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ive been going out with kid for only a week and a day. when he asked me out, it was really random and stuff(i didnt really like him) but as the week went on, we talked on the phone and in the halls and my best friend and her boyfriend said us 4 should hang out at her byfriends house. so i was really excited the whole day. so we got there and said hi and kissed and then the 4 of us made it to the couch. he kinda had his hand over my boob and suff but not like a prev grab kinda way, like i didnt mind it. so i felt weird making out in front of my best friend and her bf( they have been going out for a year and obvii are experienced a lot and stuff) so i kinda just laied in his arms and i knew he wanted to make out. well my friend and her bf left around the corner to do something and we made out really quick and he was soooo bad (it felt like in the movie blades of glory) but you know i still went along with ituntil they came back. well 2 other times the same thing happened and by the end of the night i just wanted to leave like i was totally turned off or whatever, and it was really akward when im with him or on the phone. this kid is really nice and sweet though and my friend really thinks were a goood match and the awkwardness will ware off but i dont know, like i even asked her not to have him hang out with us again tonight! just cause i dont want to make out with him again ( i mean i was expecting to be in the moment and butterflies in my stomach) so now i dont know what to do ( i dont wanna break up with him beore christmas cause i would feel bad and stuff)
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My advice to you is this if it feels weird then dont do it! You will know when the time is right and wont be "wierded out " by it. Relax take your time and just date for now. Remeber IF you want to do "it" make sure the guy has a condom if not then dont.
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you shouldnt break up with someone just becuase they are a bad kisser.
if you keep on kissing him.. he will get better.
well, hopefully. tell ur friend to casually tell him to not be so rough.. or whatever he is doing wrong
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The first time I made out with my current boyfriend it was absolutely TERRIBLE. like, "wow, please don't eat my face," but after a while of kinda avoiding it, I took charge of a make-out session, and ever since then, we've been aaamazing, and have been going out for 7 months. My advice is that before you break up with him or anything like that, be a little assertive, and lead a make out session. It'll give him a change to see how YOU like it, and then he'll be able to learn. If it still isn't good, break up with him because no matter how compatible you guys are personality wise, if you're not compatible sexually it probably won't work out very well.
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i had the same experiance but it was right before my bf's b-day...
and i didnt wanna break-up with him soo i kinda avoided him and then he dumped me.
sooo it was all good.
but if you do want to break up with him...
just wait untill a couple days after christmas and when he calls dont answer it but dont press ignore. just let it ring...
good luck
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something similar has happened to me. as bad as i felt, i just had to break it off with the i was going out with at the time... when i kissed him, i felt absolutely nothing, and i knew we weren't right for each other at all. i think you should give it a little longer, but if you really don't feel anything for him then you shoulnd't lead him on any more.
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