg flexibility after doing splits put your back against a wall and with a partner get them to hold your leg up as far as you can comfortably go. Hold this for a minute. Then for 30 seconds let your partner let go and hold your leg as high as you can. Partner then grabs your leg again and you push your leg down as hard as you can for 30 seconds. Then hold with partner for another minute. Then your partner should let go and do little bounces up and down with your leg. Then partner should hold your leg again and push you are far as you can go.

Switch legs and make sure when you are doing this you don't go on your toe for the leg you are standing on. You can also do this facing the wall and kicking your leg backwards.

Shoulder flexiblity:

Sit with a straight back and put your arms out straight behind you. Link your arms together. Keeping your back straight, raise your arms as high as they can go.

Cat stretch - Go on your hands and knees on the floor and then slide your hands out in front of you while sticking your butt in the air. Push your armpits into the floor, and if you want more of a stretch go on your fingertips.

With a partner lie on your stomach and extend your arms straight in front of you. Have your partner lift your arms (above the elbows so you don't hyperextend your arms) as high as they can go.

Cross one arm in front of your body (sort of across your neck) and use your other arm to push it into your body.

Back Flexibility:

Bridges: Lie on your back and place your hands beside your head. Flip them under. Push up into a bridge. Straighten your legs. If you can't do this, then elevate your hands to make it easier. Place your hands on a step or box or something.

Seal stretch: This stretches your stomach as well as back. Lie on your stomach and slide your hands close to your hips. PUsh up with straight arms. If possible touch your feet to your head.



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