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This question is about my boyfriend and i.Should i give it u
Okay i'm with a boy.We go together and i think we're in LOVE.We've been together for about five months.We was together before but we had broke up and became just friends,so it been about a year.We are very close,so close to the point thaat he knows my main family and they all enjoy his company and so do i.We both go to the same school and whenever he does come over we mess around alot.Although we mess around in my house no one suspects any sexual vibes from us.He's a very nice person,he buys me things and takes care of me when i need it and my father likes him for that and i am very happy with him but for some reason i feel like i owe him.He has done alot for me and i feel bad.We don't do a whole lot together but we do enough to keep our relationship going.We talk to each other every day and we try to spend enough time with each other as possible sense we don't have any of the same classes.I've been over his house just once and i enjoyed myself as well as met his main family,of course we messed around over there but it was nutural.When Valentines day came he brought me so many wonderful and memorible things and i felt so happy but also so bad because i didn't get him anything,not to mention that i didn't get him anything for christmas eigther.But to get to the interesting part it was one day when he came over my house that things started to get out of hand(the fooling around of course).Not to mention that i'm still a virgin.Things was so hacted that i thought that all of my innocents would be gone by time he left,so my question is what should i do?I want to do it but there's a side of me that don't want to.I'm not afraid or anything it's just that it's never the right time and i feel like what's the rush i'm still young and it's not nessessary that i do "do it".I am also the type of person that "want my cake and eat it too".If i do do it i still want to be innocent.I know that it sounds dumb and it is impossible but i already feel really bad that i let it get that far but these damn hormones!It also got to the point that i've been taking online test questions on tickle.com to find out how innocent i am and if i am really ready.So someone please give me some good advice this is very important to me.
Thank You!!!
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Harsh but true, you are obviously not ready to have sex if you are taking tests on Tickle.com to see if you are ready. Judging by your writing style you can't be more than 16 years old, and probably you are a lot younger. Don't feel guilty about not having sex and if this guy is making you feel guilty he is obviously not worth it.
Or you know of course you could always just have sex and get pregnant. Are you ready for that?
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well its really quite simple...wait till you are one hundred percent completely ready...not ohhh im ready but im not...you have to be like yeah i wanna do this im ready! and your boy should also respect that and be okay with that...as far as you being innocent...haha well just because you have sex doesnt mean that youre not innocent...i mean youve already done how many other sexual things... right... just make sure that you want this guy to be your first because its a big thing and you dont want to regret it...which also comes back to the fact WAIT TILL YOU ARE POSITIVE YOUR READY to lose it... having sex doesnt make you a bad person, its actually a good thing to have sex it strengthens a relationship and makes you feel better physically and emotionally :) but if you still want to maintain this "innocent" image then yeah dont do it...dont feel like you have to until youre ready...
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