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Okay, so me and my ex boyfriend broke up after dating for about 5 months. i fell in love with him so quickly and i wanted it to last forever. he was the first guy i was ever sexual with. we never actually had sex but he fingered me and i gave him a hand job and he saw me naked and everything. we talked about having sex but we never got the chance. I also told him everything about myself and we were so open towards eachother. He is the first guy that I had ever really fallen in love with and the first i had actually opened up to. I was so upset when we broke up. i felt like my world was just crashing on top of me. I'm still in love with him and it's been a month since we split. We dont talk much anymore and it kills me. I want him back so bad but i'm not sure what to do. If there's anything that I can do to be with him again, tell me. please. I feel like i cant live without him and I dont want to move on. what can I do??
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you probably dont wsnt to hear this but unless he wants to get back with you, it would be hard to get back together with him. i know exactly how you feel in your situation because I just got over a similar experience. it took me 5 months to get over it, just as long as we had been together. i didnt want to get over it because i didnt want to let go of the one thing that could always make me feel good. slowly each month after we broke up I would get back to my normal life and begin to adjust. I keep a diary which helped. cutting off connection for me was a bad thing so try talking to him and try being friendly. see if it works out for you. i know how rough breakups can be but you just gotta hang in there. youll feel better eventually, even if it may seem like you wont.
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[please dont rate] i think i could help you but we need to know WHY you guys broke up so we can tell you how to handle the situtaion to get him back or if you should just try and move on.
post it and then more people can help
btw i have just had a difficult breakup and he was my best friend and now we never talk. we arent even friends. i know how hard it is and right now im just trying to get through it and move on and let go so i know how you feel
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its hard. and it won't get easy immediately. but you have to trust me on this. i fell inlove with my best friend since kindergarten. and guess what?? i still love him. we dated for a year. i know it's hard but after a while you realize the pain easing away and you realize that you don't feel as strongly as you did at first. It will take time.
and i'm sure he's not the only guy you will fall inlove with... so just wait for that perfect guy and don't dwell on what could have been because obviously there was a reason for your breakup and who knows? maybe it's because you're about to meet someone absolutely amazing for you =]]
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