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Pregnancy
I am 21 years form India and my girlfriend 27 we had oral sex but I never had the actual sex, I dnt know how to describe, but I fingers her down many times and my spam was on my fingers the main problem is she got her late on her periods, this days her mood is so bad and she always feel sick and tired and have no sleep at all……I am really worried for her …IS she pregnant now?
when we were discussing about the results, she dnt want to have abortion if she get pregnant and we really cant have baby this time.
Please help me to knw her situation.....
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She probably is not pregnant. It could happen with
sperm on your fingers, but it would be something that didn't happen very often.
To ease your worry, have her take a pregnancy test.
If it comes back that she is not pregnant, have her see a doctor for those symptoms she is having. They are more symptoms of someone who is worried than someone who is pregnant.
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Your 21 and she is 27. You are not mature or old enough to have a child but she is. well at least should be. but not wanting it because your not ready, makes complete sense. try to talk to her like the other advicer had said. a pregancy test would be very helpful. even though you havent had sex, having your seman on your fingers when you were having oral may cause her to be pregnant. take a test to start with. then talk about your opinions and go from their. hope it helps. good luck!
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You obviously know that so could be pregnant because you fingered her and had semen on your fingers, right? If she is, I can totally relate to her not wanting to abort the baby, regardless of the two of you not being ready for a baby. Pregnancy is a sacred thing to a lot of women. Plus, she is 27...SHE might be ready for children, even if you, being 21, aren't. Just talk to HER some more. Let her know that you want to fully understand what she feels and wants.
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