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why is he being so stupid?
My brother has broken up with his gf, all my family love her. She's really pretty, really sweet, has a really good job and she's got a great sense of humour. She did a lot for my brother n he broke up with her. She's really upset n she still talks to me about him, its really uncomfortable cos I don't wanna side with my brother but he's being an ass! He hasn't given her a real reason to why they broke up, why do you think he did it? I know I should stay out of it but they're so good together
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Well I think you should stay out of it. It's between them. You and her may never know what the real reason why they broke up. If you're friends with her, just be there for her and it's kind of an awkward place for you but just try to stay out of it. If you really want to know I think you should talk to him. He might not give you a good enough reason but that's probably the most you could do to find out. Good luck!
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im pretty sure he just got bored of her... maybe he wants to date other girls and not be stuck with one :l hopefully everyone will get through it and he decides what he really wants.
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yeah i agree. stay out of it. otherwise it will just cause a bunch more drama and troubles.
if it bothers you that much, try talking to your brother about it. ask him why he did it and if he regrets it. try to persuade him to change his mind, but once he says "no" then you have to stop. respect his decision and back off. its his life and he can do what he wants with it. yes, you can give him advice like saying- i think you 2 were perfect for each other. but once he gets irritated or annoyed at you, you need to know when to back off and give him space.
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Stay out of it.
Instead of being a bully about it, have pity on your brother. Do you think it was easy to break up with such a great girl? It must have been really hard to listen to his heart and acknowledge that it just wasn't what he wanted.
It's okay to be confused, but you need to back off and respect your bother's ability to choose. If you want to be friends with his ex, well that is going to be pretty uncomfortable for a while, but nothing he can say, no reason he can give, will change that.
You need to stay out of it. Maybe he is being an ass, but at least he is being an honest ass, and not just staying with her because his family wants him too. Would you like it if your boyfriend honestly didn't want to be with you, but stuck around because his parents and little sister thought it was a good idea?
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