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help please!
i have a problem of getting annoyed with people way too easily. its how i lose half my friends b/c once you get on my nerves its like i dont wanna hangout with you anymore. then i get called a bitch and i seem to be losing more and more friends.. and maybe i am a bitch. help?!
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tollerance of others is a virtue. The more you have the better off in life you will be. You will have to deal with it until you are here no longer. So take a class or two in social tollerance and acceptance. This will teach you how to pay attention to what matters rather than the nit picky stuff. You think your friends get on your nerves wait til you have kids...
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Maybe you are, or maybe you are just particular about who you call a friend, as you should be. Let me ask you. Your eating out, you know what you want to eat, but they bring you something else. When you say, "this is not what I wanted", the waiter says, "So, just eat it anyway". Are you going to eat it, pay for it and smile as you walk out?
Having high standards for what you want in friends is not wrong, it's smart. Just taking everybody and anybody as friends will cause you untold trouble through your life, don't fault yourself for knowing this instinctively. Be careful that you don't remove someone from your circle for stupid reasons, but don't be an any buddies either, that's the path to victim hood.
Be friendly, not gullible.
Just another way to look at it.
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Heyy, don't call yourself a bitch. I've known someone like this before. Getting irritated at someone easily may just be a phase for you. You have to remember that everyone has habits and things that will get on your nerves, you just have to keep hanging out with them and try to look past the small stuff. I mean, if you didn't talk to everyone who did dumb stuff, you would never talk to anyoneee. Haha, well, it's true. So try not to be so critical of the little stuff that other people do. Also, if a friend calls you a bitch to your face or behind your back, thats the friend you may not want to keep, or you should to talk to them and let them know whats up. So try to keep hanging with people instead of ignoring them, hope I helped!
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