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ook so i had already asked this question about having anal sex the other day and im red and irritated i didnt know what was wrong so i went to the doctors today apparently now i have herpes.. i was talking to this guy and im guessing it was from him? Because we had anal sex and the herpes are near my anus.. And i havent had sex with anyone else while i was talking to him. I told my bestfriend she came to the doctors with me. Her boyfriend lives with this guy was talking to.. So she told her boyfriend to warn him from sitting on any toilets etc in the house. So he ended up telling him now this guy is going to the doctors tommorrow. IM embarrassed and i have no idea what herpes even is it never goes away? NOw i can never have sex with someone again? Without a condom? How do i have sex when im married and want to have kids my husband will get the herpes as well? Im hysterical someone please help me. THis guy is also saying he doesnt have it so what if he goes to the doctors and doesnt have it hell make fun of me and tell everyone. Is it possible he doesnt have it?
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If you didn't have this before he came into the picture I think theres a good chance he has it and he's the one who gave it to you. But I think you just need to relax lol. Just breathe for a second there is a way to control herpes with medication so you will be okay but yes you will have to be cautious when you are dating..because you will have to wear protection. And for being married relax when you find the right guy and want kids you'll know what to do by than
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I am so sorry you poor thing and ohhh yeah if that's the only guy you have been with for awhile he definitley gave it to you. Don't be suprised if he tries to deny it because unfortunatley guys are asses and don't want to admit shit. If I were you I would go ape shit on the guy don't be so nice to him. If you had no symptoms and were clean prior to having sex with this guy then he had to have given it to you. Anal sex makes people more prone to getting STD than vaginal intercourse because there is already so much bacteria in your butt and it serves as the perfect culprit for infection. Herpes can be in dormant stages so there is always the possibility that your herpes can go dormant but it often comes back in active and dormant stages. And as far as having sex I am not going to lie you can't have sex with anybody anymore you need to be very cautious and always use a condom. You should tell guys you have the disease too before you get intimate with
anybody but don't be suprised if the guys might turn you down. I have a friend with herpes and she has found somebody who loves her and is accepting of her herpes. Only the guys who are truly interested in you will not care but the assholes who just want sex probably won't even go there. I'm truly sorry sweetie you don't deserve this and screw that guy I bet you he gave it to you. Good luck and take care
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