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Hey, my name is Nikki. My brother is 18 and his friends come around ALL THE TIME! So when I have my friends over, there always over. My brothers friends are like my brothers, because I have known them for SO long. My friend Jess was over one time and was like "whose that? hes hot" (talking about brothers friend carl) So i was like carl.. and shes like hes hot as. So she went on bebo and went through my list to get my brothers bebo so she could get carls bebo. Now they talk. So, i made a rule.. saying "none of the girls over when the guys are over" so she was like why?? and i was like because you girls (when my other girl mates are over) always flirt with him and stuff. Now they are going to have sex sometime soon! She always talks about him, which bugs me. They can talk to each other if they wanna talk about each other. It feels like she only wants to come over when hes over. What do I do? Ive explained how i feel and what my rules are between the too. I dont care if they have sex, because thats not my choice. I just dont want it to overcome our realtionship. And ive told her that we arnt going to talk about carl again because it grosses me out. Bestfriend + brother = :S.. soo what do I do now ?

Well you will soon know whether Jess is a good friend or not you told her how u feel about the subject and if she doesnt want to come over for you then she is not worth it. Thw path she is going on will just lead to heartbreak because most likely this relationship will not last for very long

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18/ f

My bf is going away traveling for a year and i want to give him somehting to remember me by. we see each other every single day and it is going to be really different for us to not see each other anymore.

What are some good ideas for what i can do/buy/make?

AWWWW I feel your pain my boyfriend recently got a scholarship and wen to another country. But as for a gift a promise ring would be nice, or an engraved mans bracelet or(i got my boyfrend this one) a pendant with a few sweet words.

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now has any girl actually gotten an orgasm from straight up penetration? if so is there any way to reach it faster like certain positions or something i just feel like it would take forever and a guy couldnt last haha i just want good sex!!

Usually most women dont get it from stright up penetration but for some in cetain positions it works. For me, if i sit down on a desk or something and my boyfrend satnds between my legs i get it but i think its more from the sensation of his balls rubbing on my clit(soory if thats too vulgar)more than the actual penetration. Hope i helped!!

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ummm....sumtimes when i slime its chunky.....why?

I dont know if thats normal but sliming is when you get wet during sex to mek it easier

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what are some flirty lines to use to make your boyfriend wow?

Tell him exactly what you like about him

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I'm only young so I can't afford to go buy a sex toy. I've been using my finger but I want more. do you know any house-hold items I could use to pleasure myself??? (other than a guys...)
thanks

Ummmm...u could use a candle or anything long and not to big you find around the house just make sure its clean

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Ok, me and my boyfriend had sex two days ago and it was my first time. Well i kind of figured that i might be sore afterwards, but when i pee..should it hurt? It kind of hurts my bladder area? Is this all normal?

I'm hoping so because the same thing happened to me! ummm...i wanna ask u something i had sex for the first time a few days ago...did you cum?

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16/f
my boyfriend has trouble trusting me. he says he trusts me but i know he doesn't. he freaks out anytime i even talk to another guy. i used to have so many guy friends now i don't anymore. i love my boyfriend to death and will not breakup with him i just need your help with a way to make things better.

this happens a lot about different things but i'll tell you what is going on now. he is constantly scared that if i talk to another guy i'll like him. my boyfriend is always asking me who i talk to in my gym class (meaning guys). i hardly talk to any of the guys, mostly just the girls. i told him that and he was like give me all of the names of the people you've had conversations with. and he started freaking out. then i told him that there is no way i could ever remember that and i'm crying so much and he thinks i'm hiding something. he always thinks i talk to guys behind his back.

like he always looks at my phone at my texts and calls. i know he just loves me so much and never wants to lose me but idk what to do to make all of this stop and just have him trust me!

thanks so much!

Tell him that the relationship wont last without trust....tell him how hes the only boy for you and you would do anything to stay with him, that he needs to stop being so untrusting...without his trust the relationship wont last...hope i helped

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16/f im 130 lbs. & 5'7-8". now i know im not fat, & im not saying i am. but within the past month or so, my upper thighs have begun touching when i stand straight up. (they didnt use to) and i was looking at my ass & upper thighs in the mirror one day, n my thighs are all cellulite-y. how gross, with swimsuit season coming up. anyways, i was wondering if their were any exercises that WORK for upper thighs & your butt. i already eat right, so thats taken care of. but id really like to know if their are some exercises (besides running) for that. and also, are there any ways to make cellulite go away? or dissappear? id appreciate not getting a speech on how im still growing, & i shouldnt be trying to lose weight..etc. im doing this to make myself happy, not to be stick-thin :p any answers are appriciated! thanks

Excercizing doing stff such as butt kicks and chest jumps can help with your butt and thighs and cellulite can be gotten rid of with creams they sell in drugstores

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Ok so,i like this guy, but i have no idea if he likes me. he is 1 year younger than me.
the problem is, I have hardly any contact with him. we have different classes, different after school activities... its hard to talk to him. in fact, I hardly HAVE!
to summarize it up, what should i do to know about this guy and if he likes me 2????

Theres nothing wrong with him being younger than yu age is just a number but you have to talk to him to know if he likes you try talking on the internet or maybe you now one of his friends?

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My girlfriend keeps tellin me that she cant have sex with me because she is on her periods ,is she right or is it just a trick girls use as an excuse not to have sex

sometimes she might actually have it but the greatest possibility is that she nervous and is afraid to tell you

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