Okay,
19/F. I asked a question a few weeks ago about my ex-boyfriend on here and got one answer. It was kind of rude, kind of funny. If you would like to read, feel free to.
Anyways, so I have a facebook... just like many other people do. And I guess I always had my profile to where everyone could see my whole profile.
Last night, I changed it to where only my friends could see my profile... no one else.
So my ex-boyfriend and I had a fight awhile ago and he ended up deleting me. No big deal, I figured he would anyways, he does it everytime we have a fight.
This morning, I logged on and he added me. Is it weird that he added me the night I changed my privacy settings? I mean, I know we both still have feelings for eachother but our prides and stubbornness get in the way of us being together (Or, that's what I think).
I'm not worried about it, but I thought it was weird. And I would like your opinions on it too, please. (:
And I forgot to mention I texted him about a week and a half ago to wish him happy birthday. The only reason I remembered was because my little brother's birthday is the same day. Does it make a difference?
but yea i think that he obviously used to stalk you on fb haha but then he couldnt anymore and he obv wants to check up on you so he re added you. (still loves youuu ) because if he didnt readd you means he doesnt care.
i also think that if you both still have feelings for eachother then one of you should just put your pride behind you both and try to fix it :l
kacibinkley answered Wednesday December 1 2010, 2:16 pm: This question isn't a terrible question; its just simply pointless.
No its not weird that your ex added you. Its frankly clear that he only added you because he can't see your profile information since you changed it. All he wants is to look at your stuff to see what your up two, or even if your in a new relationship.
Just because you wished him a happy birthday doesn't necessarly mean thats why he re-added you.
He probably was just thinking about you one day, went to look at your page, realized it was private. Got angry, and re-added you. Its not that hard to understand. [ kacibinkley's advice column | Ask kacibinkley A Question ]
Matt answered Wednesday December 1 2010, 2:06 am: Oh my God, where do you get the time to write 230 words about the most inane occurrences? You have so much energy for the tedious and meaningless... you would work wonders in a sweat shop.
Anyway, the advice. No. No. No. No. The answer will always be no to any question you ever ask. Nothing means anything. Anything means nothing. Does it mean anything he happened to add you after you changed your privacy settings? No. Does it mean anything that the only reason you remember his birthday is because it's the same day as your little brother's? No. Is this advice going to deter you from hyper-analyzing every single detail of your life? No. Will that stop me from lovingly berating you every time you ask a question like this? What do you think? [ Matt's advice column | Ask Matt A Question ]
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