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GUY (or girls 2) why???
why do i never get asked out?
im not bragging or anythng, but whenever i go out guys always stare at me or smile at me or stuff like that, but they never approach me or talk to me except on rare occasion.
why is this?
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Your problem is, guys don't take hints, we are too stupid at that age to take hints. At my age I realize how many girls actually were interested in me, but I just didn't see it back then. We barely know our own names at that age, let alone know what a "come on" smile looks like.
We take things at face value, a smile is just that. Try this, go up to the guy, say hi, my friends were going to see this movie, would you like to come along? What ever he says, yes or no, you have let him know you're open to him approaching you. If he says no and never comes to ask you to do something else, don't take it personally. Girls are not the only ones that often are not ready to date, or have their eye set on someone else.
Your only consideration here is, if he says yes, you may have to scramble to find some friends to go to the movie with the two of you, but if you can't, tell him they backed out at the last minute.
I don't normally condone lying, but ehh, a little white lie to get the dating ball rolling, who's it going to hurt.
After a couple times of doing that, maybe even the first, the other boys will realize you're approachable and maybe they will get the courage to start asking you.
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well how about you say screw it and you be the outgoing one (not to outgoing) :) and start up the conversation and see where it goes from their, because a lot of guys are just i wouldnt say dumb but clueless...is that the right word? but hey at least they can smile and stare at you but try talking to them bc by waiting around nothing will happen and just maybe thats what the guys waiting for is an outgoing girl that will come talk to him??? Good luck hun!!!
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Its because guys unless they are Mr. Romeo are clueless when it comes to body language, they think that if you don't talk to them then you are just being friendly by smiling back. They are not catching the hint or maybe you are not throwing enough out. Don't get me wrong i don't mean you have to trip and fall on the floor and have him rescue you. Just make it more obvious that your interested in more than just friends... Hope this helps
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guys dont even see themselves as being complicated they just see us as complicates.
its hard I HATE IT!!! lskgjslk lol =]
Amen, its time us women get some damn answers about these things!!! I agree, It bothers me.
I hope you get a great answer and when you do let me know. thanks =]
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