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good girl ... bad boy ???
There's this guy at school I really like. He's a junior and I'm a sophomore. One problem... I'm a "good girl" and he's not a "bad boy" but he's pretty close. I'm a strong Christian and he won't even go to church. I know he has strong feelings for me too but he won't date me because he doesn't date "good girls". We're good friends and we talk a lot about getting together but he wants a lot more in the physical part than I'm willing to give. We talk about that a lot and he's always making jokes about wanting to do stuff with me that he knows I'd never do. He wants me to pretty much be a skank. :( I still really like him but I'm not really sure where to go with this... Any advice whatsoever would be helpful!! Should I pursue the relationship? Tell him how I feel? I'm so confused!!
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Just from a Guys point of view, He told it all in he don't date "good girls". At least he is being upfront and giving you a clue that u may not pick up on because you like him so much. I would keep my stand and back off and just be a friend. Don't be mad or even upset. He will find his skank to sleep with but know that his real relationship lies with you. He already respects you by telling you that because he doesn't want to do anything you are not willing to do. So in his eyes he will find it somewhere else but in the back of his mind you will always be because he cant have it but he wants it. This chase could last for many years or he could just move on. If he does then there was not really a friendship at all and you saved yourself alot of pain.. Friendships grow even if he find his pleasure somewhere else, his true friend is in you and at this point he may not catch the clue. See we are blinded by emotions and feelings, both boy and girl. Let him go and you be yourself and if he still comes around, then he is coming around for the real u...
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If it were me I'd say nowhere unless you know you can keep yourself from being pushed into something you don't want to do. Once when I was a highschool fresheman a guy asked me out that I knew was trouble we didn't even have to talk for me to know he wanted sex. When he asked me out I said no and moved on. A week later he found a new girl and I was happy because I'd said no. Now I look back and don't regret my decision at all because I probably would have been pressured by something I didn't want to do. He Was really hot. :) but just no good.
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I don't see anything wrong with pursuing the relationship as long as it doesn't compromise your morals and beliefs. By that I mean, theres nothing wrong dating a guy and staying true to your morals. I think its great that you have such strong beliefs, and hope that nothing ever makes you sway from them.
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