Let's face it, we are not perfect beings. Many things can lead to an imperfection in taking hormonal birth control pills. Antibiotics, mis-scheduling, herbs/supplements, and even weight gain can cause issues in the quality of pregnancy prevention (it can render your Hormonal Birth Control completely ineffective even).
With TYPICAL use of the hormonal birth control, a woman is 92% protected from pregnancy. However, one should take into consideration that even with a 99% effective rate claimed, there is an estimated 8 in every 100 women who will become pregnant from typical usage. This being said, you should be taking as many precautions as humanly possible to prevent a pregnancy (along with STD/STI transmission).
So, in short, no it really is not acceptable to allow a male to ejaculate inside of your body. Birth control pills are not completely effective and we are not perfect beings. Please protect yourself as much as possible. I know you would not want to have to face the hardships it is to become a young mother (or face the guilt of an abortion).
Please take enough time to research before engaging in risky activity. STDs/STIs can be very serious and people can go a very long time without being aware that they have contracted something and are passing things along. Babies can even be born with such things so anyone is at risk for having such things. Although condoms do not prevent transmission, they can be helpful in lessening risks. Abstinence is the only safe way to know that you are uninfected and not pregnant. Here are a couple of links you should really check out:
I hope things go well for you and you gain enough knowledge so we don't see you back here in a few weeks in fear of a possible pregnancy. If you have any more questions regarding this matter, please feel free to ask me :) [ Peeps's advice column | Ask Peeps A Question ]
AskKay23 answered Sunday May 18 2008, 10:14 pm: It's okay-- so long as you know that birth control doesn't protect you or him against STD's, if that's even the case.
Birth Control is 99% effective towards pregnancy- so you shouldn't have to worry about that really.
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