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Hey!! Welcome to my page!Wanna know about ME?
Well...I'm
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opinionated
[a little] impulsive
and just love to HaVe FuN!!!
That's what life is about.
Loving people, trying new experiences, putting yourself out there, and getting the most out of life. Don't live in fear of ANYTHING.
I am a strong Christian and I am discovering more about myself and my relationship with God everyday.
I am open to help with ANY question and will do my best to help you with anything and if you have a question im unusre about i will ask pple and look up things and try my best to help!
I would be happy to recieve personal questions and answer those immediatly. I try to answer as many questions as i can that i know a lot about but with personal questions they were directed to me personally so i feel i need to answer that question as best possible.
Thanks for checking out my page and hopefully i help you in the future :]
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---HiChick :]
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k so iknow girls thin k about their loved ones like bf or the guy they are dating while listening to love songs...but i was wondering ..do guys od the same???
definitely. a lot of guys are really connected to music actually. my bf is always telling me about new songs he listens to that remind him of me :)
i want a SLIDE phone kind of like a chocolate, but opens sideways- if that makes sense. i want it to open to the side and then like the screen pic flips over so that youre not looking at it sideways. l0l sorry if it doesnt make sense. oh yea i have verizon, please dont give me a link to the website unless you found exactly what im looking for because ive looked and i cannot find a phone like that. names of the phones and preferably a brief (or long if you want) description. thanks!! =]
i am not exactly sure about what you want but look up the alias from verizon. i think that may be what you're talking about :)
thats what i have and its awesome :)
hope i helped
yeah it works really well and it doesnt break easily and its really easy to txt on. its a little confusing at first but after like a day its really simple. i love my phone :)
the battery doesnt last that long tho if your using it a lot. you can buy a battery that lasts longer for it tho..my friend has it. my battery lasts like a day if im txting and talking on it a lot all day but it charges really quickly too
what is cum
Cum is... an organic fluid, also known as (semen)seminal fluid, that contains sperm. It is secreted by the gonads (sexual glands) and other sexual organs of male and can fertilize female ova. The process of discharge is called ejaculation.
well im 13,female,i just lost my virginity..i just wanted to kno the kinds of changes will happen to my body.?
well besides what the others put (which is true) you also will have an increased sex drive
hope i helped :)
Usually on pornos the guy eats the girl out before having sex as foreplay, but do a lot of people actually do this or is it just for the movie?
yep its very popular but the guy should consider if he should keep it up until the girl orgasms because then it might be hard for her to orgasm during sex
i was just wondering, it has never happened to me thank god but if a girl or guy was to get raped 3 yrs ago. can they still do anything about it now.
i know that if someone hits you and you dont report it right away cops cant do anything about it if you report it later down the road with or without witnesses.
when we say rape does it mean the guy or girl has to have intercourse with the victim or can it be the taking of clothes off and almost having intercourse?
i kno in at least certain states u can report a sexual crime up to like 8 yrs so you can look and see what your state's law is
hope i helped :)
Okay, I was dating this guy who I was with for two years (we're not together anymore).
I lost my virginity to him, but honestly I didn't enjoy having sex with him.
I'm trying to make this as clean as possible, because I really don't want to break the rules, but I need help.
Anyway, he would want to do it all the time, but if I said I didn't feel like it, he'd tell me to stop being selfish and that sometimes you have to put your feelings aside for the one you love.
So, sometimes I'd give in, but sometimes I'd keep saying no, and he'd as if he could just "put it in" once so he could go and take care of it himself or something. Sometimes I'd let him, sometimes I wouldn't.
But one time when I did let him, he didn't just do it once, so I told him to stop, and he didn't. So I kept telling him to stop and eventually I was crying and he held my arms down so I couldn't fight him until he came...
Now he's trying to say it wasn't rape because I willingly let him put it in, and he tried to say I liked it, which I swear I didn't. I was crying the whole time.
I know it's probably a stupid question, and I'm not planning on going to the police or anything because it happened about a year ago, I just need to know for my own sake if that would be considered rape or not.
Thanks.
Yes sweetie it was rape. Im very sorry you had to go through that. from personal experience i know how scary something like that can be. now you dont have to go to the police (though you totally could if you feel it neccessary or think hes going to go harm more girls) but i really suggest talking to a counselor about it to make sure your ok and to help you. you may think that its done with and that it happened a year ago but those things can harm a woman for years if she doesnt deal with it. please get some help and im sorry he hurt you like that. you are so much better than that and worth so much more. and please please dont think it was your fault.
hope i helped :)
♥ HiChick
ok...me and my girlfriend arent really getting along anymore like we used to...weve been together for 6 months today and theyve been the greates times of my life...we barely talk anymore...we dont have anyting to talk about...and weve also been fighting and argueing alot but thats stopped...i want that spark, that fire that we once had...but i dont know wat to do to get it back...i need your help please!!!
well first if you guys keep fighting sit down and talk about it because communication is the most important thing in a relationship.
to get that "spark" back try doing new things! go to new places or go out and find something fun and different and crazy to do!! you guys will both enjoy it a lot and have a lot of fun! and maybe try some games for either romance or just fun. write questions and take turns answering them or play some truth or dare and things like that. just get creative and enjoy each other. thats what its all about!!
hope i helped! if you have more questions or need more help im always here :)
HiChick
ok...about 1 2 3 and home run, who knows the real one? or there isn\'t...b/c sooo many peaple say different things. like this is one that i heard, 1-kissing 2-touching 3-fingering and home run- is sex. is this right? if not please tell me the right one...
its different for basically everyone but mine is like yours
1. kissing
2. touching above waist
3. fingering(anything below the waist)
home run. sex
it depends on how you feel about oral because some say its sex therefore a home run and others say its just 3rd.
hope i helped :)
HiChick
I know this is an issue that many people deal with and i have tried just about everything that i know but nothing seems to work....I think i have an addiction to porn and i dont know what to do...i went a whole month and a half without doing it and it was the hardest thing for me....i dont know how to get it out of my head,.i pray about it just about every night and im tired of being this way please help
well i definitely understand your frusteration. when i pray about things a lot of times it seems like He isnt listening but you have to truly believe that He will help you overcome this addiction. If you have God on your side their is no way you wont win!! but when you try praying truly expect to not want to watch porn anymore and expect yourself to heal and move on. then go find a new hobby and keep yourself busy especially when you want to look at porn. its very hard to break a habit but with God i kno you can. also hake an incentive for yourself! thats how i work. if you go a certain amount of weeks have a reward of some sort and try to make a list of reasons why you dont want to have this habit anymore and remind yourself of all those things when you want to. i think that will really help. also when you sit down with God really let Him in and ask Him to cleanse you and clean your mind. If you truly believe He will then it will happen. when you have doubt He isnt there but if your truly believe He will be there for you and i kno He wants to be.
also try to find out what triggers your want to look at porn because when you recognize it you can be even more prepared to fight your addiction. the more you understand your addiction the more you can overcome it.
If you need any more help just ask-im always here
and i hope i helped!!
I kno you can overcome this :)
HiChick
Is there anything to make sure that my Super Smash Brothers Brawl game will work on my Nintendo Wii?
I have tried so many things, including cleaning scratches off of the disk with products purchased at Wal-Mart, but the disk still takes a long time to be able to be read by the gaming machine (sometimes up to 2 hours). The only thing I can think of is to clean the lens on the Wii that reads the disk, but all of the products sold for that clearly states not to use it on gaming systems and I don't want to mess up my Wii.
there must just be a problem with the game if other Wii games work just fine. take the game back and if you can get a new one or your money back. if not then i think your just out of luck and will have to buy another. but if this happens to all your Wii games go get your Wii checked out cause its probably the problem. you could also go to a game store and ask them about why the game wont work but they will probably just tell u to use a product and since you already have i doubt it will change your outcome. good luck :)
Hope i helped
HiChick
16/f
im pretty sure i have a yeast infection and dont know what to do about it.
my vagina is red and hurts/burns constantly, it feels like i have cuts on it or something :/
and it has white liquid/gooey stuff sometimes. and its not cum or toliet paper. :/
if i could know what it is or what to do about it i would really appericate it!
also, im a virgin if that helps figure it out.
well it definitely sounds like it. go to your doctor because for the first time you have one the want you to see them and they can give you medicine and if you get it again and you recognize it from before you can just use medicine you can pick up at a drug store. hope i helped :)
Ok, so next year I will be a freshman in highschool. Scary right? ha ha well, I really want to change before so that when I walk in, it's like "Woah! you've changed so much!". I know it's a bit early to start thinking about the first day of school, but if something goes wrong, i'd rather have enough time to fix it :). Anyways, basically, I just want to alter my appearance. Does any one have any suggestions? I don't know where to start... I'll post a pic of me:
http://i240.photobucket.com/albums/ff196/hitoast/002.jpg
(sorry 'bout the silly smile :3 i'm a dork)
and if you can't see it, my eyes are smokey blue/gray-ish and my hair is light brown with blond highlights :) if that helps at all.
Thanks a lot!
aww ur soo pretty!!!!! well u could change your hair color but i, personally, really like it. i think you should just get a new haircut and a new style. shop at some different stores and find a style you really get into :) and maybe try some makeup or if you already wear makeup try some new styles and ways of applying it. stay true to yourself though!!!
hope i helped :)
Hichick
so. one of my very best friends has gone and moved to kansas. she was like my best friend at school, and unfortunatly, our school is pretty small so we stuck together most of the time.
i really miss her and i need some advice on how to stay in touch. i'm just worried she wont talk to me anymore...
well, maybe your friend has been wanting to call you soo much but has been really busy unpacking all her crap that she never threw away because she keeps everything and now she is sorting through all of it finally actually throwing stuff away. But i know she MISSES YOU LIKE CRAZY!!! And she loves you SOO MUCH!!!! and she thinks you should get a facebook! lol also she some sort of stupid infection in her stomach and its really annoying because she and her mom have no idea what it is and nothing makes it go away and it hurts a lot. lol so hopefully i helped!! feel free to ask me another question! im always here!!! and text her sometime too
xoxo Hichick
aka Haley
aka MARBS
Alright I know I need to talk to her about it, but help me out here. Okay so my friend, we'll call her "B", decided she was going to save herself for marriage. Her mom got her this really nice purity ring for christmas. Then B left it in the girls bathroom at school, so of course it's long gone. So her mom baught her another one. There's only one problem now. It's that she didnt keep her promise. Now she had talked about saving herself for marriage and everything for a while now. Then she goes off and does this, with a guy she met only like 2 weeks ago. Not to mention the fact that he didnt even ask her to be his girlfriend until like a couple days after they had sex. She's just going about like it wasnt even a big deal or anything. I dont know if I have a right to be even a little angry. And if I do, what do I do have a right to angry about? I dont know it just kind of upsets me that she did that. Whats your opinion? Am I overreacting? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.
i would be upset too, but it is her descision. im guessing you are saving yourself too because then you feel betrayed. i believe in saving yourself for marriage and i would feel betrayed and angry if my friend broke her promise because its a promise to God but its completely between her and God. be there for her and help her if she need sit but dont be mean to her about it or she will not open up to you. but sit down and nicely tell her your a little worried over her new descisionj especially because its with a guy she barely knows and they werent dating. explain that God forgives and loves her and that she doesnt need to give a guy sex to make him happy and all that. and that God will bless her with the perfect guy who will also want to save himself so there is no reason for her to have to have sex. if she realizes this as a mistake then help her. if not than still be friends but maybe step a way because she is starting to choose things against your beliefs. i really hope everything goes well.
HiChick :)
It's my girlfriends second time giving a bj and the first time i didn't cum, so i didn't masturbate for 4 weeks and we didn't do anything in that time period but she just gave me a good bj and handjob and i still didn't cum? I can do it fine masturbating but it takes soo long if shes doing it and i've never cummed for her...any advice, pleasssee
well i would just suggest you guys mess around a lot and get really turned on before you actually do anything. if your really aroused you should be able to cum. so take your time and really warm up and keep at it until your extremely aroused before she even starts. then when she gives you a bj you shouldnt have any trouble cumming for her. sometimes it just takes time. plus you may be a little nervous or something and not be completely into it so remember to relax!!
hope i helped :)
HiChick
Hey!! I'm getting my hair cut tomorrow, and I wanna know what you guys think.
This is me..
http://a432.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/75/l_c41dd78c038dfc5e7cad17314b07765f.jpg
Here is what I want..
http://www.lindsey-lohan.us/images/002.jpg
Our face's are both round, so I think it will work..
What do you think?..
&& if not that, then what? I want it to be semi long, I have had short hair before, and I didn't like it..
plus
I want my face to look.. Prettier I guess the word would be. As you can tell, my teeth aren't that good, but that was a couple days after I got my braces, and my teeth are now straight. So what are some way to make my face prettier? Any make up kinds would be great! Oh I had Raw Minerals, and I didn't like it much. Anything I could do to make my face prettier, I have a lot more self esteem now that my teeth are straight.. THANKS! =D
ur right you do have the same face shape as lindsey lohan. i think it will look really good on you but im not sure if your hair is as long but it should still look really good.
hope i helped
HiChick
Does anyone know if a note from a lisenced psychologist is enough to get someone out of gym class? my reason to bring it up to mine would be that it doesn't help my depression at all to be all alone in my gym class next year since the only people i knew got accepted into alternative programs. oh, and that a study hall would help me get ahead in other things. can this type of note get me out of gym [because i actually have depression] or will they just make me take gym anyway?
well i think your just backing out. i think you just dont want to and are trying to come up with an excuse because your afraid. which seems pathetic. instead use the gym class to meet new people and excersising has been proven to make people feel better and happier. the less active you are the worse you will feel.
i guess a note from a physcholgist will get you out but i think thats really dumb and if they write it for you they aren't helping you
HiChick
me and my boyfriend are both religious, and both wanted to remain abstinent
however
we got into fondling alot, and we just had sex a few weeks ago
we didnt use a condom first time, but he wanks alot, and pulled out, but we did do it about 5 times already...
i dont know what to do
i told my friends and they are so imature about it like ''oh my god you slut!" (which i am NOT!) and saying go to tell ur mom
i love my bf, and plan to be with him always, but i dont know what to do
my bf is older than me, and my mom dont know im seeing anyone, in fact, she thinks im lesbien? :S
anyway,
i dont know what to do, my bf asked me to marry him already, and we going to get engaged, and he wants to ask my parents also, then get married next year.
he said if i got pregnant he wants to keep it, however, i have a further complication
my mom's friend's daughter just got pregnant and is due in a few weeks
my mom told me all the pain and stress they all went through, and how devastated they were, and she said to me firmly not to do it
she is also against me marrying
i always wanted to have a baby and get married,
but i wanted to go to university first
i dont know what to do, someone help! im just confused...
if i keep baby, then it will be 'iligitemate', and my bf/ fiance/ future husband's culture would ridicule it or something...
someone pls advise me on anything to do, should i go to gp or buy home pregnancy kit or talk to my councillor or someone at school or something? i dont want to tell my mom..
:(
i want to marry and to have a baby, and my bf said to me it would be loved, and his family would look after me and the baby, and he would take care of me no matter what happens, and he said he doesnt want to kill any baby (meaning he doesnt want me to abort it) and i am scared.. cause i dont know waht to do
i suggest if you are pregnant to keep the baby, marry, and start your life together. if you arent then tell your bf that sex isnt something you can keep doing because of the chance of getting pregnant and go to college and after you have a degree get married and have a baby :) and be honest with your parents if your pregnant
Okay, so me and my ex boyfriend broke up after dating for about 5 months. i fell in love with him so quickly and i wanted it to last forever. he was the first guy i was ever sexual with. we never actually had sex but he fingered me and i gave him a hand job and he saw me naked and everything. we talked about having sex but we never got the chance. I also told him everything about myself and we were so open towards eachother. He is the first guy that I had ever really fallen in love with and the first i had actually opened up to. I was so upset when we broke up. i felt like my world was just crashing on top of me. I'm still in love with him and it's been a month since we split. We dont talk much anymore and it kills me. I want him back so bad but i'm not sure what to do. If there's anything that I can do to be with him again, tell me. please. I feel like i cant live without him and I dont want to move on. what can I do??
[please dont rate] i think i could help you but we need to know WHY you guys broke up so we can tell you how to handle the situtaion to get him back or if you should just try and move on.
post it and then more people can help
btw i have just had a difficult breakup and he was my best friend and now we never talk. we arent even friends. i know how hard it is and right now im just trying to get through it and move on and let go so i know how you feel
HiChick