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hm, why doesn't it feel good
everytime i have sex with my boyfriend, it feels good for him but not for me, why is that? it doesn't hurt or anything, i just don't get pleasure
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you need to try different things.
different positions etc..
dont be shy
tell your boyfriend what you like..
what you dont like..
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Believe it or not, guys know nothing about what pleasures a women unless he's told. So if you are like most women and expecting your guy to read your mind, you will be like most women and not experience an orgasm with your guy for the first 5 years or more.
Good sex is about teaching your partner what feels good, so get over your shyness about talking about it with him and explore what makes you orgasm. Then you will know pleasure and he will appreciate it too, pretty much all of us want to know how to please our women in bed.
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Perhaps you haven't found what works for you with sex just yet. Try alternate positions. There's tonnes to choose from.
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Or perhaps add something, like lube, toys - use your imagination.
I hate to say it, but some women just don't enjoy sex as much as foreplay.
Stimulating your clitoris might personally be better for you instead of sex. Try doing both at the same time if you haven't already.
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All girls are different, I would suggest more foreplay. You could also try going to a sex store and maybe buy some "toys" to spice it up a little bit. Sometimes communication helps too before having sex.
Hope I helped!
-BahaiMa22
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All girls are different and get stimulated by different types of activity. Some girls enjoy it more to be touch on their clitoris instead of having sex.
Try more foreplay, an Just intercourse and different positions will not only help, but taking time. Another thing is expectations of amazing sex takes time. You're young.. and you'll have to learn to explore your own body.
Take time to chill out, too.. pleasure can definitely be effect by your nerves.
Hope I helped.
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