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Which should I choose?
My friend has vouchers for a day spa next weekend and has asked me to go with her. Recently I've had to cancel on her a few times and we've been drifitng apart so we decided it would be a good opportunity to catch up. I said I would but then remembered that my boyfriend was planning on taking me to the same spa for our anniversary in a couple of weeks. I wasn't going to tell my boyfriend that I was going with my friend so as not to ruin it for him but I felt too guilty so I did. He said I could go with my friend and he'd think of something else for our anniversary but I know he's disappointed about it.
Should I go and risk upsetting my boyfriend or let my friend down again?
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Go twice! It's a spa. It's not like you won't enjoy it, yaknow? If you're worried about doing the same thing twice, I suggest getting something like mani/pedi services, facials, hair, etc. with your friend, and maybe a couples massage (or a regular one depending on what's offered) with your boyfriend. He'll enjoy a massage, and you'll get a massage AND everything else when you go with your friend. I assume that you and your friend would enjoy getting your hair done more than your boyfriend would, anyways. ;)
Enjoy your day(s) at the spa & relax!
-LM
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Well it's better for you and your friend to do something like that and you can still do the same thing with your boyfriend and plus you and your boyfriend should more romantic things together. Go with your friend and have fun and catch up on things. I hope things work out for you.
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I don't see why you can't go with your boyfriend and your friend. It's a spa. You can do different things each time, and I'm pretty sure relaxing never gets old :]
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Yes. Sounds like you need to go with your friend. You've canceled on her before, don't do it to her again.
If going to this spa was something boyfriend really had his heart set on, there's no reason you can't go both times.
I mean, really. It's a spa... You can never get in too much relaxing... ;-)
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