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Hi my name is Kimberley and i live on a small farm in Tasmania were i do Home school with my little brother and my big sister. I like to go horse riding on my horse Ella and i also have a pet Rabbit called Mitzy, A chicken who sleeps in my bedroom called Belle And two guinea pigs called Lucky and Toffee.
Gender: Female
Location: Australia
Age: 14
AIM: To be a Famous singer or Vet
Member Since: May 30, 2008
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16/f
okay so i have a few questions about belly button piercings...
1. does it hurt a lot?
2. how did you convince your parents to let you get it pierced?
3. how long does it take to heal?
4. can you swim or whatever while its healing or do you have to wait awhile? if you have to wait how long do you have to wait?
because if i get it pierced in the summer i want to be able to swim and stuff.
thanks! (link)
1. It really hurts, really really hurts.
2. How old are you? they have age limits for belly button piercing.
3. It takes nearly a year to heal.
4. you can't go swimming.

Do you still want one? watch this video http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OFbgFo7PsJM

I Don't have my Belly Button pierced, but i know it hurts.


My ex bf sent me a text telling me he "broke away" from this girl he liked even though they weren't officially dating- and he was all proud of it and sayin' how much he hated her... and honestly I don't really care what he does. I don't want anything to do with him anymore because he was a jerk to me. Do you think since he's moved on from this other poor girl, he's gonna move onto me? because he's talking to me a lot again, and I really don't want to deal with him again. What do I do? (link)
Explain to him that your relation ship with him is over and if that doesn't work avoid him.


ok,
so i usedd to have a really clear face,
and lately ive like broke out
idk if it is really bad or if it is all in my head,
but it drives me crazy.
i feel so ugly as if everyone is looking at me thinking i look like some monster, ive bascally tried everything, and it doesnt help much that i am surroundedd my girls with flawless faces,
most best friend tells me that it doesnt even look that bad, but i still feel so horrible.
any advice on to feel better about it,
or help it go away?
that would be great thanks.
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5 Tips on How to Keep Acne Free Face

1. Do not prick the affected area with a needle, bare hands can also cause further irritation so picking and scratching is a definite no. Any undesirable microorganisms can cause acne to break out, so try to keep most objects away from your face. Use clean towels when washing and drying your face and try use a fresh pillow case when ever possible. Hair can also transfer microorganisms to your face; if you have long hair it’s a good idea to wear it in a bun or pony-tail.
2. Avoid using oil-based products on your hair. Some products may say they are safe on the scale but when we sweat, the chemical-laden beauty product slides down to the face where it can seriously aggravate acne symptoms.
3. Minimize the use of cosmetics over the pimple. It is alarming to know that although beauty products can conceal your pimple break out, it also increases the risk of infection.
4. If you are using alcohol-based and oil-based facial wash or toner, taking a break can actually minimize the inflammation of the skin.
5. Over-the-counter ointment can be bought from your local drugstore. Creams or ointments containing benzyl peroxide are popular and very good at combating acne. Same dermatologists recommend tretinoin-based products cream over the benzyl peroxide because of irritant threat of the peroxide content. Depending on how sensitive your skin is you can chose between to two.

If your acne is severe, a visit to your dermatologist is advised. They may prescribe you an oral antibiotic or possibly an adapalene gel. Close monitoring of medications is needed since like other prescription medicines it may cause allergies.


one of my really good friends and i are in a fight and idk if we're gonna be friends again.he and i have been really good friends since december.a few weeks ago i thought i liked him..so i told him..cause were really good friends so i knew hed be cool with it..and he was..but then i found out that he was talking to this girl about it and he said it was weird now because he thought i was always all over him and always flirting with him..but i dont. and he was just talking crap about me.like we hug each other and tease each other but i do that with all my guy friends.i dont like him like that anymore.when i see him all i feel is friendship. but when i found out he was talking crap about me i got mad.
so the next time i saw him he went in to hug me and i said "are you sure you wanna do that?are you sure i wont be all over you?" and he just pretended to have no idea what i was talking about.now he wont talk to me at all and he just ignores me in the halls.idk what to do.weve been thru alot of ups and downs and i cant tell if this friendship is worth fighting for. how do i approach him?what do i say? will we be friends again? (link)
He obviously isn't a very good friend because if he was he wouldn't talk behind your back, but if he is the only friend you have, then he is worth fighting for.

If you want him to stay your friend, call his house if you have his phone number and tell him that you are really sorry and that you just didn't like it how he went around saying stuff behind your back. If you don't have his phone number, corner him in the school hall and say the same thing.

Just follow your dreams and your heart
Never follow your brain.


I'll make this short. I recently tried making a clean break from a guy-friend who's hurt me in the past. I haven't told him exactly why he hurt me, just that he hurt me before and he took it badly.
Now his girlfriend/my best friend wants me to talk it out to him. You know, try and give him a second (well technically third) chance, and discuss what's wrong. She promised that it was my choice if I wanted to, she was just suggesting trying but I really don't know.
He's friends with a lot of my friends, and I don't want to make them think they have to choose. And I haven't told him WHY, so maybe that will help.
But I don't want to be hurt again. What should I do? (link)
Explain to him what happened, or tell your friend what happened.


f/16
I have class with this boy, we'll call him bob. So bob is a year younger then me and asked me to prom two months before prom was scheduled and we talked and stuff, but we weren't acquaintences or anything, but I said no to him for prom, cause i didn't want to go with him and made some excuse. Well, at prom I saw him there while my date wanted to sit down and take a break, so Bob asked me to dance and i did for a couple of minutes and then broke free cause I didn't want to dance with him. Yesterday Bob asked me if I wanted to hang out and I said no because I wasn't going to be in that area. Then he asks me when I will be free to hang out (through a text) but I haven't responded yet, but he's not getting the message that I don't want to hang out with him. I don't know how to handle this situation and at prom I only danced with him cause I felt bad for him that I rejected him and went with someone else. The school i go to is pretty small and everyone knows everyone, but I want to get this guy off my back. Any advice? Thanks (sorry for the length) (link)
Well, this is a hard one. After class or at recess or something ask him if he would go for a walk with you. Start a conversation the when he is talking happily explain to him that you just want to be his friend and not his girlfriend and apologize for the confusion that you caused him.

If you don't like my advice, don't do it. If what i said above does not work, Totally Ignore him.




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