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Me and my boyfriend of almost 3 months had sex on monday, for the first time. I love him so much :) , but then someone told me that if you have sex that soon, then you get bored of each other and you stop talking and just have sex. Is this true? I want to be with him for a long time.
Tell me what you think, thanks. (link)
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not if you have a good relationship. my boyfriend and i had sex with eachother for the first time 4 months in, and our year and a half is on wednesday. you just can't let the sex be the defining factor in your relationship
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Okay, so my brother has a friend who has a friend named Bobby. My name is Ashley. One day I needed money for lunch, so I went up to Bobby and said, "Can I borrow some lunch money." He said yes and just told me to give him back the change. Good. End of day. The next day I try to hand him the four dollars that I owe him and he won't take it, so I shove it into his locker. The next day I find the money back in my locker. The next few days go something like that. I start to like him, and he starts to like me. I told him to go to the football game that I cheer at and he did. The next day I give him a ballon with the four dollars in it. He greatly takes it and I thought that was it. Next day he comes to school with a cute present bag all girlied-up with the four dollars in it. Then I make brownies and put the money with them. Today he comes to school with a cake. He still hasn't made a "move."
Do you think he likes me? & What should I do to the money next? (link)
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Get a chocolate bar and put the money under the wrapper. If you want to be a little more romantic, put the money in between the petals of a rose :]
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which is better for homecoming?
http://www.papayaclothing.com/shop/goods_detail_v1.php?goodsIdx=3928
http://www.papayaclothing.com/shop/goods_detail_v1.php?goodsIdx=3963 (link)
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definitely the first one
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Are there some community colleges in LA that have housing for students? Or maybe some type of school that has a dental hygienist program? I want to go to school out there and their univerisities are really hard to get in to and expensive if you are from out of state. Anyone know of other types of school with housing? (link)
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pierce
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i just got a haircut and its really short. Its like an inch under my ears but i still think its really short. I have heard that guys dont like girls with short hair and im going back to school soon so i dont want to look like a boy. Is it true that guys dont think girls with short hair are hot? Thank you :) (link)
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Not at all! Look how many guys are obsessed with Hallie Berry, and her hair is almost non-existent!
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so i've been going out with my boyfriend for 11 months today. anyways our town has a festival every year in august. it started yesterday. well he had to work yesterday till 11:30 at night so we didn't get to go to the festival together so i went with my friends. while i was hanging out with my friends my ex-boyfriend was there also. him and i are friends but my boyfriend doesn't like him. anyways him and i were talking when we looked around and saw that my friends had left. so we went looking for them just us two. well my cousin is best friends with my boyfriend and he saw my ex and i walking alone together and told my boyfriend. so now he's mad at me and i tried explaining to him that we were looking for my friends and he offered to help. so now my boyfriend is all pissed and everything.
what i want to know is it okay for him to be mad when my ex was just helping me find my friends?
sorry so long. thanks for the advice. (link)
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Okay.. everyone else that answered this question kinda took it to the extreme, especially the first one.
Your boyfriend is jealous. It happens, and in this case I think he has a reason to be. You were alone with your ex, and it makes him nervous. It would make me nervous. I would wonder why you were paying so much attention to your ex that you didn't notice your friends left. I just think you need to reassure him that he's the only guy in your life that really matters. Make a night for him, like invite him over and make him dinner and cuddle up for a movie. That night apologize for making him uncomfortable, and tell him that you'll understand why he would be and wont put him in that position again. Ask him what you could do to make it up to him/make him more comfortable in the future. Good luck!!
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I'm applying for Starbucks, and while I know they probably won't hire me yet (I'm 16 with no other past jobs, this would be my first one) I need to try. Its pretty much the last place I'm turning in my resume...
But there's this one question that I don't know how to answer correctly. My mother, a former McDonalds boss, shot down all of my answers. And well, here's the question:
"Describe a situation where you have provided excellent customer service in your most recent position. Why was this effective?" (link)
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When applying to starbucks, turning in an application doesn't do much. They have job fairs about once a month in every area. Go to one of those and you'll probably get hired!
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Okay so I'll get down to it, and because I ramble, I'm bulletpointing it all.
1.) yesterday my boyfriend and I had sex. He wore a condom, it didnt split from what I know, but after about an hour he fingered me. I am due on my period today; it hasn't come yet and I'm not too worried, but I was wondering if there could be some risk I'm pregnant? I believe the chances small but I feel the question has to be asked.
2.) I've been really itchy 'down there' for about 2 and a half days there. It's not an STD, my boyfriend, having had a girlfriend before me only when he was 12 and them splitting up due to the fact they couldn't even bring themselves to kiss, was a virgin when we first got involved sexually and he definitely didn't inherit anything from his parents. I know that for sure. I've heard of UTI's and yeast infections though and have worried about this. It is extremely itchy down there but it doesn't hurt, it just feels irritated but at times it feels fine. I'm not sure if the discharge is any worse or yellower than usual because it's always pretty much the same but it has been sticky and yellow recently, although this is reasonably normal for me. It doesn't burn or anything when I go to the loo. Could it be some kind of allergy or does it sounds like either of the above? The two days its been like that I was wearing sanitary towels because I was expecting my period, but I've never had a reaction like this although my twin sister says she has.
What do you think it is?
3.) If it is anything like that what should I do? I know the doctors seems obvious but can you get any meds for these things without a prescription? my mother knows I am sexually active but my father would probably disown me if he found out - my mum is very laid back about this stuff. Problem is, she's not here to tell for 2 weeks and its damn itchy, I don't really want to wait that long. If I were to ring up, what would I say on the phone?! Would I ask to see a gynocologist or someone else?
Geeze. Thank you :) (link)
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If it doesn't smell there's probably nothing wrong. You can get creams to help the itching at your local drug store, and if it's still bothering you when your mom gets back you can go to the doctors.
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My friend has vouchers for a day spa next weekend and has asked me to go with her. Recently I've had to cancel on her a few times and we've been drifitng apart so we decided it would be a good opportunity to catch up. I said I would but then remembered that my boyfriend was planning on taking me to the same spa for our anniversary in a couple of weeks. I wasn't going to tell my boyfriend that I was going with my friend so as not to ruin it for him but I felt too guilty so I did. He said I could go with my friend and he'd think of something else for our anniversary but I know he's disappointed about it.
Should I go and risk upsetting my boyfriend or let my friend down again? (link)
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I don't see why you can't go with your boyfriend and your friend. It's a spa. You can do different things each time, and I'm pretty sure relaxing never gets old :]
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So, I am in love with watches. They are one of my very favorite accessories. However, being since I love them so, I have acquired quite a lot of them. We're talking double digits. Currently, they are all on my dresser, on a platter-like dish. It's overflowing though, and I need a better place for storage.
Does anyone know of any good organizers for such things? I DO NOT want a jewelry box for them. I repeat, I DO NOT want a jewelry box for them. I want them out in the open where I can easily slip one on in the morning and run out the door. It must be easily accessible! I am not opposed to anything on the wall. Any ideas? (link)
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get bigger sized nails and paint them cool colors, then nail them to your wall making sure that most of it is sticking out. Hang the watches on the pegs.
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my computer has a camera, and i have video chat capabilities.
this might sound wierd, but...
i really dont want to video chat with anyone!
it's not an internet safety thing or anything, its just that i dont want to do it! i guess it has to do with (a) my camera makes me look wierd and discolored... haha im insecure, but its more about (b) if theres an awkward silence, theres nothing to do to stop it! and other stuff like that.
but anyway, howhowhoww can i get out of it!? (link)
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"My mom doesn't like it." or "My mom spilled coffee on my computer screen and now the camera part is like broken"
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i had a verizon cell phone which i lost back in late October. I have been trying to look for it ever since and my mom has been paying the bill every month. I've looked everywhere and can't find it and i have insurance on my phone but i dont know if it will cover it. what can i do? Im not rich btw so i cant just like spend 2493495 dollars on a phone.
thanks=] (link)
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with insurance you just have to pay whatever your premium is, generally 50-100 dollars, and they'll send you a knew phone.
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How old do you have to be to get the pill from there? I heard you have to be 16. I live in Utah, if that makes any difference.
Thanks :] (link)
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I was 15. My friend that went and got some was 14. I think you have to be 13.
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ive been going out with kid for only a week and a day. when he asked me out, it was really random and stuff(i didnt really like him) but as the week went on, we talked on the phone and in the halls and my best friend and her boyfriend said us 4 should hang out at her byfriends house. so i was really excited the whole day. so we got there and said hi and kissed and then the 4 of us made it to the couch. he kinda had his hand over my boob and suff but not like a prev grab kinda way, like i didnt mind it. so i felt weird making out in front of my best friend and her bf( they have been going out for a year and obvii are experienced a lot and stuff) so i kinda just laied in his arms and i knew he wanted to make out. well my friend and her bf left around the corner to do something and we made out really quick and he was soooo bad (it felt like in the movie blades of glory) but you know i still went along with ituntil they came back. well 2 other times the same thing happened and by the end of the night i just wanted to leave like i was totally turned off or whatever, and it was really akward when im with him or on the phone. this kid is really nice and sweet though and my friend really thinks were a goood match and the awkwardness will ware off but i dont know, like i even asked her not to have him hang out with us again tonight! just cause i dont want to make out with him again ( i mean i was expecting to be in the moment and butterflies in my stomach) so now i dont know what to do ( i dont wanna break up with him beore christmas cause i would feel bad and stuff) (link)
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The first time I made out with my current boyfriend it was absolutely TERRIBLE. like, "wow, please don't eat my face," but after a while of kinda avoiding it, I took charge of a make-out session, and ever since then, we've been aaamazing, and have been going out for 7 months. My advice is that before you break up with him or anything like that, be a little assertive, and lead a make out session. It'll give him a change to see how YOU like it, and then he'll be able to learn. If it still isn't good, break up with him because no matter how compatible you guys are personality wise, if you're not compatible sexually it probably won't work out very well.
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My girlfriend keeps tellin me that she cant have sex with me because she is on her periods ,is she right or is it just a trick girls use as an excuse not to have sex (link)
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Well... technically she can, but unless you want bloody, messy, gross sex, I wouldn't go for it. My boyfriend and I always skip sex when I'm on my period. All that blood just isn't attractive.
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i wear a size one in jeans.. and i have a small waist and i want true religion jeans. i was gonna get them off ebay but the prob is i dont know my waist size sooo. anyone out there wear a size 1 in those jeans that would be able to tell me their waste size so i could get an idea! thanks! (link)
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i'm a 0/1, it depends, and i'm a 25. So maybe you're like a 26? most sites have conversion charts.
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my eyes tend to get big when i put my contacts in .. idk why? but i hate them big! i heard that if you put eyeliner on they get smaller .. true story? any tips? (link)
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This is true. Also, using dark shadows on the lid of your eye makes them appear smaller.
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in like the 1800s did women get their periods?
if so, what did they use for a tampon/ pad??
i know this weird but im very curious.. (link)
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Yes, of course they did. you can't get pregnant if you don't have a period. They used rags. Gross, huh?
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my boyfriend of 2 years and i recently just started having sex. we bought condoms, and he still pulls out before he comes to be extra careful. however, i'm still paranoid. i want to go on birth control but i DO NOT want to tell my mom. she would freak out and probably forbid me from seeing my boyfriend. (my whole family has waited until marriage) so i was wondering how i could get birth control without actually going through my mom who would in turn go through my doctor. also, are there any other options besides the actual pill? i've been told it costs about $35 dollars through planned parenthood .. thanks! (link)
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I got birth control from planned parenthood and it was free. it's free as long as you're still a student i think.
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does anyone have any good ideas for gymnastics beam routines? i need to make one up and i have no ideas! (link)
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what level are you? then i can help. i teach gymnastics
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