Question Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 11:20 am
My girlfriend keeps tellin me that she cant have sex with me because she is on her periods ,is she right or is it just a trick girls use as an excuse not to have sex
Rachee answered Sunday December 23 2007, 11:16 am: It might be possible. Some girls get reallly long periods. BUT! she might not want to have it yet. Talk to her about it.
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myisha answered Sunday December 23 2007, 7:56 am: sometimes she might actually have it but the greatest possibility is that she nervous and is afraid to tell you [ myisha's advice column | Ask myisha A Question ]
complexheart08 answered Sunday December 23 2007, 12:44 am: It's not that she can't have sex it is most likely that she is self conscious about the blood getting everywhere. Or, she may also just not want to have sex, in which that case you have to deal with it. However, maybe have a gentle talk and tell her that if it's that she thinks you won't like it..or you wil be grossed out that you love her and do not care about some body fluid.
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Razhie answered Saturday December 22 2007, 6:30 pm: If she doesn't wanna have sex with you right then, then you are shit outta luck my friend.
It's entirely up the women what she is comfortable with. There is no reason she can't have sex on her period, but if she doesn't WANT to have sex on her period you are just going to have to deal with it.
orphans answered Saturday December 22 2007, 4:21 pm: A] its gross B] it doesnt feel right C] it feels like youre cramming your finger into a bloody cut on your arm D] its not clean and right in the bible to do it while shes on her period E] its her body, not yours [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
thelaura answered Saturday December 22 2007, 2:16 pm: It's not an excuse. Whilst there's nothing wrong with having sex on that time of the month, she may just not like the idea of it. End of really. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
HiChick answered Saturday December 22 2007, 1:55 pm: you can, but first she is probablly embarassed about it cause she will get blood all over you and is afraid you will be grossed out and she might be in pain too. Hello! be more sensitive she probably has cramps or back pain or whatever and it sounds like your a little forcefull about sex if you are saying 'trick girls use as an excuse not to have sex' is she wants to have sex she wont. she should just say that. you should be a considerate bf and respect her and only have sex if she wants to and not preassure her. hope i helped
bandgeeksunite answered Saturday December 22 2007, 1:43 pm: Well... <i>technically</i> she can, but unless you want bloody, messy, gross sex, I wouldn't go for it. My boyfriend and I always skip sex when I'm on my period. All that blood just isn't attractive. [ bandgeeksunite's advice column | Ask bandgeeksunite A Question ]
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