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does he like me, he keeps giving mixed signals.
18/female. senior in high school. this may be long but i'll return the favor to anyone who helps!!:)
i've liked this guy joe for a while now .. i use to give him all the attention and do whatever he wanted me to (not sexually) but everything else because i was basically so in love with him but he never knew. i've probably liked him for 4 years now but couldn't do anything about it because he had a girlfriend of 3 years. Now there broken up. Anyways, i just cant tell if he likes me or not. We're actually really good friends, i'm comfortable around him. now, i dont give him all the attention, i try to not show much interest and look like an annoying attached girl. well tonight me and my friend hung out with like 7 of the hockey guys, including joe. we were all hanging out at this kids house and i was wearing a sweatshirt and tshirt but still looked really cute:) i had my hair curled and everything .. i didnt even know i was going to be seeing joe! but one of the guys like slapped me with his belt and it hurt really bad and then joe came with his friend and i was like JOE!! i need you to protect me. okay that might sound like im giving him attention haha but i hadnt seen him for like a month. so he came and sat by me and then i asked his friend if i could talk to him in private because my friend liked joes friend and i wanted to see what he thought about her. well so then me and joes friend went into a different room and all the dumb guys (but not joe) were like use protection bla bla. so i was talking to him for like 5 min and then joe comes walking in. i have a feeling he may have been jealous that i was alone with his friend .. i dont know why he would have walked in??? And then joe was like behind me like humping me haha and i was like joe stop (even though i liked it;) haha!! and then he was trying to pull down my pants. i had my period so i deff was not going to let him lol and then we all went back out and i ended up playing fooseball with 3 of the guys and i was cheering and being goofy and joe kept looking over, i could see in the corner of my eye. well then joe had to go, and he was saying bye to people but he never said anything to me :( i was playing fooseball so i dont know if thats why or what?? and i havent talked to him since, i was hoping maybe he would text me or something but nope!! just some signs makes me feel like he likes me, but i cant ask because if he doesnt then that would make our friendship awkward. i wish he would just make a move if he did. i hope i'm not giving off the wrong signals either, like saying stop when hes flirting with me, but i dont want to just sit there and be obvious that i like it? what do you guys think??
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hmm seems like he does have an interest in you, but honestly i would just see what happens right now becuase if you dont wanna make the friendship weird, unless your really wanna tell him, wait till he gives you more signs. And dont worry about not saying goodbye alot of boneheaded boys do that lol sorry I call them all that lol. But ya it does seem like he's giving you signs that he may be interested. but like I said if you dont wanna make it awkward just wait a while or ask him to go somewhere just the two of you :)
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This was an interesting story.lol I think he likes you, but he's scared that you only like him as a friend, and he might not want to break a friendship if he wants to go any further. I can tell he ws jealous of his friend, becuase you spended a 5 minute alone time,so Joe came waltzing in. I think he made you his territory lol. Soo back to my advice...If he doesnt make a move, you try telling him about how you feel.Since he is your friend, he would tell you how he feels and you wouldn't have to keep wondering what he will or will not say. Hope I helped.
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