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Hi does anyone know where to get the little rubberbands that around your fingers. Like the ones that are on the bags you get when you buy fish at a pet store.
Please answer asap. =] (link)
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Look in the toothbrush and toothpaste section, they use them to put in your mouth when you have braces. Your local dentist office can tell you also.
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why do i never get asked out?
im not bragging or anythng, but whenever i go out guys always stare at me or smile at me or stuff like that, but they never approach me or talk to me except on rare occasion.
why is this? (link)
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Its because guys unless they are Mr. Romeo are clueless when it comes to body language, they think that if you don't talk to them then you are just being friendly by smiling back. They are not catching the hint or maybe you are not throwing enough out. Don't get me wrong i don't mean you have to trip and fall on the floor and have him rescue you. Just make it more obvious that your interested in more than just friends... Hope this helps
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is it ok for a boy to nut in you if your on birth control (link)
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F.Y.I. even girls on birth control can get get knocked up especially if they are taking anti-biotics for a cold...
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what is indecent assault? examples please and what is the usual amount of time in jail when you get convicted of indecent assault? thank you :) (link)
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well, every state is different on its interpretation of meanings... Some are liberal and some are conservitive. indecent in most community standards would be unexceptable to the ordinary person of that community. as you can see some small town in tennessee is going to be different than a big city or las vagas. Generally for an assault charge of any type there has to one be a victim and two some type of fear or injury. it could be neither of what you described and be only that he showed his penis to someone in a public place. Again depends on the community standards. You technically do not have to touch someone to commit an assault. Hope this helps...
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I will have been with my boyfriend for 3 years come early July. I love him a lot and he claims to feel the same. Things in his life have been pretty rough lately, so sometimes he's depressed.
I have begun to notice that the only time he is happy, smiling, or laughing is when he is with his friends. I can't even remember the last time he was happy to be just with me. This really concerns me, as I feel it's kinda important to make him happy since I'm his girlfriend.
I'm always wondering if he would just be happy with someone else and if I should move on. I don't want to lose him, but I love him enough to let him go if I can't make him happy like he needs to be.
I know that I need to talk to him and I'm the only one that can fix this, but I need help on what to say. I need help understanding why he does the things he does. A guy's perspective would be really helpful right now.
These are just some of the strange things he's been doing lately:
-Earlier this week we went out with a big group of friends. He ignored me the entire time. He didn't hold my hand, put his arm around me, or even speak to me. He didn't even offer to pay for me (which is unusual for him). He was occupied with his friend and this girl the whole time. I confronted him about it and he said he just didn't want to make anyone feel uncomfortable. (So apparently he doesn't care if I'm uncomfortable?)
-He turned 21 in January, but he never drinks. Never. But today his friend asked him to go to the bar with him, so he broke plans with me to go hang out with his friend. He had a good reason to go spend time with his friend (he's moving out of state), but he didn't invite me to hang out afterward. Not to mention the fact that he never goes to bars (his friend likes bars, but they have never gone together). Why would he want to hang out there all of a sudden?
-If he ever comes over to spend the night with me after an evening of hanging out, he just wants to go right to bed. But if I give the slightest hint that I want to have sex, all of a sudden he's awake. This makes me feel like the only quality time he wants to spend with me alone is if we're having sex. I'm thinking about stopping the sex altogether until things get better.
I'm just at a loss of how to fix this. Normally, if these things happened individually, I wouldn't give this stuff a second thought. But since it's all happen within a few days of each other, it's really starting to get to me. Suggestions? (link)
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I don't know if this will help or not but before i married my wife of 10 years i did her the same way. I think so because i knew that i had found the right girl for me but i still wanted to run around with my friends and see what was availible. i guess i wanted to see if she really wanted me that bad, in some ways even tried to run her off just to see if she would hang around or come back. i knew that i wanted to marry her and be with her but i was torn between being young and dumb and having fun and settling down. Just because he is even remotely interested in someone else does not mean that you are not what he wants in the end or the long haul. i know it doesn't seem fair but you almost have to forget about him and let him go and when you do he will get tired of the running around and come back. i think i didn't want her around that much is because i didn't know how she would react to me putting her on hold, but that is what kept me, the fact that no matter what i did, she was there for me and still here now. i never wanted to cheat, i just wanted to spread my wings and have my cake and eat it too. i find that this happens alot with men before they settle down with one, kinda like cold feet. i also find the women seem to do this after 7 years of marriage or after having a baby. women want to spread their wings and get out. This is a stage he is in and you will not be able to change him, he will have to grow out of it and if you really love him and want to be with him you will have to go with the flow. On the other hand years later after the marriage you will want to do the same and he will have to go with the flow if he really loves you. I really think age and maturity has alot to do with it. hope this helps...
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hi, i am a computer scinece student. please i want to know more on how to develope a web site and how to lunch it. thanks (link)
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You can start with learning HTML or some other code, Make a myspace page or facebook page and learn how to write the language. You can also buy software to convert you pages into code so you can post them on your site. There are several sites that have the ability built in to make the pages. One examole is www.picso.com
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I have a Hitachi video camera, Model is DZ-MV580A. It did not come with a manual, as I did not buy it new. I have figured out most of it but need to know how to delete "thumbnails" from a video. Example I have a 30 min. video that I started and stopped 9 times. Each time I stopped the camera it created a "thumbnail". Before I finalize the disk and present it I have 3 thumbnails I need to delete. Any advise would be great! (link)
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download the manual from the hitachi website or you can search and buy them on ebay...
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i have a problem of getting annoyed with people way too easily. its how i lose half my friends b/c once you get on my nerves its like i dont wanna hangout with you anymore. then i get called a bitch and i seem to be losing more and more friends.. and maybe i am a bitch. help?! (link)
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tollerance of others is a virtue. The more you have the better off in life you will be. You will have to deal with it until you are here no longer. So take a class or two in social tollerance and acceptance. This will teach you how to pay attention to what matters rather than the nit picky stuff. You think your friends get on your nerves wait til you have kids...
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i was with this guy for almost 5 months and we broke up because of a bunch of drama and now we r wanting to get bak together but my ex best friend is saying that he wants to be with her. i dont kno wat to believe. (link)
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My advice, don't believe either one at this point.
Actions are better than words. See how they both act and make your own dicision, the words said will only confirm this. You will know if you watch his actions if he really wants you or your just getting played...
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17/f.
bf is 18
hi...i need some advice =].. my whole life i've let my mom intimidate me and control it... when she feels like she loses control of me she goes on a rampage.. a couple of months ago, my bf and my mom had an encounter... she was talking and he just walked out... from that day on she dOESNT want me with him. but i care for him alot.. we been through alot of things even though we've only been dating for 6 months... what should i do? i stood up to her, and told her i was still dating him... she was mighty pissed... but i cant let her run my life forever... any advice? (link)
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well i would, when you can talk to your mother on a good day and it be positive, i would tell her i was sorry for my boyfriend's actions but you are not him and he has his own mind. Tell her that you feel that you shouldn't be punished for something he did. You don't say what this encounter was about so she may have some vaild reasons she doesn't want you around him. You need to hear out these reasons and take them to heart. If it is just because she wants to get back at him thru you then you need to talk to her and let her know that you feel that is unfair to you since you are in the middle. You can only improve his and your mothers relationship by staying mutual and not picking sides. She may never forgive him, but in many people's book that is unchristian. As for standing up to her. Why? It sounds like you are standing up for him and this will only make her angry. I would tell her you agree with her that his actions was wrong but its not your fault that they can't make up or come to an agreement.
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I feel completely stupid for saying this, but I cant stand myself. I mean I hate the way I look. I hate like everything about me. Well okay not everything, because I love the way I think like i know i'm intelligant and stuff but I litteraly hate myself. I dont feel like I have any true friends and I hate myself more for saying that because I have a best friends that I can tell mostly everything except this kind of stuff. (This is probably really confusing)I feel like my inteeligance is the only thing that I have to live for. I know that probably sounds stupid too. I'm just so confused right now and and hurt and it sounds pathetic but like no one cares about me and like i have no control over my life cause everytime i try to make my self a little more at the very least likable i cant seem to do it. I think about just ending things alot like just giving up on everything or something but i feel like i'm meant for something. I dont know i'm so confused right now. I just dont know. (link)
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Deep thought:
One day they will be a generation born without a soul;
That means you will not have the abilty to hate;
So you think you are lost now, what will you be when this happens?
We are suppose to hate nothing..
So evil has planted the seed of hate in you,
Intelligence is Knoweldge;
Knoweldge is Power.
Only those who have this will survive til the end.
SO why would you waste that precious gift?
Get rid of the seed of hate and if you can't then use it to your advantage not your disadvantage.
Hate the things that you should have done,
Not hate the things your doing right now or will do.
For all the things that you hate that you should have done, you can not change because it has done passed. If it has done passed it souldn't matter anymore.
NO need in giving up, why? because you really don't give up. It only moves you to the next level and you will be at the bottom instead of the top with all that intelligence you threw away.
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15/f
i tend to live in my own little world, but i'm open with people, friendly, and fun. recently i've felt distant from my friends, detached in a way. it's as if i can't connect with them, and it's really frustrating. i feel like i'm not having fun the way i am, and i don't want to go to crazy parties (i don't want to drink.)
but i also feel like i'm missing out in the highschool experience by creating myself and doing research on random things and being a weird little person
i don't feel like i can call any of my friends "best friends" like i used to with my other friends, and i feel like my relationships are weak. how can i stop feeling like this? we have fun with each other, i just feel like something's missing. thanks =] (link)
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Well lets think about this... i live in my own little world as well. i very open-minded with people,friendly, and fun. Yes you are detaching your self, not from them but their behavior. This is a good thing because it creates your own individual self, uninfluenced by others. You can connect with them you just have to research harder than others to do this because drinking and parting is made easy for people to connect. So if you take that away you have to dig deeper into each person to find what it is that really excites you about them. Maybe it boweling, swiming, softball, what ever the case people have more to them than just regular social meetings. your not missing out on knoweldge because knoweldge is power and everyone else will be feeding off you when you get older. Most people only end up with 1 or 2 "Best Friends" anyways, the rest move on and do their own thing. This is the nature of life. You are weak because u have seperated yourself from the negitive influence. All you need to do is find that thing in each person that gives you that thrill and vibe back to feel emotionally connected. If you don't do this soon it can lead to depression and once that sets in it can be really hard to recover from. Start by looking at the positive in everything and leave out the negetives.
Hope this helps,
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I am a mother of 5, with the two youngest being my step children, ages 14 and 12. My husband and I have the children full time with the exception of every other weekend, they spend with their mom. Ok this is the situation. I have been their step mom for ten years.I have watched them grow, have attended school functions, teacher parent conferences, school trips, all althletic functions, etc... The birth mom, we will call suzy, treats the two different. The oldest gets everything she askes for.. from clothes, shopping, weekend trips, etc.. The youngest gets an occasional shirt or small item. She is very angry at her mom and says things like I hate my mom, I hate my sister, my mom loves her more than me, my mom promises me things and never keeps her promises, etc.. I am becoming very concerned with her anger. I have done very well at keeping my mouth shut when it involves their mother. And I want the youngest to have her lime lit, to feel special, etc..However, I do not want to stoop to the level of their mother and include one in something special and not the other... We always include all 5 of our kids, no matter what we do..we always have..I just dont understand how a mother can put one child so much higher than the other...And she is hurting...I always insure her that she is loved just as equal and all the other children we have...But she always poses the question, "why does my mom love ____ more than me." I dont have an answer for her..My advide has always been, I can't answer for your mom, thats something you will have to ask her. Is there any suggestions to help me out in this situation? What more can I do? Am I giving her the wrong advice? Please help....Desperate step mom.... (link)
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I think you are on the right track. From reading your Question i get that the oldest has been able to bond with the biological mother and the youngest hasn't. Probebly for more reasons than just the buying and recieving gifts. This happens even in healthy family with a wide gap in age difference. Lets say 14 and 5. One child is going to be more demanding and more mature and so forth. If may be something that can never be fixed if the seed of jeliousy is planned into the youngest. She may grow out of it and find a new bond with the biological after she reaches maturity. I found mine at 19 with my dad. I think the only reason i found it was threw common intrest and time spent without the other sibbling. Life isn't fair but she will appriciate you for trying to make it that way for her...
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so im doing a science experiment on a mouse maze
I would really like to know some research sites i could look at because i really cant find anything so if you could help out with that i would be thankful
plus I also need to know what i could use to build the maze..my friend morgan said that i should use dominos...I really dont think so ...what else could I use (link)
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My son used LEGO's. He glued them together making trap doors and everything. You can make the walls as high as you want...
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I've gotten myself into a tough spot. It's kind of lengthy, I apologize.
I am currently dating this one boy, and things have gotten really stale, because he hurt me a couple of times really badly, I've never been able to get over this. So as i was kind of edging away from him (for months) I found a really nice guy at work , and we started to hang around just as friends, but there was obvious sexual tension,so anyway, we kind of just ended up making out, and he (who didn't know i was dating the other boy, bad i know) asked me out,and I defintely like him so I said yes.
And here in lies the problem. How do I go about breaking up with my previous boyfriend? I'm still in highschool, before class, lunch or after class? I'm kind of afraid because he really likes me,and I know this is going to really hurt him, but I just lost feelings. Not even because of the other guy. (link)
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If you have been edging...away from him for months he has probely noticed by now and will maybe blame the relationship going bad on you meeting the new guy. Don't tell him about the other guy even if he asks, don't even talk about the new guy at all and don't say it was because of what he has done to you in the past. This will only give him a reason to hang around to make things better or improve your friendship. Tell him that you don't want to continue dating and its nothing he has done but its time to move on..
Hopefuly he has already noticed ur distance and just waiting on you to break it off with him and he is just wanting you do it because he doesn't want to seem to be the bad guy.
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i have this huge issue well my boyfriends 18th birthday on june 23 and i dont know wat to do...Im 15 and im turning 16 in october and i dont wanna break up with him or anything..I mean i really love him but his mom doesnt want us together...basically how can i help convince his mother that i love him and im committed?? (link)
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well if this question has to do with his age only then in MOST states, and i say MOST... the age difference to be worried about statuatory rape is 4 years. This is if your sexually active. In your case you are only 3 even if you are 15. Make sure your parents know this. If they do then its for other reasons...
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where can I find plastic bowls, plates, cups etc. that are microwave safe? I am looking for a nice set to take to college with me and i cannot find them anywhere online (link)
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Ebay...
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Ok so Im a 18/f
umm well I like this guy hes 22 and he seems to like me back. we have a lot in common, we go to the same church and for me thats a big plus.
the thing is that well sometimes i get the impression that he really likes me and this kinda worries me sometimes because of the age gap.im afraid that hed either play me because im younger or want a super serious relationship because of his age. i really dont know what i would do if he ask me out. my friends tell me that guys his age already think of marriage and Im definitely not ready for that but I do have feelings for this guy but I dont know what I should do
any advice anyone? (link)
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*A Guys Point of View*
Me and my wife are 7 years apart and we have been together for 10 years now. We dated for 2 or 3 before marriage even entered my mind. Guys are a little slower in this area and want to be sure they are not getting trapped into a relationship. If he does ask you out or vise versa if he starts being to quick to get married then then he maybe looking for more that a marriage. Be careful and go with the flow...
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ok so me and my friend are reallly close ill tell her everything. but she wants me to do her a huge favor she wants me to date her ex because he likes her but she doesnt like him. i mean hes cute but idk if i want to date him because idk how do i tell her i dont want to do this. (link)
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your friend is saying that she doesn't like him and this is a attempt for her to remain close to him. So she probebly does like him and she will be using u to keep him on tabs. I wouldn't get involved. As the old saying goes, EX'S are off limits...when it comes to keeping friends.
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ok so me and my friend havent been speaking to each other for 2 months and we've been good friends for 5 years. i dont even remember the reason why we arent talking and i miss her but the last thing i said to her was that if she wanted us to be friends she had to be the one to talk to me (because i had been feeling like she was kind of distant for a while). i even asked her what her problem was and she would always say she was fine.
i miss her and it's hard to believe that she wants this friendship to be over after five long years.
what should i do? (link)
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WOW! 2 months thats a while. Maybe thats it. {QUOTE:} YOU DON'T EVEN REMEMBER THE REASON WHY WE AREN'T TALKING...
Have you told her you miss her and that you didn't really mean that she had to talk to you first to continue the friendship that you only want to give her some thinking room. She is probely feeling distant because you told her you wanted it that way and didn't give her time to get over the problem. It might just have been a problem she didn't want to discuss with you. If she said she was fine what makes you think the friendship is over! You are making her feel like its over...
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