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me and my bf are diffrent ages
i am 14 and my boyfriend is 18 about to be 19. he is a senior and i am a freshman..... my family does not aprove of the age diffrence.i do not no what to do ab out it. Because my mom wants me 2 break up with him. but i dont want 2..... i realy love him! should i listen 2 my mom or follow my heart?
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Listen to your heart, when it's calling to you.
Seriously though, you should probably break up with him. Depending on what state/province you are, that relationship isn't even legal.
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wellll you might love him an all but hes going to college in a couple of months and sorry to say but he will probably find other girls his age that he will probably talk to and he will probably forget about a highschooler.... :l so maybe you should stop now while you have time to get over him so you dont get hurt
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Hey there,
All your parents see and disagree with is his age... I am sure there are a lot of things that they don't see in him though, things you see. You see the side of him that is loving, caring, supportive (I would hope) and if your parents don't see that, then they are basing this on their opinions alone; not by fact. If you love him and he loves you, you will stick by him even if he is a few years older. As long as he treats you right, I would not stop dating him. Your Mom is just worried for you and if you let her know he is safe to be around, she will be more likely to accept him. Have him over to your house for supper or an afternoon to let your Mom do her parental 'questioning'. It may be annoying, but having him tell them about himself will have your Mom's eyes opened a bit more.
Tell your Mom that you love him and as long as he is loving you/treating you right, you are going to stick by him. She will have no reason to break you two up if she gets to know him and is able to see the good in this relationship. Also, if you tell her how you feel for him and how he makes you feel inside, over time she will understand that he is making you happy and then let you two be. Listen to your mom when it comes to being safe, but listen to your heart when it comes to love <3
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Hello :)
Well, My boy friends a senior and i'm 15 and he's 17. A age diffrence there to, but my mom has gotten used to the fact of us being together. She wasn't at first, but let your mom meet your boy friend..if you really love him, show your mom that he's a nice. It will take time, but things will eventally work out. Stay with him, if you feel you really love him, don't let him go! XD
I hope I helped,
Emily <3
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