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I am 21 years form India and my girlfriend 27 we had oral sex but I never had the actual sex, I dnt know how to describe, but I fingers her down many times and my spam was on my fingers the main problem is she got her late on her periods, this days her mood is so bad and she always feel sick and tired and have no sleep at all……I am really worried for her …IS she pregnant now?
when we were discussing about the results, she dnt want to have abortion if she get pregnant and we really cant have baby this time.
Please help me to knw her situation.....
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Your 21 and she is 27. You are not mature or old enough to have a child but she is. well at least should be. but not wanting it because your not ready, makes complete sense. try to talk to her like the other advicer had said. a pregancy test would be very helpful. even though you havent had sex, having your seman on your fingers when you were having oral may cause her to be pregnant. take a test to start with. then talk about your opinions and go from their. hope it helps. good luck!
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so i'm getting my nose pierced this friday (december 19th) and i was wondering on a scale of 1-10, 10 being the most painful, what is it? also, i have my ears, cartalidge, lower cartalidge and belly button done, if you have any of these pierced can you compare the pain to a nose piercing. thanks! (link)
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i had my ears pierced (when i was a little girl) then i had my nose pierced (just last year in october but in a foreign country) then this year i had my belly button pierced. honestly it doesnt hurt one bit, it didnt hurt me at all! i actually think my belly button piercing hurt more because im skinny and the guy doing it said it was hard grabbing my belly button. i had my nose done with a needle and it was like a 3 at first then the pain went away lol. so good luck! have a hand to hold when you go in just in case :)!!!
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I had sex for the first time this week, I don't think I did it too soon. I was ready, and Its the right guy, deffinetely.
But some people think its too soon, what do you think? (link)
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In this generation, kids of age 13 have sex. You are 14 so probably a high school freshman. To be honest, I do believe you had sex too soon. The fact that you are saying that you dont think you did it too soon but yet asking what we think, says a lot. If you say you believe it was at a right time then stick to it. You felt that way when you did it and don't feel bad. DONT ever regret having sex ESPECIALLY when YOU think it was the right time and guy. I already said how I feel about it but that is me. Just be careful and please don't do this regularly with other guys. Be safe and believe in yourself love.
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Me and my boyfriend of almost 3 months had sex on monday, for the first time. I love him so much :) , but then someone told me that if you have sex that soon, then you get bored of each other and you stop talking and just have sex. Is this true? I want to be with him for a long time.
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this all depends on the two people involved. it can be true in some cases. in many that i have heard of BUT NOT ALL. don't have sex 24-7 obviously. keep your relationship intesesting. don't be afraid to say not to having sex with him again if you think you are doing it too much but DO talk to him about it. don't stay in all the time and if you do enjoy yourselves, play board games, cards, watch a movie, go to the park. keep the relationship interesting. also sex can be made interesting too. not by toys or anything lol but different times, places, and all that fun stuff!!! but keep in mind, if YOU DONT act addicted or are addicted to it, it will help him not be addicted. basically i believe you guys can be together and unbored of each other if you enjoy each others company not body. so good luck, hope you guys stay together for a long time!!! :)
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18/f, VIRGIN.
well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while, i love him to death and i'm definately ready to have sex. anyways the problem is we can't do it at either of our houses, our parents are ALWAYS home and neither of us have a lock on our doors, plus it would just be weird knowing parents are in the house. so my boyfriend was like if either of them don't leave somewhere we can do it in my car. i just laughed and was like oh god and he was like it will be hot :) i'm not sure how i feel about this, i don't think it should matter where but it's my first time you know. and where i live, the high temp is around 30 degrees at night which is cold. what im asking is what sex is like in a car. he has a ford explorer, so it's not like that little and i'm also worried about it being cold! well thanks, any stories or experiences would help! (link)
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honestly i don't think your first time should be in the backseat of a car OR frontseat for that matter. :) girls usually want their first time to be special and memorable. i think you should too. and he should be willing to wait. but i do believe you have made up your mind about doing it in the car. so, if he has a big tunk then you guys could possible go to the back and if he was a smart enough guy, he would set up blankets and pillows and make it special. if not then i guess he should still bring blankets. once you start having sex, it won't be cold. :) i don't think the coldness will affect the condom especially when he is going to be inside you. so don't worry about the cold. and whatever and where ever you end up doing it, i hope its special, be safe and have a good time sweetheart.
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does anyone belive in long distance relationships? Does anyone have advice on how to make them work? (link)
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well i have done the long distance thing twice. first time it didnt work, you'd think id stop :). but i didnt. so now i am in this relationship where my bf is in college at cali and me in nevada. people tell me all the time how do you trust him when he is in college and away. my answer is because thats just it I HAVE TRUST. in my first relationship, i didnt. the first thing that i believe you need to have is TRUST and HONESTY 100% without it you wont make it. the other thing would be to try to have communication occasionlly. my bf and i talk every night on the phone usually an hour to three call us crazy huh. and throughout the day we txt when we have time. so basically you have to try harder in a long distance relationship and have trust, i can not say that enough because it is a huge factor.
but then if you are asking about men or women in the army and leaving a loved one that i dont know about. i have known people who have left to go to the army and left someone behind and it never worked out but i know their are tons of more people out their who have made it work. in that you just need to be patient and hopefully they come back.
i can tell you this much army or a state apart or two hours away when that person comes and sees you the feeling is incredible and depending on how much you love that person and care about them your eyes light up while they are there with you and a huge "kool aid" smile :) and it doesnt go away and the feelings amazing. its worth the wait and i believe it makes your relationship stronger.
so all in all. good luck if you have a long distance relationship or if you are considering it. :)
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Okay so I made some really awesome high dunks that I'm in love with. And I'm gonna put the little personal iD on the side of the shoe, but I don't know what to write!! I thought about:
-My last name
- EST. 1994 (when i was born)
I really want some ideas that are really cool, but I can't think of anything else to put.
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maybe how many you made?
um your jersey number? but then again that changes!!!
your nickname?
your basketball team name?
my bf has played basketball and baseball. so we are trying to think of a tattoo for him that he might like having to do with one of the sports. so i hope i helped, im sorry if not!!! good luck hun!
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okay so let me just start off b y saying i love my boyfriendd sooo much like i can't even explain it
but my boyfriend and i are looking at colleges this year and he wants to go university of vermont and i want to go to a school in our state.. CT and i don't know how we can make our relationship work thats all i have been thinking about and he's wants to get in so bad and i mean i want him to be happy and go to a good school dont get me wrong its just i feel like crap like how are we going to keep our relationship going when were in diffrent states going to school ?? if this has happend to anyone and they have advice for me on how to keep it going or not to feel like crap? that would be great anything is appreciated (link)
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i'm only 18, my boyfriend 20. we have been together for only 2 months, we met in the summer. he just recently left for an away college. i go to the college in our state. he is only 5 hours away. he's going there because thats where he went before he knew me for baseball. i have to support him because i know he would do the same for me.
let me just say trust, loyalty and honesty 100%. thats all you need.
you guys should sit down and talk about how much you each will be willing to see each other. how much love you actually have. and how hard it will be to trust each other, no doubt. but can you do it? can you be mature enough to trust and love one another while you are apart. look at all the pluses and negatives.
if this is what he wants to do and he will be happy doing, you have to give up in order to receive. maybe you guys will make it, maybe you wont but you have to be willing to risk the chance. if u dont try, you might lose a great person and if you try and it works, you gain so much more. also dont ever listen to anyone else, neither of you can. i do promise u this, it is hard.
i spent my whole summer with my bf so when he left about 3 days ago. the 2nd day, i broke down but i didnt tell him because i want to stay strong for us not just myself or him but us. i love my bf and he has all three qualities and he says i do as well. i hope we make it but im 100% sure we will and so is he.
but the only way this will work is if you both want it to and how bad you want it to be. i love answering questions like this so i hope i helped you and i really do hope you two make it.
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is it better to have sex with lights on or off? dont give me the "it depends, or either" just sayy wich is better. lights on, or lights off. (link)
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i'd say off with music on. its usually what people do and thats how it usually is. people dont usually have the lights on unless they are comfortable with each others body or are drunk lol but even then it'd be off. personally my first time was in the day and the lights were off but the sun was on :) so enjoy it if you do it i guess! hope i helped!
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oh i forgot to say that
i dont get how i hear ppl say "ITS OUR LAST PROM EVER!!"
SO YEAH ARENT PPL SUPPOSEd TO have only ONE prom only, which is their senior year in high school?? (link)
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at my old high school we had a senior/junior prom. both grades came. if you were a freshman and sophmore you had to be invited. then we had just a senior prom which was just for seniors. so technically it gets confusing no doubt :) but depends on your state, place you live and high school hun.
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ok i wear tampons now. and i can put them in no problem now. but when i try to take it out, it kinda hurts. why is that. and what can i do to make it stop? (link)
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columist peeps does have some good facts about tampons. the other columist do as well (dont wear a big tampon for a smaller flow). so i dont want to repeat anything. but when you do take it out try to bend your knees and try, it might help. when you put it in, laying down helps a bit. so good luck hun, i know being a girl blows!!! :)
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ok so I'm 15 yrs old and my right boob is bigger than my left boob. it's really really weird.
will this go away as i get older??? (link)
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I believe from girls and guys I have heard that pretty much every women has one boob bigger then the other one. So I think your good and you have nothing to worry about. Sorry my answer is just like the other 2 columnist, so I'm pretty sure your good and have nothing to worry about. :)
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Hi! I;m gonna spend the night at a girl's house... And sometimes when i go places, we don't do nothin.... Any ideas of stuff we could do that is actually fun and not stupid? We're both 13 year old girls btw... And i'd prefer ideas where i don't have to buy anything... Just cause it isn't a BIG slmber party with bunches of people... I'm just gonna go hang out with my friend.. Any ideas will be greatly appreciated!!! (link)
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okay lets see what I got:
-movies (the usual)
-do each others hair or makeup (maybe, i know it sounds dumb)
-make movies (youtube)
-visit sites (myspace/facebook) haha
-take pictures (thats always fun to look back at)
-gossip (its healthy for you :) jk)
-go out to the hot tub (if you live in apartments or a house area with a pool/hot tub)
-give massages (now thats healthy for you)
-cooking is always fun (wheather you can or cant)
-girls and video games? (maybe)
-go into the back yard and play some sort of sport (with or without some neighbors)
-think about hunts you could plan out for you and more friends
-call up some friends (the more then better, maybe like 2 more)
I hope I helped even a little bit! Have a great slumber party and enjoy it!
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do a college year go by fast? (link)
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I'm not saying this from experience at all :) but I thought when I was in high school that it was the longest 4 yrs of my life and now I miss them!!! :). I'm starting college this year I will be a freshman. I honestly cant wait to go back to school and I look at it like, after 2-4 yrs I will have a degree and I will be doing something with my life. Back to your question haha I think it will go by fast. (no experience) but if you think it wont just remember you get a pretty long break in december, well at least we do! Enjoy college hun!!! Hope I helped though!!!
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i really like this guy and we're hanging out in a few days. he wants me to choose what we're gonna do but i have no idea what to do. does anyone know of some fun things/places to do/go? i need helpp :(
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okay so i had the same problem but not so much anymore.
so here are some ideas:
-go out to eat (breakfast,lunch,dinner)
-movies at the theater or someones house
-out to the park
-golfing
-lake
-swimming
-a friends place
depends on where you live as well.
good luck with this and hope i helped hun!
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i dont know what side i should get my nose peirced on does it matter i mean i dont want to get made fun of if i peirce the wrong side so what im asking is do most teens get theyre nosed peirce don the left or the right (link)
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well my nose is pierced on the left side. i heard that if you do the right side it means your a lesbian and if you do the left side ur straight.
i dont believe that though i just thought the left side looked better on me. ive seen girls with both sides pierced. gay or not.
so i think just look at other girls and their nose rings and what side its on for a week or so and then make up your mind!
good luck hun!!!
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okay well we are having our end of the year 8th grade dance before our middle school graduation on monday and... i still dont have a dress! im really stressing and i was wondering if anyone has any links to some really good dress stores AND links to the actual dresses. i'd like something yellow maybe, but i dont really care too much about the color. i have a pretty tight budget [nothing over $60-70]. so please answer ASAP!!! thanks in advance!
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well theirs a lot of stores, links im not too sure about:
Ross: dresses are about 10up below 50, they are cute i just went their today and cheap and they have a varitey(yes to color yellow)
Walmart and Target: 12up below 50, they have a lot of summer dresses not to casual but mainly summer ones(yes to color yellow)
Mervyns: 15up below 50, they have sumemr dresses but i think they are cutter then the ones at walmart and target(yes to color yellow)
MALL: depends they are usually expensive but try WET SEAL, im sure they are below 50
if you dont find any dresses, try a skirt and a fancy (not to fancy) top. I wore a black skirt and a pink shirt to my 8th grade dance and I got a goodnight/last (slow&song) dance kiss from a crush :)!!!
Dont forget all the other accessories hun and have a blast at your dance enjoy it while you can, you'll miss these days!!!
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So, I'm dating a man I've known for a long time. I'm white and he's black. When people see photos of us together or hear about him, for some reason they always have to comment and say things like 'Oh he's black..." or "I'd never thought /you'd/ date a black guy."
I don't understand what the problem is personnaly, I love him and he's so fantastic.
I was wondering though, when you see a white girl and a black man, what do you automaticaly assume or think? Just interested to know.
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I think they make a very cute couple :). My bf thinks that when two white people date their kids dont come out pretty but thats not about dating thats about marriage. My bfs white and Im indian but caramel skin color. We really havent had comments like that but interracial relationships aren't terrible, their actually good, at least I think so.
Plus if you like him dont worry about other people, they shouldnt matter. If your going to have a relationship with this guy and you like him thats all that matters or should. You dont want other people ruining something that might lead up to marriage ;) jk well that might just be a really good relationship.
Stay "tute" together :) hun
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people i dont even know hate me. i have a rep for being a "whore" but im really not. i get mean comments and everyone makes me cry these days. i only have a few true friends but its really upsetting to me. any advice or things i can do? thanks so much:] ! (link)
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aww hun that must really be a terrible feeling, well try to get your friend or yourself to see why people say this. it might probably is a rumor going around and you should try to clear it up and if someone says they told me or they did dont buy it bc those are rumors too just try to stop the rumor or at least straighten it out if you dont try then ppl well believe its true bc you arent changing anything.
Plus where I live schools almost out for high and middle schoolers. So if you truly cant keep going to that school switch schools hun.
try not to let them get to you bc if you do it will eat you up and trust me sweetie you dont want ppl you dont know to be the cause of depression. Good Luck and if you need anything else just feel free to ask me ill do my best!
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so my boyfriend sometimes says things like tomorrow we're going shopping...what kinda ring do you want? or you're perfect lets get married...or That finger would look even more beautiful with a big diamond ring on it...and stuff like that. is he just joking around or does he really want to get married? i'm 17 and he's 19 which is legal where i live but we've only been together for a few months and i deffiently don't want to get married but he says he loves me and blah blah blah...so i dont know what to think/say when he says stuff like this. I usually just laugh or something but yeah...it kinda weirds me out. (link)
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well hunny no one can tell you if hes joking or being serious but you, sounds weird huh, but the thing i think you should do is just sit him down and ask him have a serious conversation about this bc marriage is a very important part of your life and if hun you dont want to get married then tell him your not ready like if you guys werent ready to be intimate then you should tell the other person bc youd rather enjoy it then just do it with one not wanting it. If he loves you, he'll give you time to think about it and then go from there but sweetie try to talk about it okay and good luck!
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