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First of all my boyfriend dosn't think i'm pretty. And i don't know if you have a girl friend but i'm sure you think SHE'S pretty right. Thats part of the reason you date her... or so i thought... but my boyfriend just said that he dosn't care what I look like he cares more about my personallity. Are most guys like this? Do you care what your girlfriend looks like? I think it's cute that he likes me for my personality but he never says anything to compliment me. Is this a bad thing?... I hope you can help. (link)
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ok, well, just because he likes you for a "pure" reason, such as ur personality, it doesnt mean that he doesnt think that you are also pretty. he may think you are very pretty, it is just awkward to tell you that. im sure he thinks you are pretty, and he likes you because of that and your personality, he just tells you about the personality reason because he doenst want to seem shallow. that is one thing guys dont want their girlfriends to think, that they are shallow and they only like them because of their looks. so you dont have to worry because i am sure he likes you for your looks and your personlality
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I feel weird asking this but why do guys like girls breasts so much? Why do they find them so appealing? Do you? & Why? (link)
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well, i feel weird anwering this, but uhh i think i can help you. well, it is basically the same thing the other way around right? girls find parts of men appealing, for example, their abs, their asses, or possibly their penis. If you find some part of a man appealing, then it is the same thing, we just get turned on by it. that is why god put these parts on people, to impress the other gender. guys find girls breasts sexy and they get turned on by them, just as girls find body parts of guys sexy.
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On a scale of one to ten how much does it matter to a guy when looking for a gfhow heavy she is? I mean not obcenely heavy but definately not thin.
Just looking for insight into a guys mind!! (link)
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ok, well guys are all different. Some guys dont care at all, and it is all about personality. Some shallow guys care a lot and they wont date anyone that is overweight at all. But you wouldnt want to date those guys anyway so that doesnt matter. i think that as long as you arent obese and the "heavy parts" on you are centered around the hips or thighs,(not really the stomach) then it really wont matter to a guy. i wouldnt worry if i were you. so my advice altogether is: guys actually usually dont care all that much. hope i helped!
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All around my breasts and on them its all red and REALLY itchy they're little rash lumps aswell. It has just happened when i wore my new white bra but the thing is I have the same bra but in black and it didnt do this?!!? The bra is 100% cottonn and it dont itch with anything else. Why am i itching and how can i make it stop and go away! I tried Eurax fast itching cream but it didnt work please help thanks x (link)
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umm, well a it may possibly be a heat rash. If you live in a really hot and humid area, then it is summer time now, and that is when heat rashes appear. If the rash is there for a while and it doesnt go away even when u wear other bras, then it is probably heat rash. This happens when a rougher material is rubbing up against sensitive skin, and it gets sweaty. My advice is if it is heat rash, then put any kind of powder on it and keep the rash dry. Hope i helped!
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hey! so, me and this kid are going out, it's been like a few weeks or something like that and then there is this other guy. that i also kinda like, we flirt all the time and i don't know what to do... i mean i really love my boyfriend but then there is this other guy who is more in my group of friends and i don't know what to do about everything. (link)
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ok, well if you like this "other guy more, and you think a relationship with him will be a llot better, then you might want to dump your boyfriend for him. dont dump your boyfriend for him if they are friends, because that is just starting a fight. hope i helped!
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ok so me and this kid have been "together" since november...we are only in 6th grade so its kinda like a crush thing...nothing big...like going out on dates or anything...hes REALLY cute...and we flirt ALL THE TIME...i always want to grab him out of the crowd and kiss him...i ahve been wanting to kiss him for a while...but i m always scared that it wont go right....we palyed spin the bottle and have kissed on ther cheek though but i dont think that counts...so my question is shoudl we kiss....do u think we are ready...if so where when and how should i appoach it...thanx a lot for the help (link)
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i definetly think that you guys are old enough to kiss. especially if you have been goin out since november. it really isnt a big deal at all. All you have to do is bring it up to him online or something. this way, he will go in for it. i am sure that if he is in sixth grade, he will definetly want to kiss. hope i helped!
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ok, so me and this guys have been flirting A LOT and we talk in school sometimes, and sometimes online. we have some classes together and the ones we do we talk a lot, but there's this girl in all the classes we are in toether and when she's not there we get really close, but when she is there she is such a flirt and i get the feeling he doesn't notice me...i've liked him since last year and i feel like i'm just "the girl who likes him but i'll never get him" my friends say we make a VERY cute couple, i don't know what to do...please help! (link)
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what you have to do is beat the other girl to it. Flirting doesnt do anything except hint to someone to take action. sometimes, the guy doesnt even notice the hints, no matter how obvious they are. so sometimes, the girl has to take action. you can do that by telling a friend to tell him that you like him, if he likes you back, then he will ask you out. dont just keep flirting, because then you guys will get no where. just try to beat the other girl to it. hope i helped!
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when i'm with my boyfriend i get shy sometimes....and i hate it, like sometimes i just wanna go and make out but i get so shy and i want to have fun but i'm afraid that guys will think i'm crazy...do guys like shyness or outgoingness. i want to be outgoing but i'm A. scared B. i get sooo shy around people i care a lot about (my boyfriend) (link)
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DONT BE SHY! guys dont really like shyness. you just have to relax and try to be more outgoing. guys dont really care if you are kinda crazy, but dont all of a sudden start actin crazy. believe me, if you start acting more outgoing, then he will feel more comfortable, and you might be able to just randomly make out with him. hope i helped!
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nooo noo no i am educated in sex lol im a girl in 7th grade i just dont kno about like guyss and stuff (link)
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well, now i understand, ummmm, well if you r educated in sex, then there isnt much more to kno other than the whole "attitude" guys when it comes to sex. you see, guys pretty much want to go as far as they can with the girl they like. unlike most girls, guys are pretty horny like all of the time. i guess i still dont really kno wat else to say. so i hope i helped.
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im like so out of it with sex life and guys , so since your a guy like tell me everything pretty much (penis,masterbation,sex, everything) i need to get on ball i feel so lost .. thanks (link)
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well, okaaay. are you just uneducated on sex? if you arent educated on sex, that usually means you havent taken a sex class in school. people take these in 8th grade and sometimes 7th. if you are in 6th grade or lower, then mabey you shouldnt kno some things yet. but i guess ill still help you out. ummmmm.. well im guessin u kno the basics, (how to make babies, etc). i dont really understand exactly wat you want to kno. so can you just ask me a more specific question?
ill get back to you
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I have liked a guy for over a year now. He knows I like him, but we've never gone out or anything. He's going out with a friend of mine now, but I have this feeling that they won't last long. They are the kind of friends that are meant to be friends,and not anything more.
All last year the guy stayed away from me, but now we've realized we have a lot in common. We talk on AIM, and even though we don't talk at school often, we DO actually talk. More than we used to.
My friend who's been watching me for this whole almost two years, has said that she tinks we make a good pair. She tinks that my other friend and the guy will probably break up before the end of the school year, and this summer the guy and me will become close.
I don't know what to expect. I feel that...I've been standing on the sidelines for too long, and that I should do something next time he's...single. But I am really shy and...
I don't know what to do. (link)
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well my opinion is that you should just keep on "flirting" or whatever you do with him on aim, and just get to kno him better. DONT try to sabotage or stop his current relationship because that can make him angry at you and it is reeaaly mean. if and when he is single, just suggest to him you guys going out, if he doesnt sugest it to you first. he might ask you out when he is single, but if he doesnt, YOU have to bring it up. i hope i helped!
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O.K. I got really bored and I stared looking through this site, found you, decided to ask a question... so here we go: My "Guy Friend" and I kinda sorta like started to hook up about... 3 weeks ago... I think. O.K. anyway. It kinda seems like I never really... I dunno give him exactly what he wants. O.K. I totally know this sounds weird but... what do guys want... like what makes you want more and more... I know... weird question. (link)
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this is a very good question, guys want all different things, but there are two things that all good Guys want. #1. the same thing you want, pleasure, and #2. they want you to be comfortable with whatever you are doing together. I am sure that a boyfriend wouldnt want to put you in a situation where you feel awkward or obligated. how do you know if you arent giving him exactly wat he wants. If he is considerate at all, then he wont care if he is getting EXACTLY wat he wants as long as you are happy. If you mean he is wanting to go farther and farther, that is your decision. but dont go that far unless you both think you are ready. the best way to give him wat he wants is to open and honest and to just ASK HIM!
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Ok, so I lost my virginity to my boyfriend the friday before last. I love him more than anything. But the other day he told me that a couple weeks ago he got really drunk and ended up having sex with one of our girl friends who was there. He is really truly sorry. When he told me he was crying hysterically, and kept telling me that he made a mistake. And I knew he was really sorry and felt horrible. We spent a long time crying together but eventually we got through it. He told me everything that happened, and I forgave him. We're still together, but it seems like I can't trust him the same. It's like when I'm not there, I'm scared hes going to do something again. I don't know why I feel this way when I forgave him, and we're actually better than before. How can I get myself to trust him like I did before??
Thanks to anyone who answers. (link)
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Your boyfriend doesnt seem like that bad of guy because at least he admitted it. he could have easily kept it secret, but he was honest. you shouldnt be mad at him at all. Since he was crying, you can totally tell that he wouldnt even want to do something like that again and that he regreted it. You dont really have to worry about him doing it again because, he was drunk. It wasnt really his fault. being drunk entirely impairs your sense of right and wrong. i dont think you have to worry at all about him doing anything like that again so it is FINE to trust him
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My boyfriend and I went on a date yesterday, and when we got home we started making out. After that he sat me on his lap and I felt something poking my butt, so im pretty sure I gave him a boner. I'm wondering how you would tell if you gave a guy a boner and what you should do if u did and dont want to go any further, but i dont just wanna ignor it. My boyfriend and I are really close, if that changes anything. (link)
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well, (im guessing your boyfriend is a teenager) teenage boys are very easy to arouse, just by looking at someone, a boy can get a boner, let alone hooking/feeling up a girl. so you shouldnt get mad at your boyfriend or anything, but if you dont want to go any further, just tell him. he probably isnt trying to go any further, because it isnt his fault that he got a boner. so if you really are close to him, im sure you can talk to him about it. hope i helped!
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say you like 2 boys...and one lived in DE and the other you saw everyday...you liked them both..which guy would you go for? and the DE liked you and the one from school might like you...hmmmm (link)
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well, my question is how often do you see the boy in DE, because if you only see him like 1-2 times a year, then u shuld definetly go for the one that sees you every day. it is worth a try going for the one that sees you every day, even if he doesnt like you, it might end up in a great relationship. If you see the boy in DE pretty often, then i guess you may be able to have a relationship with him, but it might not be as fulfilling, and he may cheat on you. So my advice: go for the one that goes to your school!
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why are boys so confusing...
and how come whenever you like someone, its always someone that will never like you back, or someone that you will never have a chance with?
idk what the question is really...but, umm, anything at all will help.
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well all boys, believe it or not, arent the same horny jerk. we are all different and it isnt that all boys are confuseing, we are just different. so all u have to do is find the personality of one boy.
Maby you are just likeing the wrong people, one method of starting a new relationship is finding out that someone likes u, instead of just likeing some dream person that may be out of your league. so just ask around and maby you will find out that someone u like also likes you.
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