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me and my boyfriend are both religious, and both wanted to remain abstinent
however
we got into fondling alot, and we just had sex a few weeks ago
we didnt use a condom first time, but he wanks alot, and pulled out, but we did do it about 5 times already...
i dont know what to do
i told my friends and they are so imature about it like ''oh my god you slut!" (which i am NOT!) and saying go to tell ur mom
i love my bf, and plan to be with him always, but i dont know what to do
my bf is older than me, and my mom dont know im seeing anyone, in fact, she thinks im lesbien? :S
anyway,
i dont know what to do, my bf asked me to marry him already, and we going to get engaged, and he wants to ask my parents also, then get married next year.
he said if i got pregnant he wants to keep it, however, i have a further complication
my mom's friend's daughter just got pregnant and is due in a few weeks
my mom told me all the pain and stress they all went through, and how devastated they were, and she said to me firmly not to do it
she is also against me marrying
i always wanted to have a baby and get married,
but i wanted to go to university first
i dont know what to do, someone help! im just confused...
if i keep baby, then it will be 'iligitemate', and my bf/ fiance/ future husband's culture would ridicule it or something...
someone pls advise me on anything to do, should i go to gp or buy home pregnancy kit or talk to my councillor or someone at school or something? i dont want to tell my mom..
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i want to marry and to have a baby, and my bf said to me it would be loved, and his family would look after me and the baby, and he would take care of me no matter what happens, and he said he doesnt want to kill any baby (meaning he doesnt want me to abort it) and i am scared.. cause i dont know waht to do (link)
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You may be pregnant, it doesn't matter if he whacks off sperm is still getting inside you. It does lower the sperm count but doesn't stop it. I wouldn't worry about your family, religon has a way of tearing people appart when a child is involved. I would do what you feel is right and will make you happy.
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ohk so first off i'd like to ask if you're suppose to buy a pregnancy test when you think you've missed a period or a month after you had sex? i had sex on may 4th and 11th and my period is suppose to be coming on the 18th approximately. so if you "think" your pregnant when should you try the whole test thing..?
ALSO i would like to ask if my chances are high for being pregnant? he used a condom everytime and everything(we had sex 5 times, all times were either on the 4th or 11th of may) but twice when he pulled out, like he was finished the condom like slid off his penis and stayed in my vagina.. like the ejaculation was still inside the condom and the top of the condom was still outside of me but i'm just REALLY REALLY nervous, please help me. (link)
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the chances of you bing pregnant are slim, make sure he uses the right size condom it's not worth getting pregnant over his ego. I would wait a month but if it bugs you you can take it anytime. the tests only detect one hormone and thats it. If you have any questions let me know.
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what are the signs of being pregnate i need this advice well give me all the signs you can think of and can you be pregnate if you are a virgin.
and can you still have your period.
please help (link)
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you don't have to have sex to get pregnant, If you got sperm or precum on or around your vagina you can get pregnant. The act of sex is not required, as long as the fluids flow it can happen. You can still get your period in the begining but it will be light but pregnancy effects people in different ways so it varies per person. Just make sure your careful and make sure he wraps it no matter what.
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