Gender: Female
Location: England
Occupation: Waitress
Age: 17
Member Since: May 21, 2008
Answers: 20
Last Update: May 25, 2008
Visitors: 1463
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i cant orgasm. what are some ways i cant increase my chances of doing it? (link)
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To have a organism.. ur clit needs to be stimulated. some females dont have them becos they are not doin the correct position that allows them to..
in my opinion, a little forplay helps
then .. fast ..
sounds rude .. but its true..
to have an organsm you have to want to have it
& feel in the mood to have it ..
try different things
xx
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HI IM 14/F and i shaved myself like twice only because every time i do it,it itches very bad and i hate hair down there sooo can you tell me how to shave down there or use something to remove the hair witout the itching sensation and im a teen soo how much would gettting it waxed cost any thing would help right now
im asking you because you sad that were a beauty expert or something please help!! thanx (link)
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Hey .. to have it all waxed off .. its a hollywood wax .. & its about 8pound but ur hairs dont grow back for a cuple of weeks ..
it hurts a lil but not much dnt be scared babes
Or you could just get Veet which you use at home and it remvoes all your hairs
doesnt hurt at all
hope that helped
xxxx
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I know people get sad, its going to happen, but for at least a month, ive been feeling really sad. I thought about cutting myself, and did it once but not too deep, not enough to kill me, but deep enough. And people at school have just been so...mean and guys have been rude and arrogant, and my parents are fighting and may be getting a divorce and my sister verbally abuses me,i've been doing worse in school and idk, im just DONE. How do i get out of this sadness? I just cant have fun or be happy anymore, and what can i do? I need help and dont want to ask my parents for a therapist, and i try to talk to my friends, but gossip makes it too hard in my school, so i just need some advice on how to get happy again! Thanks (link)
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Hey, you sound REALLY down. how old are you? you only sound young. you should be living life, having fun..
i get really stressed with work & friends..
the thing is
your an individual
your yourself, your own person.
nobody makes you do anything
therefore, if things get you down
think to yourself
" im going to forget about it, because i know that im better than that"
if people bully you, be the bigger person and do not react. tell a teacher or a social worker...
do not feel ashamed to tell someone how you feel, for example, a good friend.
dont let people get you down or get to you because you are not making the msot of your life.
we only have one life
your sister! ignore her... that shwat sisters are for to be honest. to be mean. it doesnt matter. ignore her :)
just remember,, be happy! heres a list of what makes me happy :
Shoppinn :) friends :) chocholate...
food..
dancing really loud
singing in the rain
jumping on the trampoline
been with people i care about
talking to friends
pictures, bowling, skatin etc
HAVE FUN :)
lots of love & good luks to u x
if you still fell down. dont be scared to mail me. id like to help X
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Hey everyone!
im 14 btw. (a girl)
its summrtime and wow its boiling out! 80 degrees and it just gets hotter! and im outside with my friends a lot.
and i was wondering what are your favorite summr styles to keep you cool?
and also, where can i find white tshirts (without a lot of writing) that arent see through. at all because with an undershirt its too hot!
and whats the cutest was to wear youur hair and keep cool?
(sorry for all the questions im re-doing my wardrobe!)
what are some cute bottoms, not to short (about mid-thigh)? shorts or skirts or dresses.
links or stores would be amazing. thank you so much!!! (link)
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Hey ..
RIVER ISLAND is the best for three quaters..
army look is definatley in
& bright colours..
white tops from TOPSHOP .. around 7quid?
"gladiatior" flip flops are in..
try FAITH...
hope it helps :)
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Basically I have a huge group of friends - about 15 of us. And last year some of them began to bitch about me, and then just because one didn't like me - none of them did and they just bumlick of eachother and suck up to eachother and we are bloody sixteen. Well this year we all forgot about it and now it went really well. The only reason why some didn't like me was of my personality but they went around saying all this horrible stuff making out a crime that im kind to others or i'm clever etc etc. Now its my friends birthday and they are asking her to uninvite me which i think is really rude as
1 - I know she likes me
2 - she's a bumlicker and will give into them
3 - they all asked me to go
4 - when they say they dont like someone they say it straight up but why not with me?
and it really annoys because if one of them is feelig sick its " oh so and so what can i do to help" but if its me its " oh leave that fool she's attention seeking" which is SO RUDE and it makes me so angry.
I cant confront them because i will be killed and if i lose them, i basically have noone [ apart from one who is jsut the best friend who lvoes me to bits]. We are all friends but they are totally bitchy and two faced
What the hell do i do? One minute they like me, next they dont and ive never caused ANY HARM to them.?? (link)
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Im sure you said these were FRIENDS?
ARE YOU HAVING A LAUGH?
get as far away as possible for them
they sound like there ruining your life
there not friends if they make you feel this way
move on to new friends..
even if your on yourself for abit..
you stil have that best friend of yours
its always better to have NO friends. then BAD friends..
hope it helps X
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28/f
me and my husband have been married for 7 years now and have been together for 9. the whole time we were dating we were very sexually active and for the first three years of our marriage we were very spontanious with our love life. for example we'd have sex everywhere from the kitchen counter, our hot tub, the shower. But now we have a six year old son and i'm always taking him to soccer practice or something after school and me and my husband work full time. i feel like we have no time left for ourselves. our sex life is practically scheduled for wednesdays only because thats when my son goes with a carpool to soccer practice, leaving me and my husband alone at home, when normally me or my husband takes him and stays with him there until its over.
i want to know how to spice things up because we do want more children but i'd like to know how to make our situation better before it gets worse. we're still young, it shouldn't be this hard. (link)
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I understand your concern, you need to make more time for each other. go out more, be spontanious. tell him how you feel.
what about on a night when your in bed?
spice things up with toys etc..
have fun whilst your young
hope it helps :)
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i have a ton of problems with my boyfriend. i want to fix them so badley, because i love him so much, but i really just dont know what to do. i guess ill just list the problems...and go from there..
1. jelousy. alot of girls like him and talk to him and all that stuff, and when hes just talking to them to be friendly, i cant help but feel like he likes them, or is starting to like them. or he could be cheating on me with them or something like that. he promises to me that he dosent like them, and that he would never cheat on me.
2. i feel like he still likes his ex girlfriends. just the way that he acts around them, and the fact that he makes fun of them, makes me feel like hes trying to hide the fact that he still likes them.
3. i feel like hes lying to me that his parents like me. cause, they wont ever let us hang out for more than 2 or 3 hours, and hes only spent time at my house once, out of the 6 months we've been dating. like yesterday, i got free tickets for the new narnia movie, and when it was time for him to go home, he realized that his parents werent home, my mom invited him over to our house. and when we got home there was a message on our answering machine from his dad saying that the back door was unlocked and all of that. and so he called his dad back, and once his parents heard that he was over at our house, they imediately came over and picked him up. we dont have a shitty house, we have a nicer house than they do, so i know that they dont think that he wont be safe here. i dont know what it is. its like they hate me. they dont act like it though, their always like " hi shelby, how are you" and always very nice to me, but it serioulsy seems like they do.
4. i feel like sometimes he dosent listen to me while were talking, because well be talking about something, and then ill say something, and he;ll be like " what are you talking about" either he's not listening to me, or hes just stupid.
5. i get really mad when he chooses to hang out with his friends over me. beacuse, hes canceled so many dates on me to hang out with his friends. so, the days that he hangs out with his friends, he could be spending them with me making up for the dates he's canceled. which REALLY pisses me off that he does that.
i've thought about breaking up with him, and i told him that, and he FREAKED OUT. he started hypervenolating(sp?) and cried. so i know that he loves me, but i just dont know what to do about all of this!!
please help me!!!
thanks for all your help
14/f (link)
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GOD.. you have problems girly, so lets go through them one by one..
to start with, let me just say, your only 14, you dont need to act like your married to the guy :)
1. Jealousy! - this is definatley the killer bug of all realtionships. your only yonug, you shouldnt be jealousy. your BF wouldnt be with you if he liked other people. if you feel jealous, tell him, tell him why, & resolve things. dont let it stay in your head because its nots good for you. you will just get yourself worked up and paranoid about things when you dont need to. you should be happy a lot of girls like him because YOU have got him, and you KNOW hes good looking...
2. EX'S - face it darlin, everyone has an EX. and they may always share something with them, e.g. first love, first kisss. DONT YOU? dont worry about ex's, you have the boy now, not them!
3. PARENTS - at your age, parents dont matter. no one gives a damn about parents. your young, live your life. they may just not want him to grow up yet.. in a sexual way... if they think hes at yours along time they may feel like he may be doin things such as sexual activity .. dont worry about them.. they are just concerened for there son as you are both young and are in a big relationship.
4 LISTENING - what boys do listen? boys dont listen. they play games, eat & fart. thats it. dont worry about it. you have your friends to listen to you :)
5. FRIENDS - as you are so young, you both need time apart to be with your friends. you should never ditch your plans with your friends to be with him, or vice versa. you need your friends to get through life socially. dont let love take over your life
Hope this has helpd..believe in yourself
remember, im always here to help sweetie
:)
good luck
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I recently gave a ride home to my ex-boyfriend and he invited me into his house to show me something. While we were joking around, he started hitting on me. I didn't think anything of it until he pinned me down on his bed and tried to hook up with me. I told him no because I love my current boyfriend and I can't cheat on him. He then told me it wasn't cheating because we were just having fun and we're teens. It doesn't mean anything and he really misses kissing me and feels empty inside. I left his house and i left him really upset but i couldnt stay there anymore.
What scares me more is that part of me really did want to hook up with me and I feel in a way I cheated/was disloyal to my current boyfriend. MY friend told me its just a thing with ex's and sometimes she feels that way around hers even tho she wouldn't do anything.
I don't know if I should tell my boyfriend about it and how much I should tell him. I'm losing sleep over it because its bothering me so much but I don't want to ruin what I have with him now.
Please help
17/female. (link)
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Hey darlin..
what a situation, eh?
First things first, you need to get your priorities stright. do you have feelings for you EX? if so, more than for your current BF? you obviously have some feelings or you would not have wanted to kiss him..
also, lieng to your current BF is not healthy at all.. you need to decide which one you prefer..
why did you split with your EX in the first place? does he just want you now for a fling?
secondly, confess all for you BF. if he does really love you, he will understand that you pushed him off because you love your BF.
HOWEVER, i dont really understand why you went to ur EX's house in the first place? to show you something? now come on girl :0 where not silly..
you must have feelings for him to fall for that..
confess all..
most importantly..
dont lie to yourself
if you need help girl just ask
:)
good luck
x
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my b/f is kind of confusing me. wenever we're together he'll put me on his lap and we'll start kissing and ill kiss at his neck and stuff, but then he makes me stop cuz he says im a tease. but then wen we're sitting there and kissing he'll lead my hand down there. but then wen im down there its like its not as good as wen i was sitting on him. i need help with wut to do...like, i feel like he wont get hard or something. i just dont no wut to do... and i dont want advice like suck his dick or nething...im only 15 and i dont want to do that yet. (link)
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You have the answer infront of you ...
He likes it when you sit on him ... & also likes it when you kiss his neck ect..
so blend it all into one..
sit at the side of him with one leg on him..
&& .. kiss his neck ect while playing down there..
dont be shy..
if you need anything else let me know darlin :)
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okay, so basically my problem is that i have never kissed a guy, and there's a possibility, however it may be slim, that the time will come soon. if that doesn't work out, i want it to happen asap. so i am hoping you can advice me with any tips when it comes to kissing a guy! i am completely clueless and need help! thank you thank you! (link)
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Hey sweetie .. :)
Dont feel you have to rush in to things, you want you first kiss to be very special...
like, so when your older you can say to your kiddies ...
"He" .. was my first kiss.. & tell them how it was and what you did and how you was nervous but how you just got over it.. yeehh :)
always, wait for the guy you WANT to kiss... it just happens.. you both kiss and it just generally falls in to place..
like below, a slow & soft kiss is always nice.. tounge is abit naughty :) but still nice...
see how you feel about the person...
dont rush into things
be sensible...
if you need anything else sweetie let me know :)
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how do i start to get to talk a girl when we both like each other without seeming strange (link)
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the best thing to do first is the MSN thing..
it helps you talk to someone, but not face to face.
i find this easier to begin with..
then, you can talk face to face
dont be shy
if you like them and they like you
theres nothing to worry about
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i love my boyfriend dearly. but somehow i think i got my views on sex mixed up. he cheated on me early on in our relationship and now i feel like if he doesnt want to have sex with me then i must not be pretty enough, or good enough for him. i get really upset when we are laying in bed and he just rolls over and goes to sleep instead of having sex with me. i must be too fat, or too ugly, or he doesnt like my hair, or i just dont turn him on. i dont know how to get past this... i love him so much but i am extremely hurt every night that we do not have sex and i dont know how much longer i can stay in a relationship where i am hurt soo much. (link)
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What do you thing about yourself? Do you feel your too fat/ugly etc?
if so, have you always felt this? or only since your BF has treated you like this?
if you feel good about yourself, dont change to make your BF want you more. if he cheated, its his fault. he should be making up for it, not you.
You cant feel bad for somthing you havent done. now, if things dont change, talk about it.
ask him why? whats wrong? does he still feel the same way about you?
& if he doesnt..
move on. you obviously can do better than stay with someone like this..
it sounds a little blunt, but if your young, you like to feel good about yourself
hope this helps darling, if you wannah talk more, let me no xx
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everytime i have sex with my boyfriend, it feels good for him but not for me, why is that? it doesn't hurt or anything, i just don't get pleasure (link)
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Basically...
you need to try different things.
different positions etc..
dont be shy
tell your boyfriend what you like..
what you dont like..
xxx
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15/f
okay so you've probably heard this before but i need some advice. my boyfriend wants to "go further" as he put it. we've been dating 7 months and i'm open to that, but all i've ever done is makeout. like i have no idea what i'm doing and i don't really know how far he wants to go but i'm guessing like bj's and stuff. i don't really know what to do you know and i don't want to be like super nervous so ha is there any like websites that give advice on this? only reason i ask that is you're not allowed to get in detail about this stuff on here.
and please don't tell me i'm too young, i'm not not not goiing to have sex, i know i'm not ready for that. thanks in advance =] (link)
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first thing first, stop worrying girl. you may only be young but you seem to be mature as your in a long term relationship..
if you feel ready, and so does you boyfriend.. then let it happen...
dont be pushed into it, and dont think your doing it "wrong". you cant do it wrong, you can just get better the more you do it. he wil tell you whats nice and whats not..
& you will do the same..
if you feel your in love. then it wil be even better
relax & just enjoy sweetie :)
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what should a girl do while being fingered so she doesn't end up just laying there and making the situation akward. (link)
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In my opinion, the best thing to do is "Moan"..
it sounds silly, but it will turn him on more.
kiss him & tell him it feeels nice
you could also play with him too
experiment
see whatyou both enjoy:)
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hi my name is chelsea. the other day when my boyfriend and i were having sex, he came and his come was green. help!! (link)
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is it the first time you have had sex?
i agree..
get him checked out.
you never know, it may be serious, may not be.
just to be safe yeh :)
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is there anything i can do to get my boobs bigger (link)
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Hey..
the only real thing you can do is get a boob job
i wouldnt recommend this
however, for me, i do bust boosters.
arm movements from left to right singing
" i must, i must, i must improve my bust"
it doesnt really help, however, it makes me feel better.
:) x
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ok this might sound really really weird, but like i shave my underarm hair on both sides, but it only ever grows back on one side. why is that? should i be worried? (link)
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awww..
how old are you?
it could be due to hormonal problems or stress of somthing.
when i shave my underarm hair it grows back an hour later. so your really lucky.
if it upsets youu, talk to someone about it. dont be afraid, it doesnt get you anywhere in life
hope that helps
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btw im a female
i shaved down there and there is still little stubs of hair and they wont go away no matter how much i shave
am i doing it wrong?
or is it just because i shaved the wrong way or just because i shaved? (link)
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shaving will also leave little stubbon hairs
im a beauty therapsit
& i just have it wax
it hurts a little
but its better than shaving cuts etc.
when shaving, i always apply a lot of soap or lotion etc.
hope that helps babes.
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ok so is it possible that a person on msn cant get your message when YOU send it but you can still chat when THEY send it.cos there is this guy and i was like: sorry who are you again?
and then after like 3 minutes he was like:
sorry who are you?
etc.
so we talked but then i asked again who he was and when he answered it sounded like he never got my first message when i already asked.
errm and yeah i started talking to him the next time he got online TWICE but he never ever replied. so is it possible that sometimes you have this person who doesnt get your messages. because i really dont think he hates me lol
but im too shy to talk to him in person, but he DOES notice me alot in school by smiling etc. so i dont think he hates me.
i dont knowwww. lol
but is it possible ... the whole msn thing? cos its been bothering me.
sorry for asking this again but i forgot smth last time.
i forgot to say that
the message still got saved on my PC cos i have it programed that way, as you can. i dno if you do it. :P but does that still mean that it's possible he didnt get it??
i'm sorry for making such a big deal but i really like him alot mwhaaa.
DONT TELL ME TO TALK TO HIM BECAUSE I WONT NOW ALRIGHTT? dont waste your "typing-Hands"
no offence. :P
xx (link)
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Okay.. this is a little confusing
i get what you mean with the MSN fing.
he may have got it... and felt a little embarased because he may presume you know him. if you get me
so made it out like he didnt know you had asked who he was.
the MSN fing can happed. it may be your internet connection. or he may just not have read it. you never know
however, if you like him. dont be afraid. if you believe in your self. talk to him. you will go further in life.
good look babes.
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