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Me and my boyfriend of almost 3 months had sex on monday, for the first time. I love him so much :) , but then someone told me that if you have sex that soon, then you get bored of each other and you stop talking and just have sex. Is this true? I want to be with him for a long time.
Tell me what you think, thanks.
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not if you have a good relationship. my boyfriend and i had sex with eachother for the first time 4 months in, and our year and a half is on wednesday. you just can't let the sex be the defining factor in your relationship
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this all depends on the two people involved. it can be true in some cases. in many that i have heard of BUT NOT ALL. don't have sex 24-7 obviously. keep your relationship intesesting. don't be afraid to say not to having sex with him again if you think you are doing it too much but DO talk to him about it. don't stay in all the time and if you do enjoy yourselves, play board games, cards, watch a movie, go to the park. keep the relationship interesting. also sex can be made interesting too. not by toys or anything lol but different times, places, and all that fun stuff!!! but keep in mind, if YOU DONT act addicted or are addicted to it, it will help him not be addicted. basically i believe you guys can be together and unbored of each other if you enjoy each others company not body. so good luck, hope you guys stay together for a long time!!! :)
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It all really depends. Don't have sex every time you guys hang out, because the sex will get boring and soon the relationship too. Make sure you guys have good communication, and talk on the phone regularly and have normal conversations in person - like talk about your day, work/school, etc etc. If he starts pressuring about sex, and wants to do it all the time, that's when you should start to worry. Have a talk with him about how you don't want your relationship to only be about sex.. and if he doesn't agree and keeps pushing, lose 'em.
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