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help!!
me and my boyfriend are both religious, and both wanted to remain abstinent
however
we got into fondling alot, and we just had sex a few weeks ago
we didnt use a condom first time, but he wanks alot, and pulled out, but we did do it about 5 times already...
i dont know what to do
i told my friends and they are so imature about it like ''oh my god you slut!" (which i am NOT!) and saying go to tell ur mom
i love my bf, and plan to be with him always, but i dont know what to do
my bf is older than me, and my mom dont know im seeing anyone, in fact, she thinks im lesbien? :S
anyway,
i dont know what to do, my bf asked me to marry him already, and we going to get engaged, and he wants to ask my parents also, then get married next year.
he said if i got pregnant he wants to keep it, however, i have a further complication
my mom's friend's daughter just got pregnant and is due in a few weeks
my mom told me all the pain and stress they all went through, and how devastated they were, and she said to me firmly not to do it
she is also against me marrying
i always wanted to have a baby and get married,
but i wanted to go to university first
i dont know what to do, someone help! im just confused...
if i keep baby, then it will be 'iligitemate', and my bf/ fiance/ future husband's culture would ridicule it or something...
someone pls advise me on anything to do, should i go to gp or buy home pregnancy kit or talk to my councillor or someone at school or something? i dont want to tell my mom..
:(
i want to marry and to have a baby, and my bf said to me it would be loved, and his family would look after me and the baby, and he would take care of me no matter what happens, and he said he doesnt want to kill any baby (meaning he doesnt want me to abort it) and i am scared.. cause i dont know waht to do
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You may be pregnant, it doesn't matter if he whacks off sperm is still getting inside you. It does lower the sperm count but doesn't stop it. I wouldn't worry about your family, religon has a way of tearing people appart when a child is involved. I would do what you feel is right and will make you happy.
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I know you aren't gonna like this. But just read it.
1. Your young, how are you gonna afford taking care of you, your "hubbie" and a child?
2. Your still in school, and being a mom takes 24/7 time.
3. If you like kids that much try babysitting :D
4. If you want to try out having a kid you can go to adoption centers and take a child for nearly a week and just tell your mom its a school project or something. Please just try this, I don't want you to try something and regret it.
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if it turns out you are pregnant and decide to talk to a school counselor, in most schools they cannot keep this a secret from your mom and will have to inform them or help you inform her yourself.
and for one second just forget how your boyfriend feels about having the baby. it's YOUR body and you're carrying it around for 9 months and giving birth to it and you are the mother. how do you feel about it? do you want to have to deal with motherhood this young in your life? only you know the answers to these questions. so it's really your choice and not your boyfriends.
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i suggest if you are pregnant to keep the baby, marry, and start your life together. if you arent then tell your bf that sex isnt something you can keep doing because of the chance of getting pregnant and go to college and after you have a degree get married and have a baby :) and be honest with your parents if your pregnant
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Well, you're pretty lucky :] you don't come across guys like your boyfriend so often.
To me, it sounds like this is going way to fast. I mean, you're not in college yet! I think you should go to college. If he really loves you and you really love him, you two can wait :] Plus, that means if you eventually get to have a baby and start a family later in life, it'll be all that more special! So, in my opinion, just take it easy. It's ok to be together and whatnot, but I really think you should just slow down :] goodluck!
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well i think you should do whatever you want. dont disobay your parents but let them know how you feel about the situation and marry the guy. it seems to me that you two are in love and want to be together no matter what. if thats what you want. and about the baby thing. if you are pregnant, be open with your mother and let her know that you are ready and able for what your future holds. including the baby.
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