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This is the first time I'm having a serious relationship with a guy. Most of my relationships don't last for more than a mth, but this guy and I have been going out for 4 mths. I know its not a big deal, but 4 mths is an encouragement to me.
The thing is, How do you girls know if it is the right time to give "it" to him? I don't want our first time to be something that happened just because we felt really horny that day or whatsoever.I'd like it to be meaningful. I know my bf loves me a lot. But I'm just afraid.. what if the relationship won't last? I may be happy now, but what if in the near future it takes a turn for the worst, and that'll be when I regret giving my first time to him. (link)
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i know exactly what you mean, been there thought that
i understand that you really like/love your boyfriend but your nervous because there's always that question in the back of your mind like "what if this, what if that?"etc but all that means is that you need to wait longer to get to know him better and have faith in him that when he says he truly loves you that he means it and he wouldn't hurt you by leaving you unless it was best for the both of you. if you believe you will be with him for a long time or if you truly love eachother but end of breaking up after a while at least you could say that you gave your virginity to someone you love and you dont regret it. so basically just wait it out and learn about eachother some more, trust me, you'll know you're ready to give up your virginity when you have no doubts anymore.
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me and my boyfriend are both religious, and both wanted to remain abstinent
however
we got into fondling alot, and we just had sex a few weeks ago
we didnt use a condom first time, but he wanks alot, and pulled out, but we did do it about 5 times already...
i dont know what to do
i told my friends and they are so imature about it like ''oh my god you slut!" (which i am NOT!) and saying go to tell ur mom
i love my bf, and plan to be with him always, but i dont know what to do
my bf is older than me, and my mom dont know im seeing anyone, in fact, she thinks im lesbien? :S
anyway,
i dont know what to do, my bf asked me to marry him already, and we going to get engaged, and he wants to ask my parents also, then get married next year.
he said if i got pregnant he wants to keep it, however, i have a further complication
my mom's friend's daughter just got pregnant and is due in a few weeks
my mom told me all the pain and stress they all went through, and how devastated they were, and she said to me firmly not to do it
she is also against me marrying
i always wanted to have a baby and get married,
but i wanted to go to university first
i dont know what to do, someone help! im just confused...
if i keep baby, then it will be 'iligitemate', and my bf/ fiance/ future husband's culture would ridicule it or something...
someone pls advise me on anything to do, should i go to gp or buy home pregnancy kit or talk to my councillor or someone at school or something? i dont want to tell my mom..
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i want to marry and to have a baby, and my bf said to me it would be loved, and his family would look after me and the baby, and he would take care of me no matter what happens, and he said he doesnt want to kill any baby (meaning he doesnt want me to abort it) and i am scared.. cause i dont know waht to do (link)
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if it turns out you are pregnant and decide to talk to a school counselor, in most schools they cannot keep this a secret from your mom and will have to inform them or help you inform her yourself.
and for one second just forget how your boyfriend feels about having the baby. it's YOUR body and you're carrying it around for 9 months and giving birth to it and you are the mother. how do you feel about it? do you want to have to deal with motherhood this young in your life? only you know the answers to these questions. so it's really your choice and not your boyfriends.
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ok so me and my boyfriend had sex like 2 weeks ago i dont come on my period yet till da begginig of month.but as me and my bofriend was doing it da second time im not sure if he came in me(he said he didnt) because all of it was on his stomach but we pulled out kinda late.well yesterday i took a pregnancy test and it came back negative. it seems like i get a feeling of something moving around in my stomach can someone tell me what dat means? (link)
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first of all, take a deep breath and dont be so worried. if you're pregnancy test came back negative then you're probably not pregnant. and if you wanna double check then feel free to take another pregnancy test. just wait for your period to come when it's supposed to, to confirm even more that you're not pregnant. in the future when having sex with your boyfriend you should use protection so you don't have to worry about getting pregnant. condoms, birth control, etc. :)
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I need an honest viewpoint on this.
Lets say you're a 16 year old girl and you broke up with your 16 year old boyfriend (which is my case). You broke up with him because he's been giving you really obvious hints that he didn't wanna be together anymore. He even said so one time. After a week of breaking up, he sends you a text saying something like: "You're contagious because I cried for no reason last night"
and all of a sudden, you start seeing your ex boyfriend depressed. (he never was before...in fact, he was happy). He tries to flirt with you more... He doesn't eat at lunch...he feels really sad and crappy. He doesnt flirt with girls like he usually did to try and make you jealous. He just sits in your table at lunch and sulks.
If this was your case, do you think he's depressed over the break up?
Thank you (link)
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seems like he is depressed over the breakup
did he say anything along the lines of getting back together?
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