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FRIEND 'SEXING' MY OLDER BROTHERS FRIEND
Hey, my name is Nikki. My brother is 18 and his friends come around ALL THE TIME! So when I have my friends over, there always over. My brothers friends are like my brothers, because I have known them for SO long. My friend Jess was over one time and was like "whose that? hes hot" (talking about brothers friend carl) So i was like carl.. and shes like hes hot as. So she went on bebo and went through my list to get my brothers bebo so she could get carls bebo. Now they talk. So, i made a rule.. saying "none of the girls over when the guys are over" so she was like why?? and i was like because you girls (when my other girl mates are over) always flirt with him and stuff. Now they are going to have sex sometime soon! She always talks about him, which bugs me. They can talk to each other if they wanna talk about each other. It feels like she only wants to come over when hes over. What do I do? Ive explained how i feel and what my rules are between the too. I dont care if they have sex, because thats not my choice. I just dont want it to overcome our realtionship. And ive told her that we arnt going to talk about carl again because it grosses me out. Bestfriend + brother = :S.. soo what do I do now ?
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Well you will soon know whether Jess is a good friend or not you told her how u feel about the subject and if she doesnt want to come over for you then she is not worth it. Thw path she is going on will just lead to heartbreak because most likely this relationship will not last for very long
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I know it would be awkard for you but you've done all you really can do. Telling her that she's not allowed when he's over is good because than hyou'll know that shes over for you and not for him... I'd say just leave it if they stay together great but if they break up be there for her becuase she will need you there to comfort her..and yes if they do it'll be hard and really awkward but you seem like a smart girl and you know what you will have to do than...hope that helps:)
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