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HEYY evveryone! okay soooooo...i am a very open and caring person, i love to speak my mind so dont take it as if im being mean! because im just trying to help. when im older i would love to be a psychologist so this is great practice. dont be afraid to inbox me with any questions! i would more than love that.

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what are song good country love songs?

look at taylor swifts song.
her new album

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i thought i was in love with my best friend and we had a great relationship but we started to date and now we dont get along at all

then you guys are ment to be bestfriends :)

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i asked aquestion last week about liking this guy andif hes interested, you told me just to b myself and stop worrying. ive done that and recently on mxit we chat quite often,the other night we spoke alot, when i told him that i was going offline he was busy so he didnt reply to me and eventaully i logged off. he then asked my friend for my number to sms me but because she lost her phone recently she didnt have it... she kinda told him how i feel and he told her that hes scared to get hurt and that time will tell... however about an hour later i logged on again.. and he apologised and stuff.. my friend asked for my number and i gave it to her. i dont know if she gave it to him but he never asked me for it and neither did he sms me as yet.. on saturday he invyted me to go watch him play soccer but i couldnt go... i dont know if im getting my hopes up but i like him and i cant stop thinking about him and wondering if he feels anything... i dont wana ask him coz i dont wana feel da after effects of rejection.... need help asap...... thanx :)

hmm.. i am guesssing that he is starting to have feelings for you and you are grabbing his attention since he asked your friend for your number...
what you should do is when u guys are tlking again you should bring it up by saying
"did you ask ________ for my number?"
and if he says yeaa then be like you could of justasked me silly

or somthing along those lines :)
keep up the good workk girll!
and remembrer dont be clingy

if u have anymore questions jsut ask.

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I want to do something new with my hair but I'm not sure what! Should I dye it darker or lighter?
Thanks!

http://tinypic.com/r/11ryk3t/7

heyy ! well you have very fair skin and going dark will only make you more white.

here are some hair colors i suggest you do :)...


if you want to go lighter..
this color is a beautiful caramel and really makes you look tanner.
http://tv.spreadit.org/pics/evelyn-lozada-drama.jpg


if u want to go darker...
This color will also make you look tanner and it is a gorgous auburn.
http://s2.hubimg.com/u/1231597_f520.jpg


if you like on of these just print them out and give them to your hair stylist! :)

hope i helped if u have any questions just askk.


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I am looking for a wedding ring, but I really can't pick a style. I have a budget of $700, but obviously cheaper is better. These are the ones I'm deciding between are these:
http://www.zoara.com/selected-product/11292
http://www.zoara.com/selected-product/11131
http://www.bluenile.com/diamond-ring-white-gold_9736
I really want it to match my engagement ring which has 4 sidestone diamonds along the side of the band on either side of the centerstone round brilliant.
What do you think!?

the second one!! :)
its GORGOUSSS.

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Okay,
19/F. I asked a question a few weeks ago about my ex-boyfriend on here and got one answer. It was kind of rude, kind of funny. If you would like to read, feel free to.

Anyways, so I have a facebook... just like many other people do. And I guess I always had my profile to where everyone could see my whole profile.

Last night, I changed it to where only my friends could see my profile... no one else.

So my ex-boyfriend and I had a fight awhile ago and he ended up deleting me. No big deal, I figured he would anyways, he does it everytime we have a fight.

This morning, I logged on and he added me. Is it weird that he added me the night I changed my privacy settings? I mean, I know we both still have feelings for eachother but our prides and stubbornness get in the way of us being together (Or, that's what I think).

I'm not worried about it, but I thought it was weird. And I would like your opinions on it too, please. (:

And I forgot to mention I texted him about a week and a half ago to wish him happy birthday. The only reason I remembered was because my little brother's birthday is the same day. Does it make a difference?

Thanks in advance.

waitttt hahah me and my boyfriend are THE SAME.

but yea i think that he obviously used to stalk you on fb haha but then he couldnt anymore and he obv wants to check up on you so he re added you. (still loves youuu ) because if he didnt readd you means he doesnt care.

i also think that if you both still have feelings for eachother then one of you should just put your pride behind you both and try to fix it :l

im in the process of that right now lol...

well i hope i hoped!

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where can i find a cheap northface jacket for wemon online?

ebay!

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So I should be a normal 18 year old in a lot of ways but I've started to feel really abnormal recently. I don't feel like I know why I'm doing what I do anymore. Things just seem depressing and pointless. I'm either working or eating or sleeping; I have no life.
I'm in the middle of my university applications so this is a really bad time to feel down. Any advice?

heyy, well im 16 and im a junior and i feel like this alot when i am alone. so maybe your too lonley and stressed.
i think you should take time off of everything for a little and go out with your friends! it will make you feel much better

hope i helped !

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My male friend has been dating this girl for quite a long time now, probably about a year and a half or two years. I (and all my friends) have met her and we like her a lot!

The problem is this: whenever she isn't around and he has had a couple of drinks, he makes a move on almost any female, available or not (including myself)! I'm not sure if he has ever gone past the point of just being drunk and creepy because most people know he is in a relationship, but I know for sure that once he gave his class ring away to a girl and was regretful the next day.

I guess I am just wondering what you would do in this situation. I don't think that his girlfriend deserves to be treated this way, but I also don't think it is appropriate for me to say anything. I mean, I would want to know if my boyfriend was acting like that but still, I have elected not to say anything because I don't think it is my place. I am wondering if this is the right decision.

well since he is your friend, you need to be completely honest with him and tell him straight up that what he is doing is wrong and he has an amazing girl who loves him so its not worth flirting with other girls when you have someone great.

explain this to him in nice, respectful, sincere way and he will hopefully thank you for opening his eyes.


goodluck !

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so theres this guy that i chat to on mxit, we met trough a mutual friend about three years ago... recently we started chatting alot but just in general.. not so long ago ,i wasnt well so i asked him would he cry if i died and he said he will and that i cant die now so i asked why and he said coz we still getting to know each other... i dont know what to make of that but i think i like him........
how do i get him to like me?????????????

the simpilest way to get him to like you IS TO STOP WORRYING ABOUT GETTING HIM TO LIKE YOU and be your self! he will fall for the girl who is her self rather than the one who does things to make him like her.

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how do i leave my life

dont leave your life :( ! even if u dont think ittt so many people love you and will be so deppressed if you do.
please dont do anyhting to hurt yourself :l please call someone you know and tell them why you are deppresed and let it all out it will help so muchh.

nd happpy thanks giving !

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Hi i am fifteen years old and my boyfriend and i have just started performing oral sex. i gave him head today and we dry humped a lot. his penis is curved upwards so its easy to with clothes on. anyways, he was wearing underwear and jeans and i was wearing underwear and jeggings. i don't know if he cummed but he deff pre cummed in his underwear while we were dry humping. i straddled him a lot and then i laid down and he went on top of me and humped me a lot. again, his penis is curved upwards so like i could feel it in there but not completely becuase we wre wearing clothing. i thought that we were for sure good/protected cause of our clothes but i was changing into new sweats and i discovered a wet stain in the back of my underwear where my butt is and i freaked out jumped in the shower and scrubbed my vagina with a wash cloth with soap and i made sure that i washed my hands before. i then changed my underwear. is it possible for me to be pregnant because i really don't want to i'm only fifteen ten years ago i was five.. hahaha but a lot of people think it's just butt - cum if there is even such thing. no, he did not dry hump me from behind. my friends think that i was cumming and it dripped to the back or it came from my butt what do you think oh yeah and i've only ever gotten my period twice in my life. the first time was in jan. when i was 13 and the second time was a year later in jan when i was 14. do you think even if it did get in it would be harder for me to get pregnant because of how irregular i am? easy 5 points

noooooo your fine. onces cum touches clothing or even the air it dies. i think you just got very wet and it left a stain this is normal dont worry hunn :) your finnne ! just becarful next time.

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what muscles do wall sits tone?

also, how can i loose my love handles?

heyy, the wall sits tone the quads.

and Love handles are fat deposits. You get rid of fat through diet and cardiovascular exercise to create a caloric deficit (you burn more calories than you take in). You cannot spot reduce. Getting rid of love handles is just a matter of reducing your total body fat. Cut out high carbohydrate foods and eat a healthy diet. You will be taking in fewer calories this way, and the added calories you burn through exercise will further create a caloric deficit.

The American Heart Association recommends 60-90 minutes of cardiovascular exercise a day, every day, for those seeking fat loss. (At 50-80% of your maximum heart rate). Everyone, normal weight or not, should be exercising for at LEAST 30 minutes a day, most days of the week. By exercising, not only do you burn more calories while you exercise but also you will be burning more calories even when you stop, as your metabolism remains elevated.

In the end, it is a matter of having a constant caloric deficit. It is possible to lose weight through only exercise or only diet, but combining daily exercise and a healthy diet is the most effective way to safely maintain an ideal weight. You will need to maintain these good habits for life in order to keep the weight off.

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My parents got divorced when I was in second grade. I'm a sophomore in high school now, & their divorce has never really phased me. I didn't mind it. I live with my mom & I don't see my dad that often anymore.

For the past week or two, my dad has been in every single one of my dreams. They're weird dreams though. It's like I'm hallucinating. It's the most random things & they're really trippy. My questions is... what does it mean? It weirds me out. Does anybody know what could be causing it?

well im the type of person who believes that dreams mean something and are a guide and the future to our lives.

for example the myth that if you teethe fall out in a dream it means someone is going to pass away.

but i think that he is recently appearing in your dreams alot is not because of your parents divorce, but because you want a relationship with him and in someway or another miss him.

seeing someone in your dream can be because of alot of reasons like seeing a picture of them that day, talking about them, or thinking about them before going to sleep.

hope that helpedd. !

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when did you have your first kiss?
where?
with you?
was it good?
did it come naturally?

6th grade
the gazebo(where everyone hung out afterschool)
4 girls and 3 boys.
no
no, we were playing spin the bottle. haha GAAAAy

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how old were you when you had your first "french kiss"?

8th grade :p to my boyfriend. i was so nervous lolll

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how many licks does it take to get to the center of a tootsie pop?

Lets Find outt ...1....2hhoohoho.3.... :p

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my bf fingered me a week ago and when he did it really hurt and it got all swollen because it was only the sencond time he did it and it really hurt to pee and stuff and it still sorta hurts. is it still healing or is there something wrong?

yes this is normalll, he might of scratched it or did it to hard. it takes time to heal and next time he does it tell him to go really easy since your were really tight.

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My brother has broken up with his gf, all my family love her. She's really pretty, really sweet, has a really good job and she's got a great sense of humour. She did a lot for my brother n he broke up with her. She's really upset n she still talks to me about him, its really uncomfortable cos I don't wanna side with my brother but he's being an ass! He hasn't given her a real reason to why they broke up, why do you think he did it? I know I should stay out of it but they're so good together

im pretty sure he just got bored of her... maybe he wants to date other girls and not be stuck with one :l hopefully everyone will get through it and he decides what he really wants.

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is it ok to go out with a guy after my best friend did?plz answer need help fast!! i rate high!

no i realllllly reallly dont think it is a good idea because shes gonna say its fine and shes over him but as time goes on and she sees you guys together, tension is going to build up and its gonnna be ugly... and ure gonnna have to chooose between him or her.

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